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  • #1
    Peter    Cameron
    “Most people think things are not real unless they are spoken, that it’s the uttering of something, not the thinking of it, that legitimizes it. I suppose this is why people always want other people to say “I love you.” I think just the opposite—that thoughts are realest when thought, that expressing them distorts or dilutes them.”
    Peter Cameron

  • #2
    Haruki Murakami
    “I sometimes think that people’s hearts are like deep wells. Nobody knows what’s at the bottom. All you can do is imagine by what comes floating to the surface every once in a while.

    Its only confusing if you believe it has to make sense.”
    Haruki Murakami, Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman

  • #3
    Franz Kafka
    “I think we ought to read only the kind of books that wound and stab us.”
    Franz Kafka

  • #4
    Joan Didion
    “Perhaps it is difficult to see the value in having one's self back in that kind of mood, but I do see it; I think we are well advised to keep on nodding terms with the people we used to be, whether we find them attractive company or not. Otherwise they turn up unannounced and surprise us, come hammering on the mind's door at 4 a.m. of a bad night and demand to know who deserted them, who betrayed them, who is going to make amends. We forget all too soon the things we thought we could never forget. We forget the loves and the betrayals alike, forget what we whispered and what we screamed, forget who we were.”
    Joan Didion

  • #5
    Peter    Cameron
    “Most people think things are not real unless they are spoken, that it's the uttering of something, not the thinking of it, that legitimizes it. I suppose this is why people always want other people to say "I love you." I think just the opposite - that thoughts are realest when thought, that expressing them distorts or dilutes them, that it is best for them to stay in the dark climate-controlled airport chapel of your mind, that if they're released into the air and light they will be affected in a way that alters them, like film accidentally exposed.”
    Peter Cameron, Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You

  • #6
    Peter    Cameron
    “What if she was meant to be, or could have been, someone important in my life? I think that's what scares me: the randomness of everything. That the people who could be important to you might just pass you by. Or you pass them by. How do you know...I felt that by walking away I was abandoning [them], that I spent my entire life, day after day, abandoning people.”
    Peter Cameron, Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You

  • #7
    Peter    Cameron
    “I often feel like I want to think something but I can't find the language that coincides with the thoughts, so it remains felt, not thought. Sometimes I feel like I'm thinking in Swedish without knowing Swedish.”
    Peter Cameron, Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You

  • #8
    “I love you. I love you. I send this message through my fingers and into his, up his arm and into his heart. Hear me. I love you. And I'm sorry to leave you.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #9
    “It was strange how words meant something when they came out of your mouth. Inside your head they were safe and silent, but once they were outside, people grabbed hold of them.”
    Jenny Downham, You Against Me

  • #10
    “Sometimes if you want something badly enough, you can make it happen. If you miss someone so desperately that it wrecks your insides, you say their name over and over until you conjure then. It's called sympathetic magic and you just have to believe in it to make it work.”
    Jenny Downham, You Against Me

  • #11
    “It's all right, Tessa, you can go. We love you. You can go now.'
    'Why are you saying that?'
    'She might need permission to die, Cal.'
    'I don't want her to. She doesn't have my permission.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #12
    “when I was four I almost fell down the shaft of a tin mine and when I was five the car rolled over on the motorway and when I was seven we went on holiday and the gas ring blew out in the caravan and nobody noticed


    I've been dying all my life”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #13
    “I want to die in my own way. It's my illness, my death, my choice. This is what saying yes means.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #14
    “Moments.

    All gathering towards this one.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #15
    “Afterwards, go to a pub for lunch. I've got $260 in my savings account and I really want you to use it for that. Really, I mean it--lunch is on me. Make sure you have pudding--sticky toffee, chocolate fudge cake, ice-cream sundae, something really bad for you. Get drunk too if you like (but don't scare Cal). Spend all the money.

    And after that, when days have gone by, keep an eye out for me. I might write on the steam in the mirror when you're having a bath, or play with the leaves on the apple tree when you're out in the garden. I might slip into a dream.

    Visit my grave when you can, but don't kick yourself if you can't, or if you move house and it's suddenly too far away. It looks pretty there in the summer (check out the website). You could bring a picnic and sit with me. I'd like that.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #16
    “It's utterly beautiful not to know my own edges.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #17
    “I don't give a shit, Dad!"

    "Well I do! I absolutely give a shit! This will completely exhaust you."

    "It's my body. I can do what I like!"

    "So you don't care about your body now?"

    "No, I'm sick of it! I'm sick of doctors and needles and blood tests and transfusions. I'm sick of being stuck in a bed day after day while the rest of you get on with your lives. I hate it! I hate all of you! Adam's gone for a university interview, did you know that? He's going to be here for years doing whatever he likes and I'm going to be under the ground in a couple of weeks!”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #18
    “I shrug him off. 'Can't you just go away?"

    There's a moment. It has a sound in it, as if something very small got broken.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #19
    “Don't think you have to be good because you're the only one left. Be as bad as you like.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #20
    “Was this love? Because it hurt. It was like a bit of glass stuck somewhere important--his heart or his head, and it was throbbing.”
    Jenny Downham

  • #21
    “Three points for the dead slowly prising open the lids of their coffins. They want to hunt the living. They can't stop. Their throats have turned to liquid and their fingers glint under the weak autumn sun.”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #22
    “Maybe I’ll come back as somebody else.
    I’ll be the wild-haired girl Adam meets in his first week at university. ‘Hi, are you on the horticultural
    course as well?”
    Jenny Downham, Before I Die

  • #23
    “Instructions for Dad.

    I don't want to go into a fridge at an undertaker's. I want you to keep me at home until the funeral. Please can someone sit with me in case I got lonely? I promise not to scare you.
    I want to be buried in my butterfly dress, my lilac bra and knicker set and my black zip boots (all still in the suitcase that I packed for Sicily). I also want to wear the bracelet Adam gave me.
    Don't put make-up on me. It looks stupid on dead people.
    I do NOT want to be cremated. Cremations pollute the atmosphere with dioxins,k hydrochloric acid, hydrofluoric acid, sulphur dioxide and carbon dioxide. They also have those spooky curtains in crematoriums.
    I want a biodegradable willow coffin and a woodland burial. The people at the Natural Death Centre helped me pick a site not for from where we live, and they'll help you with all the arrangements.
    I want a native tree planted on or near my grave. I'd like an oak, but I don't mind a sweet chestnut or even a willow. I want a wooden plaque with my name on. I want wild plants and flowers growing on my grave.
    I want the service to be simple. Tell Zoey to bring Lauren (if she's born by then). Invite Philippa and her husband Andy (if he wants to come), also James from the hospital (though he might be busy).
    I don't want anyone who doesn't know my saying anything about me. THe Natural Death Centre people will stay with you, but should also stay out of it. I want the people I love to get up and speak about me, and even if you cry it'll be OK. I want you to say honest things. Say I was a monster if you like, say how I made you all run around after me. If you can think of anything good, say that too! Write it down first, because apparently people often forget what they mean to say at funerals.
    Don't under any circumstances read that poem by Auden. It's been done to death (ha, ha) and it's too sad. Get someone to read Sonnet 12 by Shakespeare.
    Music- "Blackbird" by the Beatles. "Plainsong" by The Cure. "Live Like You Were Dying" by Tim McGraw. "All the Trees of the Field Will Clap Their Hands" by Sufian Stevens. There may not be time for all of them, but make sure you play the last one. Zoey helped me choose them and she's got them all on her iPod (it's got speakers if you need to borrow it).
    Afterwards, go to a pub for lunch. I've got £260 in my savings account and I really want you to use it for that. Really, I mean it-lunch is on me. Make sure you have pudding-sticky toffee, chocolate fudge cake, ice-cream sundae, something really bad for you. Get drunk too if you like (but don't scare Cal). Spend all the money.
    And after that, when days have gone by, keep an eye out for me. I might write on the steam in the mirror when you're having a bath, or play with the leaves on the apple tree when you're out in the garden. I might slip into a dream.
    Visit my grave when you can, but don't kick yourself if you can't, or if you move house and it's suddenly too far away. It looks pretty there in the summer (check out the website). You could bring a picnic and sit with me. I'd like that.
    OK. That's it.
    I love you.
    Tessa xxx”
    Jenny Downham

  • #24
    Peter    Cameron
    “It wouldn't kill you to get me an iced coffee."
    "No, but not getting killed doing something is not a very compelling reason to do it.”
    Peter Cameron, Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You

  • #25
    Walt Whitman
    “Out of the cradle endlessly rocking,
    Out of the mocking-bird’s throat, the musical shuttle,
    Out of the Ninth-month midnight,
    Over the sterile sands, and the fields beyond, where the child, leaving his bed, wander’d
    alone, bare-headed, barefoot,
    Down from the shower’d halo,
    Up from the mystic play of shadows, twining and twisting as if they were alive,
    Out from the patches of briers and blackberries,
    From the memories of the bird that chanted to me,
    From your memories, sad brother—from the fitful risings and fallings I heard,
    From under that yellow half-moon, late-risen, and swollen as if with tears,
    From those beginning notes of sickness and love, there in the transparent mist,
    From the thousand responses of my heart, never to cease,
    From the myriad thence-arous’d words,
    From the word stronger and more delicious than any,
    From such, as now they start, the scene revisiting,
    As a flock, twittering, rising, or overhead passing,
    Borne hither—ere all eludes me, hurriedly,
    A man—yet by these tears a little boy again,
    Throwing myself on the sand, confronting the waves,
    I, chanter of pains and joys, uniter of here and hereafter,
    Taking all hints to use them—but swiftly leaping beyond them,
    A reminiscence sing. ”
    Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

  • #26
    Walt Whitman
    “Have you heard that it was good to gain the day?
    I also say it is good to fall,
    Battles are lost in the same spirit
    In which they are won”
    Whalt Whitman

  • #27
    Walt Whitman
    “A word of faith that never balks
    Here, or henceforward it is all the same to me
    I accept Time absolutely

    It alone is without flaw
    It alone rounds and completes all
    That mystic baffling wonder alone completes all
    I accept Reality and dare not question it”
    Whalt Whitman

  • #28
    Mark Helprin
    “To be mad is to feel with excruciating intensity the sadness and joy of a time which has not arrived or has already been. And to protect their delicate vision of that other time, madmen will justify their condition with touching loyalty, and surround it with a thousand distractive schemes. These schemes, in turn, drive them deeper and deeper into the darkness and light (which is their mortification and their reward), and confront them with a choice. They may either slacken and fall back, accepting the relief of a rational view and the approval of others, or they may push on, and, by falling, arise. When and if by their unforgivable stubbornness they finally burst through to worlds upon worlds of motionless light, they are no longer called afflicted or insane. They are called saints.”
    Mark Helprin, Winter's Tale

  • #29
    Mark Helprin
    “Quite possibly there's nothing as fine as a big freight train starting across country in early summer, Hardesty thought. That's when you learn that the tragedy of plants is that they have roots.”
    Mark Helprin, Winter's Tale

  • #30
    John Crowley
    “The universe is Time's body.”
    John Crowley, Little, Big



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