“Parents die, and children go on living. It is statistically sound to say that this is the case for the majority of the population.
But sometimes children die before their parents.
Children die, and parents go on living. Those parents go on living because they do not have many options they either live or follow their children down to Hades.
Children die, and parents go on living. Those parents go on living because death, though a hard, hard thing, is not always the hardest thing. Both my children chose a hard thing. We are left with the hardest:to live after their deaths.”
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Yiyun Li,
Things in Nature Merely Grow