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  • #1
    C.S. Lewis
    “Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained.”
    C.S. Lewis

  • #2
    Robert A. Heinlein
    “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”
    Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land

  • #3
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Sometimes you have to live in precarious and temporary places. Unsuitable places. Wrong places. Sometimes the safe place won't help you.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #4
    P.C. Hodgell
    “That which can be destroyed by the truth should be.”
    P.C. Hodgell, Seeker's Mask

  • #5
    Lauren Oliver
    “But you can build a future out of anything. A scrap, a flicker. The desire to go forward, slowly, one foot at a time. You can build an airy city out of ruins.”
    Lauren Oliver, Pandemonium

  • #6
    Adrienne Rich
    “The serious revolutionary, like the serious artist, can't afford to lead a sentimental or self-deceiving life.”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #7
    Adrienne Rich
    “The unconscious wants truth. It ceases to speak to those who want something else more than truth.”
    Adrienne Rich, On Lies, Secrets, and Silence. Selected Prose 1966-1978

  • #8
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Memory loss is one way of coping with damage.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #9
    John Ashbery
    “This was our ambition: to be small and clear and free.
    Alas, the summer’s energy wanes quickly,
    A moment and it is gone. And no longer
    May we make the necessary arrangements, simple as they are.
    Our star was brighter perhaps when it had water in it.”
    John Ashbery

  • #10
    Jeanette Winterson
    “The body shuts down when it has too much to bear; goes its own way quietly inside, waiting for a better time, leaving you numb and half alive.”
    Jeanette Winterson, The Passion

  • #11
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I didn't know what hate felt like, not the hate that comes after love. It's huge and desperate and it longs to be proved wrong. And every day it's proved right it grows a little more monstrous. If the love was passion, the hate will be obsession. A need to see the once-loved weak and cowed beneath pity. Disgust is close and dignity is far away. The hate is not only for the once loved, it's for yourself too; how could you ever have loved this?”
    Jeanette Winterson, The Passion

  • #12
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Whatever it is that pulls the pin, that hurls you past the boundaries of your own life into a brief and total beauty, even for a moment, it is enough”
    Jeanette Winterson

  • #13
    Jeanette Winterson
    “The truth is that you can divide your heart in all sorts of interesting ways - a little here, a little there, most banked at home, some of it coined out for a flutter. But love cleaves through the mind's mathematics. Love's lengthways splits the heart in two - the heart where you are, the heart where you want to be. How will you heal your heart when love has split it in two?”
    Jeanette Winterson, The PowerBook
    tags: love

  • #14
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I can't do it. I've been here before and it's not a room with a view. The only power I have is the negative power of withdrawal. If I don't withdraw I have no power at all. A relationship where one person has no power or negative power, isn't a relationship, it's the bond between master and slave.”
    Jeanette Winterson, The PowerBook

  • #15
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I will come for you. Roll my strength into a ball for you. Throw myself across chance for you. I will be the bridge or the pulley because you are the dream.”
    Jeanette Winterson

  • #16
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I have noticed that doing the sensible thing is only a good idea when the decision is quite small. For the life-changing things you must risk it.
    And here is the shock- when you risk it, when you do the right thing, when you arrive at the borders of common sense and cross into unknown territory, leaving behind you all the familiar smells and lights; then you do not experience great joy and huge energy.
    You are unhappy. Things get worse.
    It is a time of mourning. Loss. Fear. We battle ourselves through with questions. And then we feel shot and wounded.
    And then all the cowards come out and say, 'See I told you so.' In fact, they have told you nothing.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #17
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Language is what stops the heart exploding.”
    Jeanette Winterson

  • #18
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I was hungry, but I was nervous too. You were so new and I didn't want to frighten you away. I didn't want to frighten myself away.”
    Jeanette Winterson

  • #19
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Every new beginning prompts a return.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Lighthousekeeping

  • #20
    Jeanette Winterson
    “On more than one occasion I have been ready to abandon my whole life for love. To alter everything that makes sense to me and to move into a different world where the only known will be the beloved. Such a sacrifice must be the result of love... or is it that the life itself was already worn out? I had finished with that life, perhaps, and could not admit it, being stubborn or afraid, or perhaps did not known it, habit being a great binder. I think it is often so that those most in need of change choose to fall in love and then throw up their hands and blame it all on fate. But it is not fate, at least, not if fate is something outside of us; it is a choice made in secret after nights of longing.
    ... I may be cynical when I say that very rarely is the beloved more than a shaping spirit for the lover's dreams... To be a muse may be enough. The pain is when the dreams change, as they do, as they must. Suddenly the enchanted city fades and you are left alone again in the windy desert. As for your beloved, she didn't understand you.
    The truth is, you never understood yourself.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Sexing the Cherry

  • #21
    Niyi Osundare
    “One hasn't become a writer until one has distilled writing into
    a habit, and that habit has been forced into an obsession.
    Writing has to be an obsession. It has to be something as organic,
    physiological and psychological as speaking or sleeping or eating.”
    Niyi Osundare

  • #22
    Vladimir Nabokov
    “He broke my heart. You merely broke my life.”
    Vladimir Nabokov, Lolita

  • #23
    Vladimir Nabokov
    “The breaking of a wave cannot explain the whole sea.”
    Vladimir Nabokov, The Real Life of Sebastian Knight

  • #24
    Adrienne Rich
    “Lying is done with words, and also with silence.”
    Adrienne Rich, Women and Honor: Some Notes on Lying

  • #25
    P.D. Ouspensky
    “When one realises one is asleep, at that moment one is already half-awake.”
    P.D. Ouspensky

  • #26
    Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
    “A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born.”
    Antoine de Saint-Exuper

  • #27
    Susan Forward
    “Reality Check
    His lying is not contigent on who you are or what you do. His lying is not your fault. Lying is his choice and his problem, and if he makes that choice with you, he will make it with any other woman he’s with. That doesn’t mean you’re an angel and he’s the devil. It does mean that if he doesn’t like certain things about you, he has many ways to address them besides lying. If there are sexual problems between you, there are many resources available to help you. Nothing can change until you hold him responsible and accountable for lying and stop blaming yourself.

    The lies we tell ourselves to keep from seeing the truth about our lovers don’t feel like lies. They feel comfortable, familiar, and true. We repeat them like a mantra and cling to them like security blankets, hoping to calm ourselves and regain our sense that the world works the way we believe it ought to.
    Self-lies are false friends we look to for comfort and protection—and for a short time they may make us feel better. But we can only keep the truth at bay for so long. Our self-lies can’t erase his lies, and as we’ll see, the longer we try to pretend they can, the more we deepen the hurt.”
    Susan Forward

  • #28
    Susan Forward
    “Love is a verb, not a noun. It is active. Love is not just feelings of passion and romance. It is behavior. If a man lies to you, he is behaving badly and unlovingly toward you. He is disrespecting you and your relationship. The words “I love you” are not enough to make up for that. Don’t kid yourself that they are.”
    Susan Forward, When Your Lover Is a Liar: Healing the Wounds of Deception and Betrayal

  • #29
    Shannon L. Alder
    “If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #30
    Pierre Corneille
    “A liar is always lavish of oaths.”
    Pierre Corneille



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