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  • #1
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “An abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal behavior.”
    Victor Frankl, Man's Search For Ultimate Meaning

  • #2
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality. No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him. By his love he is enabled to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualized but yet ought to be actualized. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #3
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #4
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run—in the long-run, I say!—success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #5
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #6
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #7
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “For the first time in my life I saw the truth as it is set into song by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The truth - that Love is the ultimate and highest goal to which man can aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through love and in love.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #8
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “So live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #9
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.”
    Victor Frankl

  • #10
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms -- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.”
    Viktor E. Frankl

  • #11
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “No man should judge unless he asks himself in absolute honesty whether in a similar situation he might not have done the same.”
    Viktor Emil Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #12
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “The pessimist resembles a man who observes with fear and sadness that his wall calendar, from which he daily tears a sheet, grows thinner with each passing day. On the other hand, the person who attacks the problems of life actively is like a man who removes each successive leaf from his calendar and files it neatly and carefully away with its predecessors, after first having jotted down a few diary notes on the back. He can reflect with pride and joy on all the richness set down in these notes, on all the life he has already lived to the fullest. What will it matter to him if he notices that he is growing old? Has he any reason to envy the young people whom he sees, or wax nostalgic over his own lost youth? What reasons has he to envy a young person? For the possibilities that a young person has, the future which is in store for him?

    No, thank you,' he will think. 'Instead of possibilities, I have realities in my past, not only the reality of work done and of love loved, but of sufferings bravely suffered. These sufferings are even the things of which I am most proud, although these are things which cannot inspire envy.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #13
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “For the world is in a bad state, but everything will become still worse unless each of us does his best.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #14
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Ironically enough, in the same way that fear brings to pass what one is afraid of, likewise a forced intention makes impossible what one forcibly wishes... Pleasure is, and must remain, a side-effect or by-product, and is destroyed and spoiled to the degree to which it is made a goal in itself.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #15
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Even though conditions such as lack of sleep, insufficient food and various mental stresses may suggest that the inmates were bound to react in certain ways, in the final analysis it becomes clear that the sort of person the prisoner became was the result of an inner decision, and not the result of camp influences alone.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #17
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “The truth-that love is the highest goal to which man can aspire.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #18
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “As each situation in life represents a challenge to man and presents a problem for him to solve, the question of the meaning of life may actually be reversed. Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. In a word, each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible. Thus, logotherapy sees in responsibleness the very essence of human existence.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #19
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Fear makes come true that which one is afraid of.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #20
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Human kindness can be found in all groups, even those which as a whole it would be easy to condemn.”
    Viktor Emil Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #21
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “There are things which must cause you to lose your reason or you have none to lose”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #22
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Woe to him who saw no more sense in his life, no aim, no purpose, and therefore no point in carrying on.”
    Victor Frankl, Man's Search For Ultimate Meaning

  • #23
    Beverly Engel
    “Why isn't there a commandment to "honor thy children" or at least one to "not abuse thy children"? The notion that we must honor our parents causes many people to bury their real feelings and set aside their own needs in order to have a relationship with people they would otherwise not associate with. Parents, like anyone else, need to earn respect and honor, and honoring parents who are negative and abusive is not only impossible but extremely self-abusive. Perhaps, as with anything else, honoring our parents starts with honoring ourselves. For many adult children, honoring themselves means not having anything to do with one or both of their parents.”
    Beverly Engel, Divorcing a Parent

  • #24
    Erol Ozan
    “Help someone, you earn a friend. Help someone too much, you make an enemy.”
    Erol Ozan

  • #25
    Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
    “If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.”
    Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, The Complete Works of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

  • #26
    P.G. Wodehouse
    “There is only one cure for grey hair. It was invented by a Frenchman. It is called the guillotine.”
    Wodehouse

  • #27
    P.G. Wodehouse
    “It was one of those parties where you cough twice before you speak and then decide not to say it after all.”
    P.G. Wodehouse

  • #28
    Agatha Christie
    “The best time for planning a book is while you're doing the dishes. ”
    Agatha Christie

  • #29
    Flannery O'Connor
    “Writing a novel is a terrible experience, during which the hair often falls out and the teeth decay. I'm always irritated by people who imply that writing fiction is an escape from reality. It is a plunge into reality and it's very shocking to the system.”
    Flannery O'Connor, Mystery and Manners: Occasional Prose

  • #30
    Emil M. Cioran
    “A book is a suicide postponed.”
    Cioran

  • #31
    Flannery O'Connor
    “Art never responds to the wish to make it democratic; it is not for everybody; it is only for those who are willing to undergo the effort needed to understand it.”
    Flannery O'Connor, Mystery and Manners: Occasional Prose



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