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  • #1
    “To be passive is to let others decide for you. To be aggressive is to decide for others. To be assertive is to decide for yourself. And to trust that there is enough, that you are enough.”
    Edith Eva Eger, The Choice: Embrace the Possible

  • #2
    Edith Eger
    “Our painful experiences aren’t a liability—they’re a gift. They give us perspective and meaning, an opportunity to find our unique purpose and our strength.”
    Edith Eger, The Choice: Embrace the Possible

  • #3
    Edith Eger
    “Time doesn't heal. It’s what you do with the time. Healing is possible when we choose to take responsibility, when we choose to take risks, and finally, when we choose to release the wound, to let go of the past or the grief.”
    Edith Eger, The Choice: Embrace the Possible

  • #4
    Edith Eger
    “When we seek revenge, even non-violent revenge, we are revolving, not evolving.”
    Edith Eger, The Choice

  • #5
    “How easily a life can become a litany of guilt and regret, a song that keeps echoing with the same chorus, with the inability to forgive ourselves. How easily the life we didn’t live becomes the only life we prize. How easily we are seduced by the fantasy that we are in control, that we were ever in control, that the things we could or should have doneor said have the power, if only we had done or said them, to cure pain, to erase suffering, to vanish loss. How easily we can cling to – worship – the choice we think we could or should have made.”
    Edith Eva Eger, The Choice: Embrace the Possible

  • #6
    Brit Bennett
    “Her death hit in waves. Not a flood, but water lapping steadily at her ankles. You could drown in two inches of water. Maybe grief was the same.”
    Brit Bennett, The Vanishing Half

  • #7
    Brit Bennett
    “She hadn't realized how long it takes to become somebody else, or how lonely it can be living in a world not meant for you.”
    Brit Bennett, The Vanishing Half

  • #8
    Brit Bennett
    “People thought that being one of a kind made you special. No, it just made you lonely. What was special was belonging with someone else.”
    Brit Bennett, The Vanishing Half

  • #9
    Robin Wall Kimmerer
    “Knowing that you love the earth changes you, activates you to defend and protect and celebrate. But when you feel that the earth loves you in return, that feeling transforms the relationship from a one-way street into a sacred bond.”
    Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants

  • #10
    Robin Wall Kimmerer
    “We need acts of restoration, not only for polluted waters and degraded lands, but also for our relationship to the world. We need to restore honor to the way we live, so that when we walk through the world we don’t have to avert our eyes with shame, so that we can hold our heads up high and receive the respectful acknowledgment of the rest of the earth’s beings.”
    Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants

  • #11
    Robin Wall Kimmerer
    “Even a wounded world is feeding us. Even a wounded world holds us, giving us moments of wonder and joy. I choose joy over despair. Not because I have my head in the sand, but because joy is what the earth gives me daily and I must return the gift.”
    Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants

  • #12
    Robin Wall Kimmerer
    “In the Western tradition there is a recognized hierarchy of beings, with, of course, the human being on top—the pinnacle of evolution, the darling of Creation—and the plants at the bottom. But in Native ways of knowing, human people are often referred to as “the younger brothers of Creation.” We say that humans have the least experience with how to live and thus the most to learn—we must look to our teachers among the other species for guidance. Their wisdom is apparent in the way that they live. They teach us by example. They’ve been on the earth far longer than we have been, and have had time to figure things out.”
    Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants

  • #13
    Bessel van der Kolk
    “Traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies: The past is alive in the form of gnawing interior discomfort. Their bodies are constantly bombarded by visceral warning signs, and, in an attempt to control these processes, they often become expert at ignoring their gut feelings and in numbing awareness of what is played out inside. They learn to hide from their selves.” (p.97)”
    Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

  • #14
    Bessel van der Kolk
    “As long as you keep secrets and suppress information, you are fundamentally at war with yourself…The critical issue is allowing yourself to know what you know. That takes an enormous amount of courage.”
    Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

  • #15
    Bessel van der Kolk
    “Being able to feel safe with other people is probably the single most important aspect of mental health; safe connections are fundamental to meaningful and satisfying lives.”
    Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

