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  • #1
    “You may remember that the narcissist essentially experiences and understands others as if they were an extension of his own self. He, therefore, feels entitled to what you have”
    Eleanor Payson, The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family

  • #2
    Joe Hill
    “Maturity is not something that happens all at once. It is not a border between two countries where once you cross the invisible line, you are on the new soil of adulthood, speaking the foreign tongue of grown-ups. It is more like a distant broadcast, and you are driving toward it, and sometimes you can barely make it out through the hiss of static while other times the reception momentarily clears and you can pick up the signal with perfect clarity.”
    Joe Hill, Strange Weather

  • #3
    Joe Hill
    “The president had disappeared to a secure location but had responded with the full force of his Twitter account. He posted: “OUR ENEMIES DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY STARTED! PAYBACK IS A BITCH!!! #Denver #Colorado #America!!” The vice president had promised to pray as hard as he could for the survivors and the dead; he pledged to stay on his knees all day and all night long. It was reassuring to know our national leaders were using all the resources at their disposal to help the desperate: social media and Jesus.”
    Joe Hill, Strange Weather

  • #4
    Joe Hill
    “The best way to get even with anyone is to put them in the rearview mirror on your way to something better.”
    Joe Hill, Horns

  • #5
    Ramani Durvasula
    “Relationships with narcissists are held in place by hope
    of a “someday better,” with little evidence to support it will ever arrive.”
    Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

  • #6
    Ramani Durvasula
    “The narcissist is like a bucket with a hole in the bottom: No matter how much you put in, you can never fill it up. The phrase “I never feel like I am enough” is the mantra of the person in the narcissistic relationship. That’s because to your narcissistic partner, you are not. No one is. Nothing is.”
    Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

  • #7
    Ramani Durvasula
    “Narcissists are precisely that: careless.
    They barrel through life, using relationships and people as objects, tools, and folly. While they often seem as if they are cruel or harsh, that is in fact giving them too much credit. They are simply careless. And they do expect other people to clean up their messes.
    But carelessness is cruel. Frankly, the motivation for their behavior does not matter; what matters is the outcome. And that outcome is damage to other people’s well-being, hopes, aspirations, and lives. Carelessness captures it, but it is not an excuse.”
    Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

  • #8
    Ramani Durvasula
    “Narcissists have poorly regulated self-esteem, so they are chronically vulnerable. If they are vulnerable then there is the threat that they may get found out, so they often maintain a grandiose exterior. Because they always measure themselves by other people, they also measure themselves against other people. They are chronically reliant on the opinions of others to form their own sense of self and are always comparing themselves, their status, their possessions and their lives to other people to determine their sense of worth and self-esteem (in a way, narcissists outsource their sense of self).”
    Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

  • #9
    Ramani Durvasula
    “The emptiness of the narcissist often means that they are only focused on whatever is useful or interesting to them at the moment. If at that moment it is interesting for them to tell you they love you, they do. It’s not really a long game to them, and when the next interesting issue comes up, they attend to that. The objectification of others—viewing other people as objects useful to his needs—can also play a role. When you are the only thing in the room, or the most interesting thing in the room, then the narcissist’s charisma and charm can leave you convinced that you are his everything. The problem is that this is typically superficial regard, and that superficiality results in inconsistency, and emotions for the narcissistic person range from intense to detached on a regular basis. This vacillation between intensity and detachment can be observed in the narcissist’s relationships with people (acquaintances, friends, family, and partners), work, and experiences. A healthy relationship should feel like a safe harbor in your life. Life throws us enough curve balls in the shape of money problems, work issues, medical issues, household issues, and even the weather. Sadly, a relationship with a narcissist can be one more source of chaos in your life, rather than a place of comfort and consistency.”
    Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

  • #10
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I’m a free spirit who never had the balls to be free.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #11
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Alone had always felt like an actual place to me, as if it weren’t a state of being, but rather a room where I could retreat to be who I really was.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #12
    Cheryl Strayed
    “It had nothing to do with gear or footwear or the backpacking fads or philosophies of any particular era or even with getting from point A to point B.

