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  • #1
    Nicholas Sparks
    “It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”
    Nicholas Sparks

  • #2
    Joel Osteen
    “You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It wont happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.”
    Joel Osteen, Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential

  • #3
    Gabrielle Zevin
    “It was strange, really. A couple months ago, I had thought I couldn’t live without him. Apparently I could.”
    Gabrielle Zevin, Memoirs of a Teenage Amnesiac

  • #4
    David Nicholls
    “Can I say something?'
    'Go on'
    'I'm a little drunk'
    'Me too. That's okay.'
    'Just....I missed you, you know.'
    'I missed you too.'
    'But so, so much, Dexter. There were so many things I wanted to talk to you about, and you weren't there-'
    'same here.'
    'I tell you what it is. It's.....When I didn't see you, I thought about you every day, I mean EVERY DAY in some way or another-'
    'same here.'
    '-Even if it was just "I wish Dexter could see this" or "Where's Dexter now?" or "Christ that Dexter, what an idiot", you know what I mean, and seeing you today, well, I thought I'd got you back - my BEST friend. And now all this, the wedding, the baby- I'm so happy for you, Dex, but it feels like I've lost you again.'-

    -'You know what happens you have a family, your responsibilities change, you lose touch with people'
    'It won't be like that, I promise.'
    'Do you?'
    'Absolutely'
    'You swear? No more disappearing?'
    'I won't if you won't.'
    Their lips touched now, mouths pursed tight, their eyes open, both of them stock still. The moment held, a kind of glorious confusion.”
    David Nicholls, One Day

  • #5
    David Nicholls
    “I'm not the consolation prize, Dex. I'm not something you resort to. I happen to think I'm worth more than that.”
    David Nicholls, One Day

  • #6
    David Nicholls
    “So - whatever happened to you?'
    'Life. Life happened.”
    David Nicholls, One Day

  • #7
    David Nicholls
    “Dexter, I love you so much. So, so much, and I probably always will. I just don't like you anymore. I'm sorry.”
    David Nicholls, One Day

  • #8
    David Nicholls
    “Their friendship was like a wilted bunch of flowers that she insisted on topping up with water. Why not let it die instead?”
    David Nicholls, One Day

  • #9
    “You are worth everything that nature can give you.
    And I pray to whatever I believe in that you find your happiness. You find pride in yourself.
    And you find true love.
    And you can look at that person and understand the impact that have had in your life.
    Because you have surprised me with every step you took.
    And if letting you go means that I love you.

    Then I love you.
    Have fun out there.”
    Philippe A. Renaud

  • #10
    Alexander Lowen
    “The cases described in this section (The Fear of Being) may seem extreme, but I have become convinced that they are not as uncommon as one would think. Beneath the seemingly rational exterior of our lives is a fear of insanity. We dare not question the values by which we live or rebel against the roles we play for fear of putting our sanity into doubt. We are like the inmates of a mental institution who must accept its inhumanity and insensitivity as caring and knowledgeableness if they hope to be regarded as sane enough to leave. The question who is sane and who is crazy was the theme of the novel One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest. The question, what is sanity? was clearly asked in the play Equus.
    The idea that much of what we do is insane and that if we want to be sane, we must let ourselves go crazy has been strongly advanced by R.D. Laing. In the preface to the Pelican edition of his book The Divided Self, Laing writes: "In the context of our present pervasive madness that we call normality, sanity, freedom, all of our frames of reference are ambiguous and equivocal." And in the same preface: "Thus I would wish to emphasize that our 'normal' 'adjusted' state is too often the abdication of ecstasy, the betrayal of our true potentialities; that many of us are only too successful in acquiring a false self to adapt to false realities."
    Wilhelm Reich had a somewhat similar view of present-day human behavior. Thus Reich says, "Homo normalis blocks off entirely the perception of basic orgonotic functioning by means of rigid armoring; in the schizophrenic, on the other hand, the armoring practically breaks down and thus the biosystem is flooded with deep experiences from the biophysical core with which it cannot cope." The "deep experiences" to which Reich refers are the pleasurable streaming sensations associated with intense excitation that is mainly sexual in nature. The schizophrenic cannot cope with these sensations because his body is too contracted to tolerate the charge. Unable to "block" the excitation or reduce it as a neurotic can, and unable to "stand" the charge, the schizophrenic is literally "driven crazy."
    But the neurotic does not escape so easily either. He avoids insanity by blocking the excitation, that is, by reducing it to a point where there is no danger of explosion, or bursting. In effect the neurotic undergoes a psychological castration. However, the potential for explosive release is still present in his body, although it is rigidly guarded as if it were a bomb. The neurotic is on guard against himself, terrified to let go of his defenses and allow his feelings free expression. Having become, as Reich calls him, "homo normalis," having bartered his freedom and ecstasy for the security of being "well adjusted," he sees the alternative as "crazy." And in a sense he is right. Without going "crazy," without becoming "mad," so mad that he could kill, it is impossible to give up the defenses that protect him in the same way that a mental institution protects its inmates from self-destruction and the destruction of others.”
    Alexander Lowen, Fear Of Life

  • #11
    Hugh Prather
    “All my life, I have made it complicated, but it is so simple. I love when I love. And when I love, I am myself.”
    Hugh Prather, Notes to Myself

  • #12
    Hugh Prather
    “I don't need a "reason" to be happy. I don't have to consult the future to know how happy I feel now.”
    Hugh Prather, Notes to Myself

  • #13
    Hugh Prather
    “You say you just want to be my friend. I know that you mean you want to relate to my mind but not my body. I can understand that and will not ask you to relate to me in a way that you don't want to, or talk to me about subjects you find uncomfortable. But likewise I refuse to castrate myself for you by pretending not to have the feelings I have. If you want me as your friend you will have to accept my penis along with me.”
    Hugh Prather, Notes to Myself

  • #14
    “I truly loved you, but now I'm walking away”
    Jonny Lang



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