  • #16
    Kate Elizabeth Russell
    “People will risk everything for a little bit of something beautiful.”
    Kate Elizabeth Russell, My Dark Vanessa

  • #17
    Kate Elizabeth Russell
    “The excuses we make for them are outrageous, but they’re nothing compared with the ones we make for ourselves.”
    Kate Elizabeth Russell, My Dark Vanessa

  • #18
    Kate Elizabeth Russell
    “Somehow I sensed what was coming for me even then. Really, though, what girl doesn’t? It looms over you, that threat of violence. They drill the danger into your head until it starts to feel inevitable. You grow up wondering when it’s finally going to happen.”
    Kate Elizabeth Russell, My Dark Vanessa

  • #19
    Kate Elizabeth Russell
    “I wonder how much victimhood they’d be willing to grant a girl like me.”
    Kate Elizabeth Russell, My Dark Vanessa

  • #20
    Kate Elizabeth Russell
    “She didn't understand the horror of watching your body star in something your mind didn't agree to.”
    Kate Elizabeth Russell, My Dark Vanessa

  • #21
    “To love someone is firstly to confess: I'm prepared to be devastated by you.”
    Billy-Ray Belcourt, A History of My Brief Body
    tags: love

  • #22
    Robin Wall Kimmerer
    “This is really why I made my daughters learn to garden—so they would always have a mother to love them, long after I am gone.”
    Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants

  • #23
    Lana Del Rey
    “I stepped on a bird/ cried in my new boyfriend's arms/ to live is to kill”
    Lana Del Rey, Violet Bent Backwards Over the Grass

  • #24
    Lana Del Rey
    “I picked San Francisco because the man who doesn’t love me lives there”
    Lana Del Rey, Violet Bent Backwards Over the Grass

  • #25
    Bryan Stevenson
    “Proximity has taught me some basic and humbling truths, including this vital lesson: Each of us is more than the worst thing we’ve ever done. My work with the poor and the incarcerated has persuaded me that the opposite of poverty is not wealth; the opposite of poverty is justice. Finally, I’ve come to believe that the true measure of our commitment to justice, the character of our society, our commitment to the rule of law, fairness, and equality cannot be measured by how we treat the rich, the powerful, the privileged, and the respected among us. The true measure of our character is how we treat the poor, the disfavored, the accused, the incarcerated, and the condemned.”
    Bryan Stevenson, Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption

  • #26
    Bryan Stevenson
    “There is a strength, a power even, in understanding brokenness, because embracing our brokenness creates a need and desire for mercy, and perhaps a corresponding need to show mercy. When you experience mercy, you learn things that are hard to learn otherwise. You see things you can't otherwise see; you hear things you can't otherwise hear. You begin to recognize the humanity that resides in each of us.”
    Bryan Stevenson, Just Mercy

  • #27
    Bryan Stevenson
    “We are all implicated when we allow other people to be mistreated. An absence of compassion can corrupt the decency of a community, a state, a nation. Fear and anger can make us vindictive and abusive, unjust and unfair, until we all suffer from the absence of mercy and we condemn ourselves as much as we victimize others. The closer we get to mass incarceration and extreme levels of punishment, the more I believe it's necessary to recognize that we all need mercy, we all need justice, and-perhaps-we all need some measure of unmerited grace.”
    Bryan Stevenson, Just Mercy

  • #28
    Bryan Stevenson
    “The power of just mercy is that it belongs to the undeserving. It’s when mercy is least expected that it’s most potent—strong enough to break the cycle of victimization and victimhood, retribution and suffering. It has the power to heal the psychic harm and injuries that lead to aggression and violence, abuse of power, mass incarceration.”
    Bryan Stevenson, Just Mercy

  • #29
    Marshall B. Rosenberg
    “At the core of all anger is a need that is not being fulfilled.”
    Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life

  • #30
    Paul Kalanithi
    “You can’t ever reach perfection, but you can believe in an asymptote toward which you are ceaselessly striving.”
    Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air



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