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  • #1
    Peter Høeg
    “I feel the same way about solitude as some people feel about the blessing of the church. It's the light of grace for me. I never close my door behind me without the awareness that I am carrying out an act of mercy toward myself.”
    Peter Høeg, Smilla's Sense of Snow

  • #2
    Nicole Krauss
    “there are two types of people in the world: those who prefer to be sad among others, and those who prefer to be sad alone.”
    Nicole Krauss, The History of Love

  • #3
    Nicole Krauss
    “Part of me is made of glass, and also, I love you.”
    Nicole Krauss, The History of Love

  • #4
    Jonathan Safran Foer
    “This is love, she thought, isn't it? When you notice someone's absence and hate that absence more than anything? More, even, than you love his presence?”
    Jonathan Safran Foer, Everything is Illuminated

  • #5
    Sei Shōnagon
    “Equally disagreeable is the man who, when leaving in the middle of the night, takes care to fasten the cord of his headdress. This is quite unnecessary; he could perfectly well put it gently on his head without tying the cord. And why must he spend time adjusting his cloak or hunting costume? Does he really think that someone may see him at this time of night and criticize him for not being impeccably dressed?

    A good lover will behave as elegantly at dawn as at any other time. He drags himself out of bed with a look of dismay on his face. The lady urges him on: “Come, my friend, it’s getting light. You don’t want anyone to find you here.” He gives a deep sigh, as if to say that the night has not been nearly long enough and that it is agony to leave. Once up, he does not instantly pull on his trousers. Instead, he comes close to the lady and whispers whatever was left unsaid during the night. Even when he is dressed, he still lingers, vaguely pretending to be fastening his sash.

    Presently he raises the lattice, and the two lovers stand together by the side door while he tells her how he dreads the coming day, which will keep them apart; then he slips away. The lady watches him go, and this moment of parting will remain among her most charming memories.

    Indeed, one’s attachment to a man depends largely on the elegance of his leave-taking. When he jumps out of bed, scurries about the room, tightly fastens his trouser-sash, rolls up the sleeves of his Court cloak, over-robe, or hunting costume, stuffs his belongings into the breast of his robe and then briskly secures the outer sash—one really begins to hate him.”
    Sei Shōnagon, The Pillow Book

  • #6
    M.L. Stedman
    “Izz, I've learned the hard way that to have any kind of a future you've got to give up hope of ever changing your past.”
    M. L. Stedman, The Light Between Oceans

  • #7
    Nicole Krauss
    “I was never a man of great ambition
    I cried too easily
    I didn't have a head for science
    Words often failed me
    While others prayed I only moved my lips”
    Nicole Krauss, The History of Love

  • #8
    Mark Twain
    “The man who does not read has no advantage over the man who cannot read.”
    Mark Twain

  • #9
    Elie Wiesel
    “The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.”
    Elie Wiesel

  • #10
    André Aciman
    “People who read are hiders. They hide who they are. People who hide don’t always like who they are.”
    André Aciman, Call Me by Your Name

  • #11
    André Aciman
    “Did I want him to act? Or would I prefer a lifetime of longing provided we both kept this little Ping-Pong game going: not knowing, not-not-knowing, not-not-not-knowing? Just be quiet, say nothing, and if you can't say "yes," don't say "no," say "later." Is this why people say "maybe" when they mean "yes," but hope you'll think it's "no" when all they really mean is, Please, just ask me once more, and once more after that?
    André Aciman, Call Me by Your Name

  • #12
    André Aciman
    “Over the years I'd lodged him in the permanent past, my pluperfect lover, put him on ice, stuffed him with memories and mothballs like a hunted ornament confabulating with the ghost of all my evenings. I'd dust him off from time to time and then put him back on the mantelpiece. He no longer belonged to earth or to life. All I was likely to discover at this point wasn't just how distant were the paths we'd taken, it was the measure of loss that was going to strike me--a loss I didn't mind thinking about in abstract terms but which would hurt when stared at in the face, the way nostalgia hurts long after we've stopped thinking of things we lost and may never have cared for.”
    André Aciman, Call Me by Your Name

  • #13
    André Aciman
    “Whoever said the soul and the body met in the pineal gland was a fool. It's the asshole, stupid.”
    André Aciman, Call Me by Your Name

  • #14
    Nicole Krauss
    “In the months after the relationship ends, a person can seem to grow at a lightning rate, like in a nature documentary where weeks of footage is run at high speed to show a plant unfurling in seconds, but in reality the person has been growing all along, under the surface, and it is only in their new freedom, in their hair-raising aloneness, that the person can allow for these underground things to break through and unfurl themselves in the light.”
    Nicole Krauss, Forest Dark

