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“Just remember that it's not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It's not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he's not willing to fix himself for you, there's nothing left to do but walk away and move behind his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you'll receive better, it's that simple.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“If you aren’t willing
to love her,
do not put dents
on her heart
that will influence
her to believe that
she is hard to love.
That is cruel.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“You deserve more of their attention than their phone does.
You deserve quality time, not just time.
You deserve effort, not just routines.
You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist.
You are special and you deserve to be the only option.
If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person.
If begging ever becomes your last approach to receive those things which ought to be freely given, it’s safe to say, you are out of your dang mind.
Begging to be loved is suicide.
It’s like going sky diving from the Eiffel Tower naked of proper equipment, and expecting gravity to overturn the outcome.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“We hide our pain to keep us from getting hurt again. In the process we hurt people who never aimed to hurt us.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“When you look at her,
if you do not feel
blessed to have her.
She is not yours to keep.
She is another man’s blessing.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“Love her the way you crave to be loved.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“It’s not her shape,
her face, or her hair
that makes her beautiful.
Neither is it the smoothness of her skin,
the boldness when she stands or the
perseverance in her heart.
But the condition of her heart, the
gratitude she lives by and her love for God.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“Isn’t it ironic that the perfect moment for
them to admit that they need you in their
life is when you finally realize that you’re
well off without them.

In other words,
the devil knows when you are getting close
to heaven.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“If they cannot meet your standards, don't lower your standards so that they can.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“You taught me what it means to fight for what you love.
You showed me great endurance in a manner that was unusual to me.
You fought for my heart until all the fight in you was gone without neglecting your brain.
You displayed to me what unconditional love should look like, if I were to stare at it in a mirror.
You loved me even on the days I found it difficult to even love myself.
You scooped down to help me up at my lowest.
You chained your heart to mine and stayed by my side even when all the signs gave you red lights about continuing our relationship.
You remained loyal, even when I became disloyal, and fulfilled the belief that many men are dogs.
You hung on longer than I expected,
Loved me more than I could ever imagine.
Some may have called you foolish for staying, but you showed me an aspect of love I’ve only read about in 1 Corinthians 13.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“We live in a generation that applauds the bad more than it commends the good.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“Embrace who you are. Learn to be comfortable with who God made you. Develop the mindset that the creator doesn’t make mistakes.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman's vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“To her past,

I see you replay the worst scenes of her
life
over and over, trying to convince her
that
she is less than good.

Listen to me, I will love her until you
become a memory faded;
until your words are without sound and empty to her ears.

I will love her until you no longer get
the
best of her, until you are nothing to her.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“You love -you- far too much to compromise for too little.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To The Women I Once Loved

“One day you will marry your best friend, love will be real to you, and you will be on your journey to forever.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“Love is a seed that has to be watered with effort and consistency. Lack thereof will cause the fire that once existed between two souls to burn out.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“She preferred having her eyes lost in the night sky wondering about the stars, the universe and the creator.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“Women
like her
are only hard
to love
by men
who believe
love is just a word.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“Love is a force that can’t be forced.
Let it find you. It knows your address and who it is supposed to deliver within your path will be shipped to you unexpectedly.
Be sure that your life isn’t cluttered and that your heart is ready enough to welcome it.
You will find “Nemo,” before you ever find love, let it find you.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“She’s a poetry book.
You must read every letter,
and digest every word.
Every part of her paints
a part of a bigger picture.
You can’t love her,
if you do not intend on
reading every page
and learning how to
comprehend every piece of her.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“The day you begin to accept who you are is when the journey of knowing yourself begins. That day is when validation through others becomes something of the past, and loving you and evolving into who you were made to be will begin.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“She wasn’t
created
for everybody,
her heart
wasn’t
made for
everyone.
Her love won’t
be enough for
just any man.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“Don’t stop doing the nice things that the wrong women failed to appreciate. They’ll mean the world to the right woman.”
― Pierre Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“You don’t need to sleep with more men to gain more experience. You need to wake up and understand that practicing with different teams every time won’t make you perfect for one team. The team you need practice with is the team you’re guaranteed to be on forever. Get the ring first, then, get to practicing.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“Sometimes one of the greatest deeds a woman can do, is to introduce a man to an experience that sobers him up in a way only love can. This is an experience that will convince him to be more of a man to the next woman.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“What good are flowers without water?
What good are promises without actions?”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“You’ve grown tired of being the trophy for mature men, yet always approached by immature fellas running game, in, “Mr Right” disguise. They can’t understand, because all they see is the smile, the strength, perseverance, the accomplishments, but all are clueless about the sadness, loneliness, emotional breakdowns…the failures.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“Her worth is priceless
and she is fully aware of that.
It is why she doesn’t attract many
and only those with quality taste
and genuine hearts
can afford a woman like her.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“Dear good guy I can hear your cries I can feel your pain I can smell your frustration I can see the confusion in your eyes Confused about how women see you In a land of women tired of being played They still take you as a joke and think you’re all games They play you like they were played They can’t see the seriousness in your eyes When you call her “Queen” and ask for her heart And you cry for commitment, they back out and shut down Treat you like the bad guys treated them It’s so ironic You hate seeing these ladies get their hearts stomped on Their minds toyed with It’s killing you because you’ve done it to women yourself you’ve seen other guys do it You want to save them from the destruction But like a child who refuses to obey their mother’s wisdom, until they are wise enough to understand through experience They won’t value you until they get burned playing with the fire of curiosity Some of them crave destruction They crave the fun that these fellas who will degrade them have to offer They are being guided by curiosity and their wisdom is foolishness Fight the urge to become like the men these ladies who lack understanding chase after Don’t let rejection consume your heart and cause you to crumble Being a promiscuous man who lacks self-respect and morals is overrated Find peace with being the underdog Your type is needed in this world, my good friend Hold on There are women out there who are in search for someone like you One of them will be the one who appreciates the detailed things about you the previous women called corny There are women out there who will value your honesty, your character, your loyalty Hold on, my friend Narrow is the right path You are on the right path, my friend Your time will come in due time You will not just be getting a girl, you will be getting a woman who will be willing to finish off this life’s journey with you You are not alone I am with you and I understand the hardships you face, the doubt, the anger I want you to know you are doing a great job at being you Do not give up Stand firm and continue to be different You will be an example to many although you are in the minority Corruption”
― Pierre Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman