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  • #1
    Andrew Solomon
    “It is important not to suppress your feelings altogether when you are depressed. It is equally important to avoid terrible arguments or expressions of outrage. You should steer clear of emotionally damaging behavior. People forgive, but it is best not to stir things up to the point at which forgiveness is required. When you are depressed, you need the love of other people, and yet depression fosters actions that destroy that love. Depressed people often stick pins into their own life rafts. The conscious mind can intervene. One is not helpless.”
    Andrew Solomon, The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression

  • #2
    Shannon L. Alder
    “Your dignity can be mocked, abused, compromised, toyed with, lowered and even badmouthed, but it can never be taken from you. You have the power today to reset your boundaries, restore your image, start fresh with renewed values and rebuild what has happened to you in the past.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #3
    John O'Donohue
    “For Someone Awakening To The Trauma of His or Her Past:

    For everything under the sun there is a time.
    This is the season of your awkward harvesting,
    When the pain takes you where you would rather not go,

    Through the white curtain of yesterdays to a place
    You had forgotten you knew from the inside out;
    And a time when that bitter tree was planted

    That has grown always invisibly beside you
    And whose branches your awakened hands
    Now long to disentangle from your heart.

    You are coming to see how your looking often darkened
    When you should have felt safe enough to fall toward love,
    How deep down your eyes were always owned by something

    That faced them through a dark fester of thorns
    Converting whoever came into a further figure of the wrong;
    You could only see what touched you as already torn.

    Now the act of seeing begins your work of mourning.
    And your memory is ready to show you everything,
    Having waited all these years for you to return and know.

    Only you know where the casket of pain is interred.
    You will have to scrape through all the layers of covering
    And according to your readiness, everything will open.

    May you be blessed with a wise and compassionate guide
    Who can accompany you through the fear and grief
    Until your heart has wept its way to your true self.

    As your tears fall over that wounded place,
    May they wash away your hurt and free your heart.
    May your forgiveness still the hunger of the wound

    So that for the first time you can walk away from that place,
    Reunited with your banished heart, now healed and freed,
    And feel the clear, free air bless your new face.”
    John O'Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings

  • #4
    John O'Donohue
    “You have traveled too fast over false ground;
    Now your soul has come to take you back.

    Take refuge in your senses, open up
    To all the small miracles you rushed through.

    Become inclined to watch the way of rain
    When it falls slow and free.

    Imitate the habit of twilight,
    Taking time to open the well of color
    That fostered the brightness of day.

    Draw alongside the silence of stone
    Until its calmness can claim you.”
    John O'Donohue

  • #5
    John O'Donohue
    “What you encounter, recognize or discover depends to a large degree on the quality of your approach. Many of the ancient cultures practiced careful rituals of approach. An encounter of depth and spirit was preceded by careful preparation.

    When we approach with reverence, great things decide to approach us. Our real life comes to the surface and its light awakens the concealed beauty in things. When we walk on the earth with reverence, beauty will decide to trust us. The rushed heart and arrogant mind lack the gentleness and patience to enter that embrace.”
    John O'Donohue, Beauty: A Study of Beauty in Celtic Spirituality and the Human Spirit

  • #6
    John O'Donohue
    “listening to music renews the heart precisely for this reason: it plumbs the gravity of sorrow until it finds the point of submerged light and lightness. Listening to music stirs the heavy heart; it alters the gravity. Unconsciously it schools us in a different way to hold sorrow. When the music is dark it works through dissonance and harsh notes; like underpainting their beauty is slow to reveal itself but it does ultimately dawn. It frees a space to let in lightness. Unlike anything else in the world, music is neither image nor word and yet it can say and show more than a painting or poem.”
    John O'Donohue, Divine Beauty: The Invisible Embrace

  • #7
    John O'Donohue
    “We rush through our days in such stress and intensity, as if we were here to stay and the serious project of the world depended on us. We worry and grow anxious; we magnify trivia until they become important enough to control our lives. Yet all the time, we have forgotten that we are but temporary sojourners on the surface of a strange planet spinning slowly in the infinite night of the cosmos.”
    John O'Donohue, Eternal Echoes: Celtic Reflections on Our Yearning to Belong

  • #8
    John O'Donohue
    “Only the blindness of habit convinces us that we continue to live in the same place, that we see the same landscape. In truth, no place ever remains the same because light has no mind for repetition; it adores difference. Through its illuminations, it strives to suggest the silent depths that hide in the dark. Light”
    John O'Donohue, Divine Beauty: The Invisible Embrace

  • #9
    John O'Donohue
    “Time unfolds in light. In the morning, light clears all the outside darkness and the shape of each thing emerges in the brightened emptiness. Light identifies itself completely with the voyage of a day; its transparency puts the day out in the open. There is nowhere for a day to hide; it is exposed every minute to the revelations of light. Perhaps this is why twilight appears gracious; when light abandons the day, it does not believe that it will ever return and consequently permits itself an extravagant valediction in a huge ritual of colour. The silence of twilight is striking because the flourish of the colouring has the grandeur of music. As”
    John O'Donohue, Divine Beauty: The Invisible Embrace

  • #10
    David Whyte
    “But no matter the medicinal virtues of being a true friend or sustaining a long close relationship with another, the ultimate touchstone of friendship is not improvement, neither of the other nor of the self, the ultimate touchstone is witness, the privilege of having been seen by someone and the equal privilege of being granted the sight of the essence of another, to have walked with them and to have believed in them, and sometimes just to have accompanied them for however brief a span, on a journey impossible to accomplish alone.”
    David Whyte, Consolations - Revised edition: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words

  • #11
    David Whyte
    “Forgiveness is a heartache and difficult to achieve because strangely, it not only refuses to eliminate the original wound, but actually draws us closer to its source. To approach forgiveness is to close in on the nature of the hurt itself, the only remedy being, as we approach its raw centre, to reimagine our relation to it.”
    David Whyte, Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words

  • #12
    David Whyte
    “Poetry is language against which you have no defenses.”
    David Whyte

  • #13
    David Whyte
    “Beauty is the harvest of presence.”
    David Whyte, Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words

  • #14
    David Whyte
    “To want to run away is an essence of being human, it transforms any staying through the transfigurations of choice. To think about fleeing from circumstances, from a marriage, a relationship or from a work is part of the conversation itself and helps us understand the true distilled nature of our own reluctance. Strangely, we are perhaps most fully incarnated as humans, when part of us does not want to be here, or doesn’t know how to be here. Presence is only fully understood and realized through fully understanding our reluctance to show up. To understand the part of us that wants nothing to do with the full necessities of work, of relationship, of loss, of doing what is necessary, is to learn humility, to cultivate self-compassion and to sharpen that sense of humor essential to a merciful perspective of both a self and another.”
    David Whyte, Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words



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