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  • #1
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

    A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

    A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

  • #2
    Andrew  Boyd
    “We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”

    I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.”
    Andrew Boyd, Daily Afflictions: The Agony of Being Connected to Everything in the Universe

  • #3
    Vladimir Nabokov
    “It was love at first sight, at last sight, at ever and ever sight.”
    Vladimir Nabokov, Lolita

  • #4
    David Levithan
    abstraction, n.

    Love is one kind of abstraction. And then there are those nights when I sleep alone, when I curl into a pillow that isn't you, when I hear the tiptoe sounds that aren't yours. It's not as if I can conjure you up completely. I must embrace the idea of you instead.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #5
    David Levithan
    “It was a mistake," you said. But the cruel thing was, it felt like the mistake was mine, for trusting you.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #6
    David Levithan
    “livid, adj.

    Fuck You for cheating on me. Fuck you for reducing it to the word cheating. As if this were a card game, and you sneaked a look at my hand. Who came up with the term cheating, anyway? A cheater, I imagine. Someone who thought liar was too harsh. Someone who thought devastator was too emotional. The same person who thought, oops, he’d gotten caught with his hand in the cookie jar. Fuck you. This isn’t about slipping yourself an extra twenty dollars of Monopoly money. These are our lives. You went and broke our lives. You are so much worse than a cheater. You killed something. And you killed it when its back was turned.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #7
    David Levithan
    “Trying to write about love is ultimately like trying to have a dictionary represent life. No matter how many words there are, there will never be enough.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #8
    David Levithan
    recant, v.

    I want to take back at least half of the “I love you”s, because I didn’t mean them as much as the other ones. I want to take back the book of artsy photos I gave you, because you didn’t get it and said it was hipster trash. I want to take back what I said about you being an emotional zombie. I want to take back the time I called you “honey” in front of your sister and you looked like I had just shown her pictures of us having sex. I want to take back the wineglass I broke when I was mad, because it was a nice wineglass and the argument would have ended anyway. I want to take back the time we had sex in a rent-a-car, not because I feel bad about the people who got in the car after us, but because it was massively uncomfortable. I want to take back the trust I had while you were away in Austin. I want to take back the time I said you were a genius, because I was being sarcastic and I should have just said you’d hurt my feelings. I want to take back the secrets I told you so I can decide now whether to tell them to you again. I want to take back the piece of me that lies in you, to see if I truly miss it. I want to take back at least half the “I love you”s, because it feels safer that way.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #9
    David Levithan
    “It scares me how hard it is to remember life before you. I can't even make the comparisons anymore, because my memories of that time have all the depth of a photograph. It seems foolish to play games of better and worse. It's simply a matter of is and is no longer.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #10
    David Levithan
    misgivings, n.

    Last night, I got up the courage to ask you if you regretted us.
    "There are things I miss," you said. "But if I didn't have you, I'd miss more.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #11
    David Levithan
    “I want my own books to have their own shelves," you said, and that's how I knew it would be okay to live together.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #12
    David Levithan
    libidinous, adj.

    I never understood why anyone would have sex on the floor. Until I was with you and I realized: you don't ever realize you're on the floor.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary
    tags: love, sex

  • #13
    Ram Dass
    “As long as you have certain desires about how it ought to be you can't see how it is.”
    ram dass

  • #14
    “You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you still remember dreaming? That’s where I’ll always love you. That’s where I’ll be waiting.”
    James V. Hart, Hook

  • #15
    Jodee Blanco
    “What a desperate, pathetic fool I was. Time after time, my "friends" had shown me their true colors. Yet, I still wanted to believe they were sorry for causing me pain. p. 128”
    Jodee Blanco, Please Stop Laughing at Me... One Woman's Inspirational Story

  • #16
    Harper Lee
    “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it.”
    Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

  • #17
    Harper Lee
    “People generally see what they look for, and hear what they listen for.”
    Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

  • #18
    Harper Lee
    “It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived.”
    Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

  • #19
    Harper Lee
    “As you grow older, you’ll see white men cheat black men every day of your life, but let me tell you something and don’t you forget it—whenever a white man does that to a black man, no matter who he is, how rich he is, or how fine a family he comes from, that white man is trash”
    Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

  • #20
    Harper Lee
    “I was born good but had grown progressively worse every year.
    Scout”
    Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

  • #21
    Harper Lee
    “There are just some kind of men who-who're so busy worrying about the next world they've never learned to live in this one, and you can look down the street and see the results.”
    Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird

  • #22
    Vladimir Nabokov
    “It is late now, I am a bit tired; the sky is irritated by stars. And I love you, I love you, I love you – and perhaps this is how the whole enormous world, shining all over, can be created – out of five vowels and three consonants.”
    Vladimir Nabokov, Letters to Vera

  • #23
    Seneca
    “LETTERA 3 LA VERA AMICIZIA

    Ma se stimi amico uno, e poi non hai in lui la stessa fiducia che hai in te stesso, commetti un grave errore e ignori il valore della vera amicizia.”
    Seneca, Lettere a Lucilio

  • #24
    David Levithan
    “An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you're doing, even if the other person isn't doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it's a crush that you haven't even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there -- you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else's. But you don't know why. You don't know that you're doing it. You'd follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
    David Levithan, Geektastic: Stories from the Nerd Herd

  • #25
    David Levithan
    “She's cinematic and I'm a fucking sitcom.”
    David Levithan, Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist

  • #26
    David Levithan
    “You like him because he's a lost boy. Believe me, I've seen it happen before. But do you know what happens to girls who love lost boys? They become lost themselves. Without fail.”
    David Levithan, Every Day

  • #27
    David Levithan
    lover, n.

    Oh, how I hated this word. So pretentious, like it was always being translated from the French. The tint and taint of illicit, illegitimate affections. Dictionary meaning: a person having a love affair. Impermanent. Unfamilial. Inextricably linked to sex.
    I have never wanted a lover. In order to have a lover, I must go back to the root of the word. For I have never wanted a lover, but I have always wanted lover, and to be loved.
    There is no word for the recipient of the love. There is only a word for the giver. There is the assumption that lovers come in pairs.
    When I say, Be my lover, I don't mean, Let's have an affair. I don't mean Sleep with me. I don't mean, Be my secret.
    I want us to go back to that root.
    I want you to be the one who loves me.
    I want to be the one who loves you.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #28
    David Levithan
    “There has to be a moment at the beginning where you wonder whether you’re in love with the person or in love with the feeling of love itself.
    If the moment doesn’t pass, that’s it—you’re done.
    And if the moment does pass, it never goes that far. It stands in the distance, ready for whenever you want it back. Sometimes it’s even there when you thought you were searching for something else, like an escape route, or your lovers’ face.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary
    tags: love

  • #29
    David Levithan
    love, n.

    I'm not even going to try.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

  • #30
    David Levithan
    breathtaking, adj.

    Those mornings when we kiss and surrender for an hour before we say a single word.”
    David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary



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