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  • #1
    Dale Carnegie
    “A man convinced against his will
    Is of the same opinion still”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #2
    Dale Carnegie
    “Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #3
    Dale Carnegie
    “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #4
    Dale Carnegie
    “When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and vanity.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #5
    Dale Carnegie
    “Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #6
    Dale Carnegie
    “Everybody in the world is seeking happiness—and there is one sure way to find it. That is by controlling your thoughts. Happiness doesn't depend on outward conditions. It depends on inner conditions.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #7
    Dale Carnegie
    “Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, ‘I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you.’ That is why dogs make such a hit. They are so glad to see us that they almost jump out of their skins. So, naturally, we are glad to see them.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #8
    Dale Carnegie
    “Personally I am very fond of strawberries and cream, but I have found that for some strange reason, fish prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn’t think about what I wanted. I thought about what they wanted. I didn't bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm or grasshopper in front of the fish and said: "Wouldn't you like to have that?"

    Why not use the same common sense when fishing for people?”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #9
    Dale Carnegie
    “To be interesting, be interested.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #10
    Dale Carnegie
    “I have come to the conclusion that there is only one way under high heaven to get the best of an argument— and that is to avoid it. Avoid it as you would avoid rattlesnakes and earthquakes.”
    Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

  • #11
    Walter Isaacson
    “If you want to live your life in a creative way, as an artist, you have to not look back too much. You have to be willing to take whatever you’ve done and whoever you were and throw them away. The more the outside world tries to reinforce an image of you, the harder it is to continue to be an artist, which is why a lot of times, artists have to say, “Bye. I have to go. I’m going crazy and I’m getting out of here.” And they go and hibernate somewhere. Maybe later they re-emerge a little differently.”
    Walter Isaacson, Steve Jobs

  • #12
    Walter Isaacson
    “If you act like you can do something, then it will work.”
    Walter Isaacson, Steve Jobs

  • #13
    James D. Watson
    “One could not be a successful scientist without realizing that , in contrast to the popular conception supported by newspapers and mothers of scientists, a goodly number of scientists are not only narrow-minded and dull, but also just stupid.”
    James D. Watson, The Double Helix

  • #14
    James D. Watson
    “Worrying about complications before ruling out the possibility that the answer was simple would have been damned foolishness.”
    James D. Watson, The Double Helix: A Personal Account of the Discovery of the Structure of DNA

  • #15
    James D. Watson
    “I am sure this occasionally bothered Francis, even though he obviously knew that most High Table life is dominated by pedantic, middle aged men incapable of either amusing or educating him in anything worthwhile.”
    James D. Watson, The Double Helix

  • #16
    Bill Browder
    “It happened in all walks of life: business, real estate, health care, the school yard, you name it. Any where that bad things happened, people would not get involved in order to save their own skin. It wasn't that people weren't civic-minded. It was just that the price for intervention would be punishment, not praise.”
    Bill Browder, Red Notice: A True Story of High Finance, Murder, and One Man's Fight for Justice

  • #17
    Bill Browder
    “if you didn’t get involved in anything controversial—politics, human rights, or anything to do with Chechnya—then you could get on with life and enjoy the fruits of the authoritarian regime. The”
    Bill Browder, Red Notice: A True Story of High Finance, Murder, and One Man’s Fight for Justice