    It had to do with how it felt to be in the wild. With what it was like to walk for miles with no reason other than to witness the accumulation of trees and meadows, mountains and deserts, streams and rocks, rivers and grasses, sunrises and sunsets. The experience was powerful and fundamental. It seemed to me that it had always felt like this to be a human in the wild, and as long as the wild existed it would always feel this way.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #13
    Cheryl Strayed
    “The father’s job is to teach his children how to be warriors, to give them the confidence to get on the horse to ride into battle when it’s necessary to do so. If you don’t get that from your father, you have to teach yourself.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #14
    Cheryl Strayed
    “That my complicated life could be made so simple was astounding.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #15
    Cheryl Strayed
    “God is not a granter of wishes. God is a ruthless bitch.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail
    tags: gods

  • #16
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I was amazed that what I needed to survive could be carried on my back. And, most surprising of all, that I could carry it.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #17
    Cheryl Strayed
    “The thing about hiking the Pacific Crest Trail, the thing that was so profound to me that summer—and yet also, like most things, so very simple—was how few choices I had and how often I had to do the thing I least wanted to do. How there was no escape or denial. No numbing it down with a martini or covering it up with a roll in the hay. As I clung to the chaparral that day, attempting to patch up my bleeding finger, terrified by every sound that the bull was coming back, I considered my options. There were only two and they were essentially the same. I could go back in the direction I had come from, or I could go forward in the direction I intended to go.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #18
    Cheryl Strayed
    “There’s always a sunrise and always a sunset and it’s up to you to choose to be there for it,’ said my mother. 'Put yourself in the way of beauty.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #19
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I never got to be in the driver’s seat of my own life,” she’d wept to me once, in the days after she learned she was going to die. “I always did what someone else wanted me to do. I’ve always been someone’s daughter or mother or wife. I’ve never just been me.” “Oh, Mom,” was all I could say as I stroked her hand. I was too young to say anything else.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #20
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Reading's my reward at the end of the day”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #21
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Maybe I was more alone than anyone in the whole wide world. Maybe that was okay.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #22
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Each evening, I ached for the shelter of my tent, for the smallest sense that something was shielding me from the entire rest of the world, keeping me safe not from danger, but from vastness itself. I loved the dim, clammy dark of my tent, the cozy familiarity of the way I arranged my few belongings all around me each night.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #23
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I didn’t feel like a big fat idiot anymore. And I didn’t feel like a hard-ass motherfucking Amazonian queen. I felt fierce and humble and gathered up inside, like I was safe in this world too.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #24
    Cheryl Strayed
    “It only had to do with how it felt to be in the wild. With what it was like to walk for miles for no reason other than to witness the accumulation of trees and meadows, mountains and deserts, streams and rocks, rivers and grasses, sunrises and sunsets. The experience was powerful and fundamental. It seemed to me that it had always felt like this to be a human in the wild, and as long as the wild existed it would always feel this way.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #25
    Cheryl Strayed
    “This was once Mazama, I kept reminding myself. This was once a mountain that stood nearly 12,000 feet tall and then had its heart removed. This was once a wasteland of lava and pumice and ash. This was once an empty bowl that took hundreds of years to fill. But hard as I tried, I couldn't see them in my mind's eye. Not the mountain or the wasteland or the empty bowl. They simply were not there anymore. There was only the stillness and the silence of that water: what a mountain and a wasteland and an empty bowl turned into after the healing process.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #26
    Cheryl Strayed
    “I was reading about animals a while back and there was this motherfucking scientist in France back in the thirties or forties or whenever the motherfuck it was and he was trying to get apes to draw these pictures, to make art pictures like the kinds of pictures in serious motherfucking paintings that you see in museums and shit. So the scientist keeps showing the apes these paintings and giving them charcoal pencils to draw with and then one day one of the apes finally draws something but it’s not the art pictures that it draws. What it draws is the bars of its own motherfucking cage. Its own motherfucking cage! Man, that's the truth, ain't it?”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #27
    Cheryl Strayed
    “How fabulous down was for those first minutes! Down, down, down I'd go until down too became impossible and punishing and so relentless that I'd pray for the trail to go back up. Going down, I realized was like taking hold of the loose strand of yarn on a sweater you'd just spent hours knitting and pulling it until the entire sweater unraveled into a pile of string. Hiking the PCT was the maddening effort of knitting that sweater and unraveling it over and over again. As if everything gained was inevitably lost.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

  • #28
    Andrzej Sapkowski
    “We were all just as brave,’ finished Julia Abatemarco. ‘Neither of the sides had the strength to be braver. But we … We managed to be brave for a minute longer.”
    Andrzej Sapkowski, The Lady of the Lake

  • #29
    Andrzej Sapkowski
    “when they’re about to hang you, ask for a glass of water. You never know what might happen before they bring it.”
    Andrzej Sapkowski, Lady of the Lake

  • #30
    Andrzej Sapkowski
    “To be neutral does not mean to be indifferent or insensitive. You don't have to kill your feelings. It's enough to kill hatred within yourself.”
    Andrzej Sapkowski, Krew elfów



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