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  • #1
    Alex Michaelides
    “...we often mistake love for fireworks - for drama and dysfunction. But real love is very quiet, very still. It's boring, if seen from the perspective of high drama. Love is deep and calm - and constant.”
    Alex Michaelides, The Silent Patient
    tags: love

  • #2
    I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control
    “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
    Marilyn Monroe

  • #3
    Dr. Seuss
    “You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”
    Dr. Seuss

  • #4
    Elbert Hubbard
    “A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”
    Elbert Hubbard

  • #5
    We accept the love we think we deserve.
    “We accept the love we think we deserve.”
    Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

  • #6
    André Gide
    “It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
    Andre Gide, Autumn Leaves

  • #7
    Fredrik Backman
    “They say that a person’s personality is the sum of their experiences. But that isn’t true, at least not entirely, because if our past was all that defined us, we’d never be able to put up with ourselves. We need to be allowed to convince ourselves that we’re more than the mistakes we made yesterday. That we are all of our next choices, too, all of our tomorrows.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #8
    Fredrik Backman
    “The truth of course is that if people really were as happy as they look on the Internet, they wouldn’t spend so much damn time on the Internet, because no one who’s having a really good day spends half of it taking pictures of themselves. Anyone can nurture a myth about their life if they have enough manure, so if the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, that’s probably because it’s full of shit.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #9
    Fredrik Backman
    “Some people accept that they will never be free of their anxiety, they just learn to carry it. She tried to be one of them. She told herself that was why you should always be nice to other people, even idiots, because you never know how heavy their burden is.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #10
    Fredrik Backman
    “Because the terrible thing about becoming an adult is being forced to realize that absolutely nobody cares about us, we have to deal with everything ourselves now, find out how the whole world works. Work and pay bills, use dental floss and get to meetings on time, stand in line and fill out forms, come to grips with cables and put furniture together, change tires on the car and charge the phone and switch the coffee machine off and not forget to sign the kids up for swimming lessons. We open our eyes in the morning and life is just waiting to tip a fresh avalanche of "Don't Forget!"s and "Remember!"s over us. We don't have time to think or breathe, we just wake up and start digging through the heap, because there will be another one dumped on us tomorrow. We look around occasionally, at our place of work or at parents' meetings or out in the street, and realize with horror that everyone else seems to know exactly what they're doing. We're the only ones who have to pretend. Everyone else can afford stuff and has a handle on other stuff and enough energy to deal with even more stuff. And everyone else's children can swim.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #11
    Fredrik Backman
    “We don't have a plan, we just do our best to get through the day, because there'll be another one coming along tomorrow.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #12
    Fredrik Backman
    “We give those we love nicknames, because love requires a word that belongs to us alone.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #13
    Fredrik Backman
    “Boats that stay in the harbor are safe, sweetheart, but that's not what boats were built for.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #14
    Fredrik Backman
    “God doesn't protect people from knives, sweetheart. That's why God gave us other people, so we can protect each other.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #15
    Fredrik Backman
    “Have you ever held a three-year-old by the hand on the way home from preschool?"

    "No."

    "You're never more important that you are then.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #16
    Fredrik Backman
    “We're trying to be grown-up and love each other and understand how the hell you're supposed to insert USB leads. We're looking for something to cling on to, something to fight for, something to look forward to. We're doing all we can to teach our children how to swim. We have all of this in common, yet most of us remain strangers, we never know what we do to each other, how your life is affected by mine.
    Perhaps we hurried past each other in a crowd today, and neither of us noticed, and the fibers of your coat brushed against mine for single moment and then we were gone. I don't know who you are.
    But when you get home this evening, when this day is over and the night takes us, allow yourself a deep breath. Because we made it through this day as well.
    There'll be another one along tomorrow.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #17
    Fredrik Backman
    “Do you know what the worst thing about being a parent is? That you're always judged by your worst moments. You can do a million things right, but if you do one single thing wrong you're forever that parent who was checking his phone in the park when your child was hit in the head by a swing. We don't take our eyes off them for days at a time, but then you read just one text message and it's as if all your best moments never happened. No one goes to see a psychologist to talk about all the times they weren't hit in the head by a swing as a child. Parents are defined by their mistakes.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #18
    Fredrik Backman
    “Because that was a parent’s job: to provide shoulders. Shoulders for your children to sit on when they’re little so they can see the world, then stand on when they get older so they can reach the clouds, and sometimes lean against whenever they stumble and feel unsure.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #19
    Fredrik Backman
    “But we weren't ready to become adults. Someone should have stopped us.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #20
    Fredrik Backman
    “that we don’t want our children to pursue their own dreams or walk in our footsteps. We want to walk in their footsteps while they pursue our dreams.”
    Fredrik Backman, Anxious People

  • #21
    Fredrik Backman
    “Some of us never manage to get the chaos under control, so our lives simply carry on, the world spinning through space at two million miles an hour while we bounce about on its surface like so many lost socks.”
    Fredrik Backman, Folk med ångest

  • #22
    Shelby Van Pelt
    “Why can humans not use their millions of words to simply tell one another what they desire?”
    Shelby Van Pelt, Remarkably Bright Creatures

  • #23
    Shelby Van Pelt
    “It seems to be a hallmark of the human species: abysmal communication skills. Not that any other species are much better, mind you, but even a herring can tell which way the school it belongs to is turning and follow accordingly. Why can humans not use their millions of words to simply tell one another what they desire?”
    Shelby Van Pelt, Remarkably Bright Creatures

  • #24
    Fredrik Backman
    “We always think there's enough time to do things with other people. Time to say things to them. And then something happens and then we stand there holding on to words like 'if'.”
    Fredrik Backman, A Man Called Ove

  • #25
    Fredrik Backman
    “Ove had never been asked how he lived before he met her. But if anyone had asked him, he would have answered that he didn’t.”
    Fredrik Backman, A Man Called Ove

  • #26
    Fredrik Backman
    “Never trust people who don't have something in their lives that they love beyond all reason.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #27
    Brené Brown
    “Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy—the experiences that make us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.”
    Brene Brown

  • #28
    Brené Brown
    “You are imperfect, you are wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.”
    Brene Brown

  • #29
    Brené Brown
    “Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.”
    Brene Brown

  • #30
    Fredrik Backman
    “There’s a label she used to love but which she loathes when it’s pronounced in a Beartown accent: “career woman.” Peter’s friends call her that, some in admiration and some with distaste, but no one calls Peter a “career man.” It strikes a nerve because Kira recognizes that insinuation: you have a “job” so you can provide for your family, whereas a “career” is selfish. You have one of those for your own sake.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown



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