  • #18
    Robert A. Glover
    “1If it frightens you, do it.   2Don't settle. Every time you settle, you get exactly what you settled for.   3Put yourself first.   4No matter what happens, you will handle it.   5Whatever you do, do it 100%.   6If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got.   7You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness.   8Ask for what you want.   9If what you are doing isn't working, try something different. 10Be clear and direct. 11Learn to say "no." 12Don't make excuses. 13If you are an adult, you are old enough to make your own rules. 14Let people help you. 15Be honest with yourself. 16Do not let anyone treat you badly. No one. Ever. 17Remove yourself from a bad situation instead of waiting for the situation to change. 18Don't tolerate the intolerable — ever. 19Stop blaming. Victims never succeed. 20Live with integrity. Decide what feels right to you, then do it. 21Accept the consequences of your actions. 22Be good to yourself. 23Think "abundance." 24Face difficult situations and conflict head on. 25Don't do anything in secret. 26Do it now. 27Be willing to let go of what you have so you can get what you want. 28Have fun. If you are not having fun, something is wrong. 29Give yourself room to fail. There are no mistakes, only learning experiences. 30Control is an illusion. Let go; let life happen. It”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #19
    Robert A. Glover
    “there is plenty for everyone. Everything we need is flowing by us — all we have to do is get out of the way of our own small thinking and let it come. Look”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #20
    Robert A. Glover
    “In dog obedience school we learned that if you want an undesirable behavior to go away, you stop paying attention to it.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #21
    Robert A. Glover
    “An integrated male possesses many of the following attributes: •He has a strong sense of self. He likes himself just as he is. •He takes responsibility for getting his own needs met. •He is comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality. •He has integrity. He does what is right, not what is expedient. •He is a leader. He is willing to provide for and protect those he cares about. •He is clear, direct, and expressive of his feelings. •He can be nurturing and giving without caretaking or problem-solving. •He knows how to set boundaries and is not afraid to work through conflict.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #22
    Robert A. Glover
    “List one fear that has been controlling your life. Once you decide to confront the fear, begin repeating to yourself, "I can handle it. No matter what happens, I will handle it." Keep repeating this mantra until you take action and stop feeling fear.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #23
    Robert A. Glover
    “Surrendering Helps Nice Guys Reclaim Their Personal Power Ironically, the most important aspect of reclaiming personal power and getting what one wants in love and life is surrender. Surrender doesn't mean giving up, it means letting go of what one can't change and changing what one can. Letting go doesn't mean not caring or not trying. Letting go means letting be. It is like opening up a tightly clenched fist and releasing the tension stored inside. At first the fingers will want to return to their former clenched position. The hand almost has to be retrained to open up and relax. So it is with learning how to surrender and let go.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #24
    Robert A. Glover
    “covert contracts and caretaking only lead to frustration and resentment.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #25
    Robert A. Glover
    “Fathers need to take their sons hunting and fishing, work on cars with them, take them to work, coach their teams, take them to ball games, work out with them, take them on business trips, and let them tag along with them when they go out with the guys. All of these activities help boys move successfully into the male world. This process is not just limited to a man's biological sons. Nice Guys can get involved with young relatives, scouts, sports teams, school activities, or big brothers.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #26
    Robert A. Glover
    “When recovering Nice Guys decide they will no longer settle for anything less than good sex, they begin to take responsibility for doing something different. •​They let go of the concept of being a great lover. •​They practice being clear and direct. •​They choose available partners. •​They don't settle for scraps. •​They decide that bad sex is not better than no sex!”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #27
    Robert A. Glover
    “Discovering passion and purpose requires figuring out what works and what doesn't. Mature, successful people establish their on rules. These rules are measured by only one standard: do they work?”
    Robert A. Glover

  • #28
    Robert A. Glover
    “I'm a chameleon," revealed Todd, a 30-year-old single Nice Guy. "I will become whatever I believe a person wants me to be in order to be liked. With my smart friends I act intelligent and use a big vocabulary. Around my mother, I look like the perfect loving son. With my dad, I talk sports. With the guys at work I cuss and swear … whatever it takes to look cool. Underneath it all, I'm not sure who I really am or if any of them would like me just for who I am. If I can't figure out what people want me to be, I'm afraid I will be all alone. The funny thing is, I feel alone most of the time anyway.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #29
    Robert A. Glover
    “Breaking Free Activity #15 It can be difficult to make a direct link between your caretaking behavior and the emotional pukes which inevitably follow. Observe the ways you hurt the people you love. •Do you make cutting remarks or hurtful "jokes"? •Do you embarrass them in public? •Are you frequently late? •Do you "forget" things they've asked you to do? •Do you criticize them? •Do you withdraw from them or threaten to leave? •Do you let frustration build until you blow up at them? Ask the significant others in your life to give you feedback about your caretaking and emotional pukes. This information may be hard to hear and may trigger a shame attack, but it is important information for breaking out of the victim triangle.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • #30
    Robert A. Glover
    “I define personal power as a state of mind in which a person is confident he can handle whatever may come. This kind of power not only successfully deals with problems, challenges and adversity, it actually welcomes them, meets them head on, and is thankful for them. Personal power isn't the absence of fear. Even the most powerful people have fear. Personal power is the result of feeling fear, but not giving in to the fear.”
    Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy



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