  • #15
    Nicole Krauss
    “But then a foreboding thought cast a shadow over the rest, blunt and unadorned, and it was simply this: that for most of my life i had been emulating the thoughts and actions of other people. That so much I had done or said had been a mirror of what was said and done around me. And that if i continued in this manner, whatever glimmers of brilliant life still burned in me would soon go out. When i was very young it had been otherwise, but I could hardly recall that time, it was buried so far below. I was only certain that a period had existed in which i looked at the things of the world without needing to subordinate them to order. I simply saw, with whatever originality I was born with, the whole of things, without needing to give them a human translation. I would never again be able to see like that, I knew that, and yet, lying there, it seemed to me that I'd failed to fulfill the promise of that vision I once had, before i began to slowly learn to look at everything the way others looked, and to copy the things they said and did, and to shape my life after theirs, as if no other range of being had occurred to me.”
    Nicole Krauss, Forest Dark

  • #16
    Nicole Krauss
    “This is why the rabbis tell us that a broken heart is more full than one that is content: because a broken heart has a vacancy, and the vacancy has the potential to be filled with the infinite.”
    Nicole Krauss, Forest Dark

  • #17
    Kate Atkinson
    “He was born a politician.
    No, Ursula thought, he was born a baby, like everyone else. And this is what he has chosen to become.”
    Kate Atkinson, Life After Life

  • #18
    Kate Atkinson
    “Become such as you are, having learned what that is.”
    Kate Atkinson, Life After Life

  • #19
    Kate Atkinson
    “If people believed in eternal damnation they might not be seizing the day quite so much.”
    Kate Atkinson, Life After Life

  • #20
    Norman Lebrecht
    “The thing you have to remember about artists...is never to trust their immediate response. Whatever the news, their reaction will be self-protective. The mask goes on, and you see only what they let you see. These creatures carry their emotions around in a violin-case, reserving their only honest expression for the public stage. In private, they turn emotion on and off at will. Never believe an artist when he weeps or declares love. It's all a grand performance. Treat their upsets as you would a child's tantrums. Console, then instruct. Show compassion when it's called for, firmness when it runs out. Give them an illusion of your love for them - but never love itself, or they will devour you.”
    Norman Lebrecht, The Song of Names

  • #21
    Helen Oyeyemi
    “If you should find yourself in a place that is indifferent to you and there is someone there that your spirit stretches to, then that person is kin.”
    Helen Oyeyemi, The Opposite House

  • #22
    Roddy Doyle
    “If there is a heaven, Jane Austen is sitting in a small room with Mother Teresa and Princess Diana, listening to Duran Duran, forever. If there's a hell, she's standing.”
    Roddy Doyle

  • #23
    Nora Ephron
    “…the amount of maintenance involving hair is genuinely overwhelming. Sometimes I think that not having to worry about your hair anymore is the secret upside of death.”
    Nora Ephron, I Feel Bad About My Neck and Other Thoughts on Being a Woman

  • #24
    Nora Ephron
    “I want to talk to her. I want to have lunch with her. I want her to give me a book she just read and loved. She is my phantom limb, and I just can’t believe I’m here without her.”- on losing her best friend”
    Nora Ephron, I Feel Bad About My Neck and Other Thoughts on Being a Woman

  • #25
    Nora Ephron
    “Reading is one of the main things I do. Reading is everything. Reading makes me feel I’ve accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. Reading makes me smarter. Reading gives me something to talk about later on. Reading is the unbelievably healthy way my attention deficit disorder medicates itself. Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it’s a way to make contact with reality after a day of making things up, and it’s a way of making contact with someone else’s imagination after a day that’s all too real. Reading is grist. Reading is bliss.”
    Nora Ephron, I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman

  • #26
    Nora Ephron
    “Do you splurge or do you hoard? Do you live every day as if it’s your last, or do you save your money on the chance you’ll live twenty more years? Is life too short, or is it going to be too long? Do you work as hard as you can, or do you slow down to smell the roses?”
    Nora Ephron, I Feel Bad About My Neck and Other Thoughts on Being a Woman

  • #27
    Nora Ephron
    “Sometimes I think that not having to worry a bout your hair anymore is the secret upside of death.”
    Nora Ephron, I Feel Bad About My Neck and Other Thoughts on Being a Woman

  • #28
    Ralph Waldo Emerson
    “A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words, and to-morrow speak what to-morrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said to-day. — 'Ah, so you shall be sure to be misunderstood.' — Is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.”
    Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance: An Excerpt from Collected Essays, First Series

  • #29
    Mark Twain
    “If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.”
    Mark Twain

  • #30
    “Just as, in travel, one may miss seeing the sunset because one cannot find the ticket-office or is afraid of missing the train, so in even the closest human relationships a vast amount of time and of affection is drained away in minor misunderstandings, missed opportunities, and failures in consideration or understanding.”
    Iris Origo



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