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  • #1
    Alain de Botton
    “Never having been betrayed sets up poor preconditions for remaining faithful. Evolving into genuinely more loyal people requires us to suffer through some properly innoculative episodes, in which we feel for a time limitlessly panicked, violated and on the edge of collapse. Only then can the injunction not to betray our spouses evolve from a bland bromide into a permanently vivid moral imperative.”
    Alain de Botton, The Course of Love

  • #2
    W.H. Auden
    “I will love you forever" swears the poet. I find this easy to swear too. "I will love you at 4:15 pm next Tuesday" - Is that still as easy?”
    W.H. Auden

  • #3
    Mae West
    “Marriage is a fine institution, but I'm not ready for an institution.”
    Mae West, The 2,548 Best Things Anybody Ever Said

  • #4
    Julian Barnes
    “(on grief) And you do come out of it, that’s true. After a year, after five. But you don’t come out of it like a train coming out of a tunnel, bursting through the downs into sunshine and that swift, rattling descent to the Channel; you come out of it as a gull comes out of an oil-slick. You are tarred and feathered for life.”
    Julian Barnes, Flaubert's Parrot

  • #5
    Homer
    “Dreams surely are difficult, confusing, and not everything in them is brought to pass for mankind. For fleeting dreams have two gates: one is fashioned of horn and one of ivory. Those which pass through the one of sawn ivory are deceptive, bringing tidings which come to nought, but those which issue from the one of polished horn bring true results when a mortal sees them.”
    Homer

  • #6
    Gabriel García Márquez
    “The problem with marriage is that it ends every night after making love, and it must be rebuilt every morning before breakfast.”
    Gabriel García Márquez

  • #7
    Gabriel García Márquez
    “wisdom comes to us when it can no longer do any good.”
    Gabriel García Márquez, Love in the Time of Cholera

  • #8
    Gabriel García Márquez
    “I discovered that my obsession for having each thing in the right place, each subject at the right time, each word in the right style, was not the well-deserved reward of an ordered mind but just the opposite: a complete system of pretense invented by me to hide the disorder of my nature. I discovered that I am not disciplined out of virtue but as a reaction to my negligence, that I appear generous in order to conceal my meanness, that I pass myself off as prudent because I am evil-minded, that I am conciliatory in order not to succumb to my repressed rage, that I am punctual only to hide how little I care about other people’s time. I learned, in short, that love is not a condition of the spirit but a sign of the zodiac.”
    Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Memories of My Melancholy Whores

  • #9
    Andrew Sean Greer
    “A lover exists only in fragments, a dozen or so if the romance is new, a thousand if we're married to him, and out of those fragments our heart constructs an entire person. What we each create, since whatever is missing is filled by our imagination, is the person we wish him to be. The less we know him, of course, the more we love him. And that's why we always remember that first rapturous night when he was a stranger, and why this rapture returns only when he's dead.”
    Andrew Sean Greer, The Story of a Marriage

  • #10
    Andrew Sean Greer
    “No one would have known, from how he held my hand, [that] over the years of heartache he had hatched a plot to change my life forever. He held his grip and would not let me go. I do not know what joins the parts of an atom, but it seems what binds one human to another is pain.”
    Andrew Sean Greer, The Story of a Marriage

  • #11
    Miranda July
    “She never inquired, but she never recoiled, either. This is a quality that I look for in a person, not recoiling.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #12
    Miranda July
    “Life is just this way, broken, and I am crazy to hope for something else.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #13
    Miranda July
    “And why had Deb's last boyfriend dumped her?
    I dumped him.
    Maybe you didn't French-kiss him enough.
    I promise you that wasn't it.
    Tell me how many times a day you kissed, and I'll say if it was enough.
    Four hundred.
    Not enough.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #14
    Miranda July
    “Live the dream, Potato.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #15
    Miranda July
    “He seemed to be waiting for me to move forward. Weren't we all.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #16
    Miranda July
    “Do you have doubts about life? Are you unsure if it's worth the trouble? Look at the sky: that is for you. Look at each person's face as you pass on the street: those faces are for you. And the street itself, and the ground under the street and the ball of fire underneath the ground: all these things are for you. They are as much for you as they are for other people. Remember this when you wake up in the morning and think you have nothing. Stand up and face the east. Now praise the sky and praise the light within each person under the sky. It's okay to be unsure. But praise, praise, praise.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #17
    Miranda July
    “What a terrible mistake to let go of something wonderful for something real.”
    Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You

