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  • #1
    Deb Caletti
    “It starts so young, and I'm angry about that. The garbage we're taught. About love, about what's "romantic." Look at so many of the so-called romantic figures in books and movies. Do we ever stop and think how many of them would cause serious and drastic unhappiness after The End? Why are sick and dangerous personality types so often shown a passionate and tragic and something to be longed for when those are the very ones you should run for your life from? Think about it. Heathcliff. Romeo. Don Juan. Jay Gatsby. Rochester. Mr. Darcy. From the rigid control freak in The Sound of Music to all the bad boys some woman goes running to the airport to catch in the last minute of every romantic comedy. She should let him leave. Your time is so valuable, and look at these guys--depressive and moody and violent and immature and self-centered. And what about the big daddy of them all, Prince Charming? What was his secret life? We dont know anything about him, other then he looks good and comes to the rescue.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #2
    Deb Caletti
    “This is what I know. Don't settle for 40, 50, or even 80 percent. A relationship-it shouldn't be too small or too tight or even a little scratchy. It shouldn't take up space in your closet out of guilty conscience or convenience or a moment of desire. Do you hear me? It shold be perfect for you. It should be lasting. Wait. wait for 100 percent.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #3
    Deb Caletti
    “You've got to have someone who loves your body. Who doesn't define you, but sees you. Who loves what he sees. Who you don't have to struggle to be good enough for.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #4
    Deb Caletti
    “We are all a volume on a shelf of a library, a story unto ourselves, never possibly described with one word or even very accurately with thousands. A person is never as quiet or unrestrained as they seem, or as bad or good, as vulnerable or as strong, as sweet or as fiesty; we are thickly layered, page upon lying page, behind simple covers. And love - it is not the book itself, but the binding. It can rip us apart or hold us together.”
    Deb Caletti, Honey, Baby, Sweetheart

  • #5
    Deb Caletti
    “We should not give away a moment to anyone who does not deserve it.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #6
    Deb Caletti
    “I've heard that people stand in bad situations because a relationship like that gets turned up by degrees. It is said that a frog will jump out of a pot of boiling water. Place him in a pot and turn it up a little at a time, and he will stay until he is boiled to death. Us frogs understand this.”
    Deb Caletti, Stay

  • #7
    Deb Caletti
    “And pity--people who inspire it in you are actually very powerful people. To get someone else to take care of you, to feel sorry for you--that takes a lot of strength, smarts, manipulation. Very powerful people.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #8
    Deb Caletti
    “Your sibling, after all, is the only other person in the world who understands how fucked up your parents made you.”
    Deb Caletti, The Nature of Jade

  • #9
    Deb Caletti
    “It took me years to figure out that upset was upset, and tumultuousness was not the same thing as passion. Love isn't drama.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #10
    Deb Caletti
    “The most basic and somehow forgettable thing is this: Love is not pain. Love is goodness. And real love--it's less shiny than solid and simple.”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #11
    Deb Caletti
    “You can forget that other people carry pieces of your own story around in their heads. I've always thought--put together all those random pieces form everyone who's ever known you from your parents to the guy who once sat next to you on a bus, and you'd probably see a fuller version of your life than you even did while living it.”
    Deb Caletti, Stay

  • #12
    Deb Caletti
    “Funny the only two times we use the phrase "seeing someone" are when we are referring to being in a a relationship or getting psychological help.”
    Deb Caletti, Stay

  • #13
    Deb Caletti
    “A dog — a dog teaches us so much about love. Wordless, imperfect love; love that is constant, love that is simple
    goodness, love that forgives not only bad singing and embarrassments, but misunderstandings and harsh words.
    Love that sits and stays and stays and stays, until it finally becomes its own forever. Love, stronger than death. A dog is a four-legged reminder that love comes and time passes and then your heart breaks.”
    Deb Caletti, The Story of Us

  • #14
    Deb Caletti
    “Too often in my life, love has been defined as "humiliation with occasional roses".”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #15
    Audrey Hepburn
    “I'm an introvert... I love being by myself, love being outdoors, love taking a long walk with my dogs and looking at the trees, flowers, the sky.”
    Audrey Hepburn

  • #16
    Markus Zusak
    “She soon says, "You're my best friend, Ed."
    You can kill a man with those words.
    No gun.
    No bullets.
    Just words and a girl.”
    Markus Zusak, I Am the Messenger

  • #17
    Ernest Hemingway
    “I didn't want to kiss you goodbye — that was the trouble — I wanted to kiss you good night — and there's a lot of difference.”
    Ernest Hemingway

