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  • #1
    Gillian Flynn
    “The ones who are not soul-mated – the ones who have settled – are even more dismissive of my singleness: It’s not that hard to find someone to marry, they say. No relationship is perfect, they say – they, who make do with dutiful sex and gassy bedtime rituals, who settle for TV as conversation, who believe that husbandly capitulation – yes, honey, okay, honey – is the same as concord. He’s doing what you tell him to do because he doesn’t care enough to argue, I think. Your petty demands simply make him feel superior, or resentful, and someday he will fuck his pretty, young coworker who asks nothing of him, and you will actually be shocked.

    Give me a man with a little fight in him, a man who calls me on my bullshit. (But who also kind of likes my bullshit.) And yet: Don’t land me in one of those relationships where we’re always pecking at each other, disguising insults as jokes, rolling our eyes and ‘playfully’ scrapping in front of our friends, hoping to lure them to our side of an argument they could not care less about. Those awful if only relationships: This marriage would be great if only… and you sense the if only list is a lot longer than either of them realizes.

    So I know I am right not to settle, but it doesn’t make me feel better as my friends pair off and I stay home on Friday night with a bottle of wine and make myself an extravagant meal and tell myself, This is perfect, as if I’m the one dating me. As I go to endless rounds of parties and bar nights, perfumed and sprayed and hopeful, rotating myself around the room like some dubious dessert. I go on dates with men who are nice and good-looking and smart – perfect-on-paper men who make me feel like I’m in a foreign land, trying to explain myself, trying to make myself known. Because isn’t that the point of every relationship: to be known by someone else, to be understood? He gets me. She gets me. Isn’t that the simple magic phrase?

    So you suffer through the night with the perfect-on-paper man – the stutter of jokes misunderstood, the witty remarks lobbed and missed. Or maybe he understands that you’ve made a witty remark but, unsure of what to do with it, he holds it in his hand like some bit of conversational phlegm he will wipe away later. You spend another hour trying to find each other, to recognise each other, and you drink a little too much and try a little too hard. And you go home to a cold bed and think, That was fine. And your life is a long line of fine.”
    Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl
    tags: love

  • #2
    Gillian Flynn
    “For several years, I had been bored. Not a whining, restless child's boredom (although I was not above that) but a dense, blanketing malaise. It seemed to me that there was nothing new to be discovered ever again. Our society was utterly, ruinously derivative (although the word derivative as a criticism is itself derivative). We were the first human beings who would never see anything for the first time. We stare at the wonders of the world, dull-eyed, underwhelmed. Mona Lisa, the Pyramids, the Empire State Building. Jungle animals on attack, ancient icebergs collapsing, volcanoes erupting. I can't recall a single amazing thing I have seen firsthand that I didn't immediately reference to a movie or TV show. A fucking commercial. You know the awful singsong of the blasé: Seeeen it. I've literally seen it all, and the worst thing, the thing that makes me want to blow my brains out, is: The secondhand experience is always better. The image is crisper, the view is keener, the camera angle and the soundtrack manipulate my emotions in a way reality can't anymore. I don't know that we are actually human at this point, those of us who are like most of us, who grew up with TV and movies and now the Internet. If we are betrayed, we know the words to say; when a loved one dies, we know the words to say. If we want to play the stud or the smart-ass or the fool, we know the words to say. We are all working from the same dog-eared script.

    It's a very difficult era in which to be a person, just a real, actual person, instead of a collection of personality traits selected from an endless Automat of characters.

    And if all of us are play-acting, there can be no such thing as a soul mate, because we don't have genuine souls.

    It had gotten to the point where it seemed like nothing matters, because I'm not a real person and neither is anyone else.

    I would have done anything to feel real again.”
    Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

  • #3
    Gillian Flynn
    “I often don't say things out loud, even when I should. I contain and compartmentalize to a disturbing degree: In my belly-basement are hundreds of bottles of rage, despair, fear, but you'd never guess from looking at me.”
    Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

  • #4
    Shakieb Orgunwall
    “She was chaos and beauty intertwined. A tornado of roses from divine.”
    Shakieb Orgunwall

  • #5
    Ilona Andrews
    “One day, she’d find a way to live her life to the fullest. She was sure of it. She just had no idea how she would manage it.”
    Ilona Andrews, On the Edge

  • #6
    Akshay Vasu
    “She was a poem and a painting too. Everything she said sounded like a song, every silence was the music too.”
    Akshay Vasu

  • #7
    Roy T. Bennett
    “Believe in Your Heart

    Believe in your heart that you're meant to live a life full of passion, purpose, magic and miracles.”
    Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

  • #8
    Diane Duane
    “Believe something and the Universe is on its way to being changed. Because you've changed, by believing. Once you've changed, other things start to follow. Isn't that the way it works?”
    Diane Duane, So You Want to Be a Wizard

  • #9
    Charles de Lint
    “I do believe in an everyday sort of magic -- the inexplicable connectedness we sometimes experience with places, people, works of art and the like; the eerie appropriateness of moments of synchronicity; the whispered voice, the hidden presence, when we think we're alone.”
    Charles de Lint

  • #10
    Charles de Lint
    “I want to be magic. I want to touch the heart of the world and make it smile. I want to be a friend of elves and live in a tree. Or under a hill. I want to marry a moonbeam and hear the stars sing. I don't want to pretend at magic anymore. I want to be magic.”
    Charles de Lint