  • #18
    Mary Ann Shaffer
    “I don't want to be married just to be married. I can't think of anything lonelier than spending the rest of my life with someone I can't talk to, or worse, someone I can't be silent with.”
    Mary Ann Shaffer, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

  • #19
    Julian Barnes
    “When we fall in love, we hope - both egotistically and altruistically - that we shall be finally, truly seen: judged and approved. Of course, love does not always bring approval: being seen may just as well lead to a thumbs-down and a season in hell.”
    Julian Barnes, Nothing to Be Frightened Of

  • #20
    Julian Barnes
    “I certainly believe we all suffer damage, one way or another. How could we not,except in a world of perfect parents, siblings, neighbours, companions? And then there is the question on which so much depends, of how we react to the damage: whether we admit it or repress it,and how this affects our dealings with others.Some admit the damage, and try to mitigate it;some spend their lives trying to help others who are damaged; and there are those whose main concern is to avoid further damage to themselves, at whatever cost. And those are the ones who are ruthless, and the ones to be careful of.”
    Julian Barnes , The Sense of an Ending

  • #21
    Nora Ephron
    “I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”
    Nora Ephron, When Harry Met Sally

  • #22
    Bernhard Schlink
    “Why? Why does what was beautiful suddenly shatter in hindsight because it concealed dark truths? Why does the memory of years of happy marriage turn to gall when our partner is revealed to have had a lover all those years? Because such a situation makes it impossible to be happy? But we were happy! Sometimes the memory of happiness cannot stay true because it ended unhappily. Because happiness is only real if it lasts forever? Because things always end painfully if they contained pain, conscious or unconscious, all along? But what is unconscious, unrecognized pain?”
    Bernhard Schlink, The Reader

  • #23
    Samuel Park
    “Chamara. What is the word that comes closest to it? Soo-Ja wondered. To stand it, to bear it, to grit your teeth and not cry out? To hold on, to wait until the worst is over? There is no other word for it, no way to translate it. It is not a word. It is a way to console yourself. He is not just telling her to stand the pain, but giving her comfort, the power to do so. Chamara is an incantation, and if she listens to its sound, she believes that she can do it, that she will push through this sadness. And if she is strong about it, she'll be rewarded in the end. It is a way of saying, I know, I feel it, too. This burns my heart, too.”
    Samuel Park, This Burns My Heart

  • #24
    Leonard Cohen
    “There is a crack in everything.
    That's how the light gets in.”
    Leonard Cohen, Selected Poems, 1956-1968

  • #25
    Jorge Luis Borges
    “Being with you and not being with you is the only way I have to measure time.”
    Jorge Luis Borges

  • #26
    Jorge Luis Borges
    “I am not sure that I exist, actually. I am all the writers that I have read, all the people that I have met, all the women that I have loved; all the cities I have visited.”
    Jorge Luis Borges

  • #27
    Paulo Coelho
    “Borges said there are only four stories to tell: a love story between two people, a love story between three people, the struggle for power and the voyage. All of us writers rewrite these same stories ad infinitum.”
    Paolo Coelho

  • #28
    Jorge Luis Borges
    “I can give you my loneliness, my darkness, the hunger of my heart, I am trying to bribe you with uncertainty, with danger, with defeat.”
    Jorge Luis Borges

  • #29
    Wisława Szymborska
    “Let the people who never find true love
    keep saying that there's no such thing.

    Their faith will make it easier for them to live and die.”
    Wislawa Szymborska, View with a Grain of Sand: Selected Poems

  • #30
    Wisława Szymborska
    “Every beginning, after all, is nothing but a sequel, and the book of events is always open in the middle.”
    Wislawa Szymborska



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