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  • #1
    Brené Brown
    “DIG Deep = "get deliberate, inspired, & going"

    Deliberate in their thoughts and behaviors through prayer, meditation, or simply by setting intentions;

    Inspired to make new and different choices;

    Going. They take action.”
    Brene Brown PhD LMSW

  • #2
    Ann Leckie
    “Luxury always comes at someone else’s expense. One of the many advantages of civilization is that one doesn’t generally have to see that, if one doesn’t wish. You’re free to enjoy its benefits without troubling your conscience.”
    Ann Leckie, Ancillary Justice

  • #3
    Ann Leckie
    “Thoughts are ephemeral, they evaporate in the moment they occur, unless they are given action and material form. Wishes and intentions, the same. Meaningless, unless they impel you to one choice or another, some deed or course of action, however insignificant. Thoughts that lead to action can be dangerous. Thoughts that do not, mean less than nothing.”
    Ann Leckie, Ancillary Justice

  • #4
    Ann Leckie
    “If you’re going to make a desperate, hopeless act of defiance you should make it a good one.”
    Ann Leckie, Ancillary Justice

  • #5
    Ann Leckie
    “When they behave properly, you will say there is no problem. When they complain loudly, you will say they cause their own problems with their impropriety. And when they are driven to extremes, you say you will not reward such actions. What will it take for you to listen?”
    Ann Leckie, Ancillary Sword

  • #6
    Ann Leckie
    “Without feelings insignificant decisions become excruciating attempts to compare endless arrays of inconsequential things. It's just easier to handle those with emotions.”
    Ann Leckie, Ancillary Justice

  • #7
    Ann Leckie
    “The problem is knowing when what you are about to do will make a difference. I’m not only speaking of the small actions that, cumulatively, over time, or in great numbers, alter the course of events in ways too chaotic or subtle to trace ... if everyone were to consider all the possible consequences of all one’s possible choices, no one would move a millimetre, or even dare to breathe for fear of the ultimate results.”
    Ann Leckie, Ancillary Justice

  • #8
    Brené Brown
    “Now I can lean into joy, even when it makes me feel tender and vulnerable. In fact, I expect tender and vulnerable. Joy is as thorny and sharp as any of the dark emotions. To love someone fiercely, to believe in something with your whole heart, to celebrate a fleeting moment in time, to fully engage in a life that doesn’t come with guarantees—these are risks that involve vulnerability and often pain. When we lose our tolerance for discomfort, we lose joy. In fact, addiction research shows us that an intensely positive experience is as likely to cause relapse as an intensely painful experience.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Suppose to Be and Embrace Who You Are: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

  • #9
    Brené Brown
    “We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection.

    Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them – we can only love others as much as we love ourselves.

    Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, healed and rare.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #10
    Brené Brown
    “Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen.”
    Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #11
    Brené Brown
    “We cannot selectively numb emotions, when we numb the painful emotions, we also numb the positive emotions.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #12
    Brené Brown
    “The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it. It's our fear of the dark that casts our joy into the shadows.”
    Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #13
    Brené Brown
    “Faith is a place of mystery, where we find the courage to believe in what we cannot see and the strength to let go of our fear of uncertainty.”
    Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #14
    Brené Brown
    “Perfectionism is a self destructive and addictive belief system that fuels this primary thought: If I look perfect, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgment, and blame.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #15
    Brené Brown
    “To love someone fiercely, to believe in something with your whole heart, to celebrate a fleeting moment in time, to fully engage in a life that doesn’t come with guarantees – these are risks that involve vulnerability and often pain. But, I’m learning that recognizing and leaning into the discomfort of vulnerability teaches us how to live with joy, gratitude and grace.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #16
    Brené Brown
    “Healthy striving is self-focused: "How can I improve?" Perfectionism is other-focused: "What will they think?”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #17
    Brené Brown
    “When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #18
    Brené Brown
    “Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #19
    Brené Brown
    “Spirituality is recognizing and celebrating that we are all inextricably connected to each other by a power greater than all of us, and that our connection to that power and to one another is grounded in love and compassion. Practicing spirituality brings a sense of perspective, meaning and purpose to our lives.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #20
    Brené Brown
    “Worthiness doesn't have prerequisites.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #21
    Brené Brown
    “Until we can receive with an open heart, we're never really giving with an open heart. When we attach judgment to receiving help, we knowingly or unknowingly attach judgment to giving help.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #22
    Brené Brown
    “One of the greatest barriers to connection is the cultural importance we place on "going it alone." Somehow we've come to equate success with not needing anyone. Many of us are willing to extend a helping hand, but we're very reluctant to reach out for help when we need it ourselves. It's as if we've divided the world into "those who offer help" and "those who need help." The truth is that we are both.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection
    tags: help

  • #23
    Brené Brown
    “Shame works like the zoom lens on a camera. When we are feeling shame, the camera is zoomed in tight and all we see is our flawed selves, alone and struggling.(page 68)”
    Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #24
    Brené Brown
    “The universe is not short on wake-up calls. We’re just quick to hit the snooze button.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #25
    Brené Brown
    “Here's what is truly at the heart of wholeheartedness: Worthy now. Not if, not when, we're worthy of love and belonging now. Right this minute. As is.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #26
    Brené Brown
    “E.E Cummings wrote, "To be nobody-but-yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody but yourself - means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight- and never stop fighting.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #27
    Howard Thurman
    “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”
    Howard Thurman

  • #28
    Brené Brown
    “Cruelty is easy, cheap and rampant.”
    Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #29
    Brené Brown
    “Sufficiency isn't two steps up from poverty or one step short of abundance. It isn't a measure of barely enough or more than enough. Sufficiency isn't an amount at all. It is an experience, a context we generate, a declaration, a knowing that there is enough, and that we are enough.”
    Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

  • #30
    Brené Brown
    “To become fully human means learning to turn my gratitude for being alive into some concrete common good. It means growing gentler toward human weakness. It means practicing forgiveness of my and everyone else's hourly failures to live up to divine standards. It means learning to forget myself on a regular basis in order to attend to the other selves in my vicinity. It means living so that "I'm only human" does not become an excuse for anything. It means receiving the human condition as blessing and not curse, in all its achingly frail and redemptive reality.”
    Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection



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