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“stars are the scars of the universe”
― Ricky Maye, Barefoot Christianity

“Has he ever trapped you in a room and not let you out?
Has he ever raised a fist as if he were going to hit you?
Has he ever thrown an object that hit you or nearly did?
Has he ever held you down or grabbed you to restrain you?
Has he ever shoved, poked, or grabbed you?
Has he ever threatened to hurt you?
If the answer to any of these questions is yes, then we can stop wondering whether he’ll ever be violent; he already has been.”
― Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

“She was in a terrible marriage and she couldn't talk to anyone. He used to hit her, and in the beginning she told him that if it ever happened again, she would leave him. He swore that it wouldn't and she believed him. But it only got worse after that, like when his dinner was cold, or when she mentioned that she'd visited with one of the neighbors who was walking by with his dog. She just chatted with him, but that night, her husband threw her into a mirror.”
― Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“ما من سوء أكبر من الذنب إلا تبلد الإحساس بعد الذنب”
― أحمد الشقيري

“أمرين سيجعلوك أكثر حكمة :الكتب التي تقرؤها والأشخاص الذين تلتقي بهم.”
― أحمد الشقيري

“من مشاكلنا الأساسية أن بعض الناس هدفهم ألاّ نختلف أبداً. هدفهم أن نتفق دائماً وفي كل الأمور بلا استثناء، فإذا حدث خلاف ولو في أمور ثانوية كانت الكارثة، وبدأت الاتهامات بالكفر والزندقة! وهدف (عدم الاختلاف بتاتا) هدف خاطئ وحالم ولن يتحقق أبداً فنحن بشر. إذن فما هو الهدف المنشود؟ الهدف هو أن نتعامل مع الاختلاف باحترام، وأن نطبق قول الإمام أبي حنيفة
(رأيي صواب يحتمل الخطأ ورأي غيري خطأ يحتمل الصواب).
الهدف أن نتعامل مع بعضنا بالقاعدة الذهبية
(نتعاون فيما اتفقنا عليه ويعذر بعضنا بعضا فيما اختلفنا فيه).
أنا لست صوفيا ولا سلفيا ولا وهابيا ولا من الإخوان ولا من غيرهم من الجماعات ... أنا مسلم. وأتعامل مع كل من يقول أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأن محمداً رسول الله على أنه مسلم .. وكفانا تنابذاً بالألقاب!.”
― أحمد الشقيري, خواطر شاب

“لن تجد حلا اذا أنكرت وجود المشكلة”
― أحمد الشقيري

“ الرجال قوامون علي النساء “
النساء /34 أكاد اجزم ان قليل من الرجال من لايحفظ هذه الاية
واجزم كذلك ان كثيرا منهم لم يفهمها
حق الفهم
وانا صراحة لم افهم معني القوامة المذكور ف الاية
الا بعد مطالعة السيرة النبوية
والا بعد قراءة القصص النبوية
التي تحكي سيرة النبي الانسان
وحياة النبي الزوج
وحياة النبي الاب
ففهمت ان القوامة
ليس معناها ان المراءة لم تخطئ معك ابدا
ولن ترفع صوتها ابدا
ولن تغضب ابدا
ولكن القوامة معناها ان يملك الرجل الحكمة والصبر في التعامل مع المشكلات الزوجية
ويقابل اخطاء زوجته وتقصيرها بالرفق واللين
وان يتحملها ان فقدت اعصابها او اخطاءت احيانا
لانها بشر
والبشر مركب من النقص
لذلك ف القوامة
تكليف وليس تشريفا
والملفت للنظر ان الرسول في كل خلافته
الزوجية لم يرو مطلقا
انه استشهد بهذه الاية
لكي يعزز مكانته
كما يفعل بعض الرجال اليوم
ف كل ما حصلت مشكلة استشهد بهذه الاية
وكانه لا يحفظ غيرها
وغالبا ما يكون الاستشهاد في غير موضعه”
― أحمد الشقيري

“متحدون؛ نقف ..
متفرقون؛ نسقط !”
― أحمد الشقيري

“To those who abuse: the sin is yours, the crime is yours, and the shame is yours. To those who protect the perpetrators: blaming the victims only masks the evil within, making you as guilty as those who abuse. Stand up for the innocent or go down with the rest.”
― Flora Jessop, Church of Lies

“Above all, don't lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.”
― Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

“I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I AM BETTER THAN THAT...Goodbye.”
― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman's heart.”
― Shannon Alder

“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”
― Albert Einstein

“It isn't as bad as you sometimes think it is. It all works out. Don't worry. I say that to myself every morning. It all works out in the end. Put your trust in God, and move forward with faith and confidence in the future. The Lord will not forsake us. He will not forsake us. If we will put our trust in Him, if we will pray to Him, if we will live worthy of His blessings, He will hear our prayers.”
― Gordon B. Hinckley

“Love is a verb, not a noun. It is active. Love is not just feelings of passion and romance. It is behavior. If a man lies to you, he is behaving badly and unlovingly toward you. He is disrespecting you and your relationship. The words “I love you” are not enough to make up for that. Don’t kid yourself that they are.”
― Susan Forward, When Your Lover Is a Liar: Healing the Wounds of Deception and Betrayal

“I would rather trust a woman's instinct than a man's reason.”
― Stanley Baldwin

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
― Edith Hamilton, Mythology

“When the trust account is high, communication is easy, instant, and effective.”
― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

“Peace and trust take years to build and seconds to shatter.”
― Mahogany SilverRain

“... you don't have to wait for someone to treat you bad repeatedly. All it takes is once, and if they get away with it that once, if they know they can treat you like that, then it sets the pattern for the future.”
― Jane Green, Bookends

“There are far too many silent sufferers.  Not because they don't yearn to reach out, but because they've tried and found no one who cares.”
― Richelle E. Goodrich, Smile Anyway: Quotes, Verse, & Grumblings for Every Day of the Year