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  • #1
    Adrienne Rich
    “Responsibility to yourself means refusing to let others do your thinking, talking, and naming for you...it means that you do not treat your body as a commodity with which to purchase superficial intimacy or economic security; for our bodies to be treated as objects, our minds are in mortal danger. It means insisting that those to whom you give your friendship and love are able to respect your mind. It means being able to say, with Charlotte Bronte's Jane Eyre: "I have an inward treasure born with me, which can keep me alive if all the extraneous delights should be withheld or offered only at a price I cannot afford to give.

    Responsibility to yourself means that you don't fall for shallow and easy solutions--predigested books and ideas...marrying early as an escape from real decisions, getting pregnant as an evasion of already existing problems. It means that you refuse to sell your talents and aspirations short...and this, in turn, means resisting the forces in society which say that women should be nice, play safe, have low professional expectations, drown in love and forget about work, live through others, and stay in the places assigned to us. It means that we insist on a life of meaningful work, insist that work be as meaningful as love and friendship in our lives. It means, therefore, the courage to be "different"...The difference between a life lived actively, and a life of passive drifting and dispersal of energies, is an immense difference. Once we begin to feel committed to our lives, responsible to ourselves, we can never again be satisfied with the old, passive way.”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #2
    Adrienne Rich
    “No one has imagined us. We want to live like trees,
    sycamores blazing through the sulfuric air,
    dappled with scars, still exuberantly budding,
    our animal passion rooted in the city.”
    Adrienne Rich, The Dream of a Common Language

  • #3
    Adrienne Rich
    “If you think you can grasp me, think again:
    my story flows in more than one direction
    a delta springing from the riverbed
    with its five fingers spread”
    Adrienne Rich, Time's Power

  • #4
    Adrienne Rich
    “I don't trust them but I'm learning to use them.”
    Adrienne Rich, Diving Into the Wreck

  • #5
    Adrienne Rich
    “I choose to love this time for once
    with all my intelligence

    -from "Splittings”
    Adrienne Rich, The Dream of a Common Language

  • #6
    Adrienne Rich
    “and I ask myself and you, which of our visions will claim us
    which will we claim
    how will we go on living
    how will we touch, what will we know
    what will we say to each other.”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #7
    Adrienne Rich
    “I am an instrument in the shape/ of a woman trying to translate pulsations/ into images for the relief of the body/ and the reconstruction of the mind.”
    Adrienne Rich, The Fact of a Doorframe: Poems Selected and New, 1950-1984

  • #8
    Adrienne Rich
    “Behind all art is an element of desire...Love of life, of existence, love of another human being, love of human beings is in some way behind all art — even the most angry, even the darkest, even the most grief-stricken, and even the most embittered art has that element somewhere behind it. Because how could you be so despairing, so embittered, if you had not had something you loved that you lost?”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #9
    Adrienne Rich
    “Truthfulness, honor, is not something which springs ablaze of itself; it has to be created between people. This is true in political situations. The quality and depth of the politics evolving from a group depends in large part on their understanding of honor. Much of what is narrowly termed "politics" seems to rest on a longing for certainty even at the cost of honesty, for an analysis which, once given, need not be re-examined…It isn't that to have an honorable relationship with you, I have to understand everything, or tell you everything at once, or that I can know, beforehand, everything I need to tell you. It means that most of the time I am eager, longing for the possibility of telling you. That these possibilities may seem frightening, but not destructive to me. That I feel strong enough to hear your tentative and groping words. That we both know we are trying, all the time, to extend the possibilities of truth between us.”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #10
    Adrienne Rich
    “To do something very common, in my own way.”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #11
    Adrienne Rich
    “We move but our words stand
    become responsible
    for more than we intended

    and this is verbal privilege”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #12
    Adrienne Rich
    “The possibilities that exist between two people, or among a group of people, are a kind of alchemy. They are the most interesting thing in life. The liar is someone who keeps losing sight of these possibilities”
    Adrienne Rich, On Lies, Secrets, and Silence. Selected Prose 1966-1978

  • #13
    Adrienne Rich
    “No one’s fated or doomed to love anyone.
    The accidents happen, we’re not heroines,
    they happen in our lives like car crashes,
    books that change us, neighborhoods
    we move into and come to love.”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #14
    Adrienne Rich
    “We stayed mute and disloyal
    because we were afraid

    I would have touched my fingers
    to where your breasts had been
    but we never did such things”
    Adrienne Rich, The Dream of a Common Language

  • #15
    Adrienne Rich
    “Theory-the seeing of patterns, showing the forest as well as the trees”
    Adrienne Rich, Blood, Bread, and Poetry: Selected Prose, 1979-1985

  • #16
    Adrienne Rich
    “The retreat into sameness—assimilation for those who can manage it—is the most passive and debilitating of responses to political repression, economic insecurity, and a renewed open season on difference.”
    Adrienne Rich, Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence

  • #17
    Adrienne Rich
    “It seems obvious that throughout history, as one of the few professions open to women, midwifery must have attracted women of unusual intelligence, competence, and self-respect§. While acknowledging that many remedies used by the witches were “purely magical” and worked, if at all, by suggestion, Ehrenreich and English point out an important distinction between the witch-healer and the medical man of the late Middle Ages: . . . the witch was an empiricist; She relied on her senses rather than on faith or doctrine, she believed in trial and error, cause and effect. Her attitude was not religiously passive, but actively inquiring. She trusted her ability to find ways to deal with disease, pregnancy and childbirth—whether through medication or charms. In short, her magic was the science of her time. By contrast: There was nothing in late mediaeval medical training that conflicted with church doctrine, and little that we would recognize as “science”. Medical students . . . spent years studying Plato, Aristotle and Christian theology. . . . While a student, a doctor rarely saw any patients at all, and no experimentation of any kind was taught. . . . Confronted with a sick person, the university-trained physician had little to go on but superstition. . . . Such was the state of medical “science” at the time when witch-healers were persecuted for being practitioners of “magic”.15 Since asepsis and the transmission of disease through bacteria and unwashed hands was utterly unknown until the latter part of the nineteenth century, dirt was a presence in any medical situation—real dirt, not the misogynistic dirt associated by males with the female body. The midwife, who attended only women in labor, carried fewer disease bacteria with her than the physician.”
    Adrienne Rich, Of Woman Born: Motherhood as Experience and Institution

  • #18
    Adrienne Rich
    “why should the wild child
    weep for the scientists

    why”
    Adrienne Rich

  • #19
    Donna Tartt
    “Sometimes it's about playing a poor hand well.”
    Donna Tartt, The Goldfinch

  • #20
    Lygia Fagundes Telles
    “Via agora que jamais poderia se libertar das suas antigas faces, impossível negá-las porque tinha qualquer coisa de comum que permanecia no fundo de cada uma delas, qualquer coisa que era como uma misteriosa unidade ligando umas às outras, sucessivamente, até chegar à face atual.”
    Lygia Fagundes Telles, Ciranda de Pedra



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