  • #18
    “Okay. The story is about a little wave, bobbing along in the ocean, having a grand old time. He's enjoying the wind and the fresh air-until he notices the other waves in front of him, crashing against the shore. "My God, this is terrible," the wave says. "Look what's going to happen to me!"
    Then along comes another wave. It sees the first wave, looking grim, and it says to him, "Why do you look so sad?"
    The first wave says, "You don't understand! We're all going to crash! All of us waves are going to be nothing! Isn't it terrible?"
    The second wave says, "No, you don't understand. You're not a wave, you're part of the ocean.”
    Morrie Schwartz

  • #19
    Tyler Knott Gregson
    “Thank You"
    she whispered soft
    like it may
    blow away
    with anything stronger
    than a breathe,
    "for fixing me."
    "You,"
    I sputtered out
    like the first sound
    of morning,
    "were never
    broken.”
    Tyler Knott Gregson, Chasers of the Light: Poems from the Typewriter Series

  • #20
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes you'll put up a good fight and lose. Sometimes you'll hold on really hard and realize there is no choice but to let go. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #21
    Cheryl Strayed
    “What if I forgave myself? I thought. What if I forgave myself even though I'd done something I shouldn't have? What if I was a liar and a cheat and there was no excuse for what I'd done other than because it was what I wanted and needed to do? What if I was sorry, but if I could go back in time I wouldn't do anything differently than I had done? What if I'd actually wanted to fuck every one of those men? What if heroin taught me something? What if yes was the right answer instead of no? What if what made me do all those things everyone thought I shouldn't have done was what also had got me here? What if I was never redeemed? What if I already was?”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #22
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I knew that if I allowed fear to overtake me, my journey was doomed. Fear, to a great extent, is born of a story we tell ourselves, and so I chose to tell myself a different story from the one women are told. I decided I was safe. I was strong. I was brave. Nothing could vanquish me.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #23
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I'll never know, and neither will you, of the life you don't choose. We'll only know that whatever that sister life was, it was important and beautiful and not ours. It was the ghost ship that didn't carry us. There's nothing to do but salute it from the shore.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #24
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can't cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch it away or even therapy it away. It's just there, and you have to survive it. You have to endure it. You have to live through it and love it and move on and be better for it and run as far as you can in the direction of your best and happiest dreams across the bridge that was built by your own desire to heal.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #25
    Cheryl Strayed
    “The useless days will add up to something. The shitty waitressing jobs. The hours writing in your journal. The long meandering walks. The hours reading poetry and story collections and novels and dead people’s diaries and wondering about sex and God and whether you should shave under your arms or not. These things are your becoming.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #26
    Cheryl Strayed
    “You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don’t waste your time on anything else.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #27
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I’m a free spirit who never had the balls to be free.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #28
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Whatever happens to you belongs to you. Make it yours. Feed it to yourself even if it feels impossible to swallow. Let it nurture you, because it will.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #29
    Cheryl Strayed
    “You give a lot of great advice about what to do. Do you have any advice of what not to do?


    Don’t do what you know on a gut level to be the wrong thing to do. Don’t stay when you know you should go or go when you know you should stay. Don’t fight when you should hold steady or hold steady when you should fight. Don’t focus on the short-term fun instead of the long-term fall out. Don’t surrender all your joy for an idea you used to have about yourself that isn’t true anymore. Don’t seek joy at all costs. I know it’s hard to know what to do when you have a conflicting set of emotions and desires, but it’s not as hard as we pretend it is. Saying it’s hard is ultimately a justification to do whatever seems like the easiest thing to do—have the affair, stay at that horrible job, end a friendship over a slight, keep loving someone who treats you terribly. I don’t think there’s a single dumbass thing I’ve done in my adult life that I didn’t know was a dumbass thing to do while I was doing it. Even when I justified it to myself—as I did every damn time—the truest part of me knew I was doing the wrong thing. Always. As the years pass, I’m learning how to better trust my gut and not do the wrong thing, but every so often I get a harsh reminder that I’ve still got work to do.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #30
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I made it the mantra of those days; when I paused before yet another series of switchbacks or skidded down knee-jarring slopes, when patches of flesh peeled off my feet along with my socks, when I lay alone and lonely in my tent at night I asked, often out loud: Who is tougher than me?

    The answer was always the same, and even when I knew absolutely there was no way on this earth that it was true, I said it anyway: No one.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail



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