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  • #1
    “READ, READ, KEEP READING. UNTIL YOU KICK THE BUCKET.”
    Onwukwe Chimdinma

  • #2
    Taiye Selasi
    “And what happens to daughters whose mothers betray them? They don’t become huggable like Sadie, Taiwo thinks. They don’t become giggly, adorable like Ling. They grow shells. Become hardened. They stop being girls. Though they look like girls and act like girls and flirt like girls and kiss like girls—really, they’re generals, commandos at war, riding out at first light to preempt further strikes. With an army behind them, their talents their horsemen, their brilliance and beauty and anything else they may have at their disposal dispatched into battle to capture the castle, to bring back the Honor. Of course it doesn’t work. For they burn down the village in search of the safety they lost, every time, Taiwo knows.”
    Taiye Selasi, Ghana Must Go

  • #3
    “In terms of language, there were no separate words for female genitalia for thousands of years. That was mostly because women were considered pretty much the same as men, only of course flimsier, more poorly designed, and incapable of writing in the snow.”
    Elissa Stein and Susan Kim

  • #4
    Lindy West
    “So I was forced to go to school wearing a menstrual pad belt that had been in our first aid drawer since approximately 1961. If you've never seen one of these things, because you haven't been to the antiquities museum, it is a literal belt that goes around your waist, with two straps that dangle down in your front and back cracks, ice cold metal clips holding a small throw pillow in place over your shame canyon.”
    Lindy West, Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman

  • #5
    Lindy West
    “I reject the notion that thinness is the goal, that thin = better—that I am an unfinished thing and that my life can really start when I lose weight. That then I will be a real person and have finally succeeded as a woman. I am not going to waste another second of my life thinking about this. I don’t want to have another fucking conversation with another fucking woman about what she’s eating or not eating or regrets eating or pretends to not regret eating to mask the regret. OOPS I JUST YAWNED TO DEATH.”
    Lindy West, Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman

  • #6
    Warsan Shire
    “No one leaves home unless home is the mouth of a shark.”
    Warsan Shire, Bless the Daughter Raised by a Voice in Her Head

  • #7
    Ijeoma Umebinyuo
    “Here’s to the security guards who maybe had a degree in another land. Here’s to the manicurist who had to leave her family to come here, painting the nails, scrubbing the feet of strangers. Here’s to the janitors who don’t understand English yet work hard despite it all. Here’s to the fast food workers who work hard to see their family smile. Here’s to the laundry man at the Marriott who told me with the sparkle in his eyes how he was an engineer in Peru. Here’s to the bus driver, the Turkish Sufi who almost danced when I quoted Rumi. Here’s to the harvesters who live in fear of being deported for coming here to open the road for their future generation. Here’s to the taxi drivers from Nigeria, Ghana, Egypt and India who gossip amongst themselves. Here is to them waking up at 4am, calling home to hear the voices of their loved ones. Here is to their children, to the children who despite it all become artists, writers, teachers, doctors, lawyers, activists and rebels. Here’s to international money transfer. For never forgetting home. Here’s to their children who carry the heartbeats of their motherland and even in sleep, speak with pride about their fathers. Keep on.”
    Ijeoma Umebinyuo, Questions for Ada

  • #8
    Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
    “Is love this misguided need to have you beside me most of the time? Is love this safety I feel in our silences? Is it this belonging, this completeness?”
    Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Half of a Yellow Sun

  • #9
    Oyinkan Braithwaite
    “She does not cry for me,” he says, his voice hardening. “She cries for her lost youth, her missed opportunities and her limited options. She does not cry for me, she cries for herself.”
    Oyinkan Braithwaite, My Sister, the Serial Killer

  • #10
    Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀
    “I loved Yejide from the very first moment. No doubt about that. But there are things even love can’t do. Before I got married, I believed love could do anything. I learned soon enough that it couldn’t bear the weight of four years without children. If the burden is too much and stays too long, even love bends, cracks, comes close to breaking and sometimes does break. But even when it’s in a thousand pieces around your feet, that doesn’t mean it’s no longer love.”
    Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀, Stay with Me

  • #11
    Margaret Atwood
    “You think I'm not a goddess?
    Try me.
    This is a torch song.
    Touch me and you'll burn.”
    Margaret Atwood



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