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  • #1
    Martha Hall Kelly
    “He smiled. “I guess somewhere in a corner of our hearts, we are always twenty.”
    Martha Hall Kelly, Lilac Girls

  • #2
    Martha Hall Kelly
    “But it’s fitting in a way—Father loved the fact that a lilac only blossoms after a harsh winter.”
    Martha Hall Kelly, Lilac Girls

  • #3
    Gertrude Stein
    “Coffee is a lot more than just a drink; it’s something happening. Not as in hip, but like an event, a place to be, but not like a location, but like somewhere within yourself. It gives you time, but not actual hours or minutes, but a chance to be, like be yourself, and have a second cup”
    Gertrude Stein, Selected Writings

  • #4
    Amor Towles
    “Either way, he figured a cup of coffee would hit the spot. For what is more versatile? As at home in tin as it is in Limoges, coffee can energize the industrious at dawn, calm the reflective at noon, or raise the spirits of the beleagured in the middle of the night.”
    Amor Towles, A Gentleman in Moscow

  • #5
    Fredrik Backman
    “Hate can be a deeply stimulating emotion. The world becomes easier to understand and much less terrifying if you divide everything and everyone into friends and enemies, we and they, good and evil. The easiest way to unite a group isn't through love, because love is hard, It makes demands. Hate is simple. So the first thing that happens in a conflict is that we choose a side, because that's easier than trying to hold two thoughts in our heads at the same time. The second thing that happens is that we seek out facts that confirm what we want to believe - comforting facts, ones that permit life to go on as normal. The third is that we dehumanize our enemy.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #6
    Fredrik Backman
    “Never trust people who don't have something in their lives that they love beyond all reason.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #7
    Fredrik Backman
    “Everyone has a thousand wishes before a tragedy, but just one afterward.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #8
    Fredrik Backman
    “All adults have days when we feel completely drained. When we no longer know quite what we spend so much time fighting for, when reality and everyday worries overwhelm us and we wonder how much longer we’re going to be able to carry on. The wonderful thing is that we can all live through far more days like that without breaking than we think. The terrible thing is that we never know exactly how many.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #9
    Fredrik Backman
    “If you are honest, people may deceive you. Be honest anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfishness. Be kind anyway. All the good you do today will be forgotten by others tomorrow. Do good anyway.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #10
    Fredrik Backman
    “Religion is something between you and other people; it’s full of interpretations and theories and opinions. But faith . . . that’s just between you and God.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #11
    Fredrik Backman
    “Another morning comes. It always does. Time always moves at the same rate, only feelings have different speeds. Every day can mark a whole lifetime or a single heartbeat, depending on who you spend it with. *”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #12
    Fredrik Backman
    “She’s fifteen, above the age of consent, and he’s seventeen, but he’s still “the boy” in every conversation. She’s “the young woman”.

    Words are not small things.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown
    tags: rape

  • #13
    Fredrik Backman
    “What an uncomfortable, terrible source of shame it is for the world that the victim is so often the one left with the most empathy for others.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #14
    Fredrik Backman
    “You never have the sort of friends you have when you’re fifteen ever again. Even if you keep them for the rest of your life, it’s never the same as it was then.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #15
    Fredrik Backman
    “There are few words that are harder to explain than "loyalty." It's always regarded as a positive characteristic, because a lot of people would say that many of the best things people do for each other occur precisely because of loyalty. The only problem is that many of the very worst things we do to each other occur because of the same thing.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #16
    Fredrik Backman
    “Humanity has many shortcomings, but none is stronger than pride.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #17
    Fredrik Backman
    “The very worst events in life have that effect on a family: we always remember, more sharply than anything else, the last happy moments before everything fell apart.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #18
    Fredrik Backman
    “Sometimes life doesn’t let you choose your battles. Just the company you keep.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #19
    Fredrik Backman
    “Words are small things. No one means any harm by them, they keep saying that. Everyone is just doing their job. The police say it all the time. 'I'm just doing my job here.' That's why no one asks what the boy did; as soon as the girl starts to talk they interrupt her instead with questions about what she did. Did she go up the stairs ahead of him or behind him? Did she lie down on the bed voluntarily or was she forced? Did she unbutton her own blouse? Did she kiss him? No? Did she kiss him back, then? Had she been drinking alcohol? Had she smoked marijuana? Did she say no? Was she clear about that? Did she scream loudly enough? Did she struggle hard enough? Why didn't she take photographs of her bruises right away? Why did she run from the party instead of saying anything to the other guests? They have to gather all the information, they say, when they ask the same question ten times in different ways in order to see if she changes her answer. This is a serious allegation, they remind her, as if it's the allegation that's the problem. She is told all the things she shouldn't have done: She shouldn't have waited so long before going to the police. She shouldn't have gotten rid of the clothes she was wearing. Shouldn't have showered. Shouldn't have drunk alcohol. Shouldn't have put herself in that situation. Shouldn't have gone into the room, up the stairs, given him the impression. If only she hadn't existed, then none of this would have happened, why didn't she think of that? She's fifteen, above the age of consent, and he's seventeen, but he's still 'the boy' in every conversation. She's 'the young woman.' Words are not small things.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #20
    Fredrik Backman
    “For me, culture is as much about what we encourage as what we actually permit.” David asked what he meant by that, and Sune replied: “That most people don’t do what we tell them to. They do what we let them get away with.”
    Fredrik Backman, Beartown

  • #21
    Matt Haig
    “A person was like a city. You couldn't let a few less desirable parts put you off the whole. There may be bits you don't like, a few dodgy side streets and suburbs, but the good stuff makes it worthwhile.”
    Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

  • #22
    Matt Haig
    “The only way to learn is to live.”
    Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

  • #23
    Matt Haig
    “It is easy to mourn the lives we aren't living. Easy to wish we'd developed other other talents, said yes to different offers. Easy to wish we'd worked harder, loved better, handled our finances more astutely, been more popular, stayed in the band, gone to Australia, said yes to the coffee or done more bloody yoga.
    It takes no effort to miss the friends we didn't make and the work we didn't do the people we didn't do and the people we didn't marry and the children we didn't have. It is not difficult to see yourself through the lens of other people, and to wish you were all the different kaleidoscopic versions of you they wanted you to be. It is easy to regret, and keep regretting, ad infinitum, until our time runs out.
    But it is not lives we regret not living that are the real problem. It is the regret itself. It's the regret that makes us shrivel and wither and feel like our own and other people's worst enemy.
    We can't tell if any of those other versions would of been better or worse. Those lives are happening, it is true, but you are happening as well, and that is the happening we have to focus on.”
    Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

  • #24
    Matt Haig
    “As Thoreau wrote, ‘It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.”
    Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

  • #25
    Matt Haig
    “Never underestimate the big importance of small things”
    Matt Haig, The Midnight Library



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