“Are you married?"
"No, but I hope to be."
"The more of a fool you are," he said. He seemed very angry. "A man must not marry.
"Why, Signor Maggiore?"
"Don't call me 'Signor Maggiore.'"
"Why must not a man marry?"
"He cannot marry. He cannot marry," he said angrily. "If he is to lose everything, he should not place himself in a position to lose that. He should not place himself in a position to lose. He should find things he cannot lose."
He spoke very angrily and bitterly, and looked straight ahead while he talked.
"But why should he necessarily lose it?"
"He'll lose it.”
―
Ernest Hemingway,
Men Without Women