  • #11
    Nikki Rowe
    “Wild woman are an unexplainable spark of life. They ooze freedom and seek awareness, they belong to nobody but themselves yet give a piece of who they are to everyone they meet.
    If you have met one, hold on to her, she'll allow you into her chaos but she'll also show you her magic.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #12
    Nikki Rowe
    “You can love her with everything you have and she still wont belong to you. She will run wild with you, beside you with everystep but let me tell you something about women who run with wolves, their fierce hearts dont settle between walls and their instinct is stronger than upbringing. Love her wild or leave her there.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #13
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés
    “Practice listening to your intuition, your inner voice; ask questions; be curious; see what you see; hear what you hear; and then act upon what you know to be true. These intuitive powers were given to your soul at birth.”
    Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves

  • #14
    Nikki Rowe
    “Be a woman of confidence, not cockiness.
    Know your boundaries, set no limits.
    Speak your kindness and turn your back to conformed groups.
    The only way to be a woman of change in this world, is to walk what you talk and set your own soul free first.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #15
    Nikki Rowe
    “You're growing and that scares people, it frightens the shit out of them because they know if they don't step up within themselves you'll move forward with out them. When this happens, don't you dare settle to suit the mould - have courage to live without one.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #16
    Nikki Rowe
    “I enjoy the wild things,
    Call me at 3 am and tell me you're waiting at my door. Give me sunsets in different cities and road trips on dirt tracks not sighted on maps.
    Whiskey for breakfast & cheap thrills for dinner.
    Give me happiness in a smile and nothing of certainty but the way we make eachother feel.
    There so much life in living while you're alive & id give absolutely anything to have it all with you.”
    Nikki rowe

  • #17
    Adrienne Enns
    “My wild spirit is my deepest truth, my greatest expression and my highest love. It cannot be contained. It defies rules and explanations and logic. I embrace my untamed spirit and unleash her into a world that is meant to be filled with joy and love and laughter. I feel the wind in my hair, lift my gaze to the sky, raise my arms and invite the thunder. I remember how great it feels to be exposed and wildly alive.”
    Adrienne Enns, Intentional Days: Creating Your Life on Purpose

  • #18
    Nikki Rowe
    “You can't break a woman like that.
    She carries an esoteric mind with an oracle soul, she's fiercely connected to spirit whilst dancing the human dance.”
    Nikki rowe

  • #19
    Jeanette LeBlanc
    “I’ve lost my wild heart once. Twice. Too many times to count.

    I’ve lost her most often when I’ve forgotten myself, when I’ve denied my own truths, when I’ve pushed down the need to create for so long that my heart...she finds better things to do.

    The funny thing is, that the losing and the finding are interwoven.

    We must lose our wild hearts from time to time, I believe.

    We must so that we know why we need them.

    We must so that we remember that in order to be found we must go into the wilderness.
    Sometimes, it is only in the getting lost that we can find our way back home.”
    Jeanette LeBlanc, Wild Heart Writing: A 30-Day Course to Rediscover Your Deepest Truths

  • #20
    Nikki Rowe
    “Some days i am the artist,
    Other days i am art and
    When life gets real weird,
    I become both.”
    Nikki rowe

  • #21
    “Baby, I'm not afraid. I've been to hell and back. I'm a free spirit, a wild child and a renegade.”
    Mishi McCoy

  • #22
    Nikki Rowe
    “They'll look for you in a field of roses, having never really known you at all. For you'll never be found in a perfectly tendered garden, you're an untameable wildflower in this wild world.”
    Nikki rowe

  • #23
    Nikki Rowe
    “I am ever changing, evolving into the wilder version of myself. I have little rules but many morals, I will set my soul on fire to attain the things I love.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #24
    Nikki Rowe
    “I’ll gift you with feelings you didn’t know were there, that’s the pleasure of crossing paths with a mystic.”
    Nikki rowe

  • #25
    Nikki Rowe
    “I am apart of the group of wild ones, us women who speak to the moon.
    We crave passion, live with wide open hearts and we wear our hearts on ur sleeves too.
    Often told we are too much, but taming our spirit isn’t something we’ll ever do.
    Love us as we are, we create our own rules.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #26
    Nikki Rowe
    “You won't forget a woman like her, easily anyway.
    Once you cross paths with Magic it's hard to see life the same.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #27
    Nikki Rowe
    “It's ok to reinvent yourself as many times as it takes to live out your most authentic self.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #28
    Brooke Hampton
    “I am not delicate.
    I am skinny dipping at 2am;
    I am dancing naked under the full moon and playing in the mud.
    I am the reverberating echoes of a curse word ricocheting off the steeply sloping mountain you thought I couldn’t climb;
    I am bare skin in the deepest depths of winter; I am the song of courage, and the melody of freedom you long to sing.
    I am a fearless mother.
    I am a passionate lover; a devoted friend.
    I am the healer, the witch, the nurturing of your wounds.
    I am the heat of a wildfire, the rage of a storm.
    I am strong.
    Delicate things are pretty-cute, even.
    But I am not delicate.
    I am wild, fierce and unpredictable.
    I am breathtaking.
    I am beautiful.
    I am sacred.”
    Brooke Hampton

  • #29
    Nikki Rowe
    “My favourite conversations are those with the universe, I speak all that I am and the most beautiful response flies a shooting star across the sky, it's proof ~ vibrations of light have the capacity to change our world.”
    Nikki Rowe

  • #30
    Jan Porter
    “One woman is a tiny divine spark in a timeless sisterhood tapestry collective;
    All of us are Wild Women.”
    Jan Porter, "Soul Skin, Woman have you had enough?" fiction by; Jan Porter



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