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  • #1
    Audre Lorde
    “When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #2
    Audre Lorde
    “I was going to die, sooner or later, whether or not I had even spoken myself. My silences had not protected me. Your silences will not protect you.... What are the words you do not yet have? What are the tyrannies you swallow day by day and attempt to make your own, until you will sicken and die of them, still in silence? We have been socialized to respect fear more than our own need for language."

    I began to ask each time: "What's the worst that could happen to me if I tell this truth?" Unlike women in other countries, our breaking silence is unlikely to have us jailed, "disappeared" or run off the road at night. Our speaking out will irritate some people, get us called bitchy or hypersensitive and disrupt some dinner parties. And then our speaking out will permit other women to speak, until laws are changed and lives are saved and the world is altered forever.

    Next time, ask: What's the worst that will happen? Then push yourself a little further than you dare. Once you start to speak, people will yell at you. They will interrupt you, put you down and suggest it's personal. And the world won't end.

    And the speaking will get easier and easier. And you will find you have fallen in love with your own vision, which you may never have realized you had. And you will lose some friends and lovers, and realize you don't miss them. And new ones will find you and cherish you. And you will still flirt and paint your nails, dress up and party, because, as I think Emma Goldman said, "If I can't dance, I don't want to be part of your revolution." And at last you'll know with surpassing certainty that only one thing is more frightening than speaking your truth. And that is not speaking.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #3
    Audre Lorde
    “I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstood.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #4
    Audre Lorde
    A Litany for Survival

    For those of us who live at the shoreline
    standing upon the constant edges of decision
    crucial and alone
    for those of us who cannot indulge
    the passing dreams of choice
    who love in doorways coming and going
    in the hours between dawns
    looking inward and outward
    at once before and after
    seeking a now that can breed
    futures
    like bread in our children's mouths
    so their dreams will not reflect
    the death of ours:

    For those of us
    who were imprinted with fear
    like a faint line in the center of our foreheads
    learning to be afraid with our mother's milk
    for by this weapon
    this illusion of some safety to be found
    the heavy-footed hoped to silence us
    For all of us
    this instant and this triumph
    We were never meant to survive.

    And when the sun rises we are afraid
    it might not remain
    when the sun sets we are afraid
    it might not rise in the morning
    when our stomachs are full we are afraid
    of indigestion
    when our stomachs are empty we are afraid
    we may never eat again
    when we are loved we are afraid
    love will vanish
    when we are alone we are afraid
    love will never return
    and when we speak we are afraid
    our words will not be heard
    nor welcomed
    but when we are silent
    we are still afraid

    So it is better to speak
    remembering
    we were never meant to survive.”
    Audre Lorde, The Black Unicorn: Poems

  • #5
    Audre Lorde
    “I want to live the rest of my life, however long or short, with as much sweetness as I can decently manage, loving all the people I love, and doing as much as I can of the work I still have to do. I am going to write fire until it comes out of my ears, my eyes, my noseholes--everywhere. Until it's every breath I breathe. I'm going to go out like a fucking meteor!”
    Audre Lorde

  • #6
    Audre Lorde
    “Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #7
    Audre Lorde
    “I have a duty to speak the truth as I see it and share not just my triumphs, not just the things that felt good, but the pain, the intense, often unmitigated pain. It is important to share how I know survival is survival and not just a walk throught the rain.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #8
    Audre Lorde
    “But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #9
    Audre Lorde
    “Sometimes we are blessed with being able to choose
    the time, and the arena, and the manner of our revolution,
    but more usually
    we must do battle where we are standing.”
    Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches

  • #10
    Audre Lorde
    “Without community, there is no liberation.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #11
    Audre Lorde
    “If you come as softly
    As wind within the trees
    You may hear what I hear
    See what sorrow sees.

    If you come as lightly
    As threading dew
    I will take you gladly
    Nor ask more of you.

    You may sit beside me
    Silent as a breath
    Only those who stay dead
    Shall remember death.

    And if you come I will be silent
    Nor speak harsh words to you.
    I will not ask you why, now.
    Or how, or what you do.

    We shall sit here, softly
    Beneath two different years
    And the rich earth between us
    Shall drink our tears.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #12
    Audre Lorde
    “Tell them about how you're never really a whole person if you remain silent, because there's always that one little piece inside you that wants to be spoken out, and if you keep ignoring it, it gets madder and madder and hotter and hotter, and if you don't speak it out one day it will just up and punch you in the mouth from the inside.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #13
    Audre Lorde
    “Poetry is the way we help give name to the nameless so it can be thought.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #14
    Audre Lorde
    “...and that visibility which makes us most vulnerable is that which also is the source of our greatest strength.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #15
    Audre Lorde
    “I realize that if I wait until I am no longer afraid to act, write, speak, be, I'll be sending messages on a Ouija board, cryptic complaints from the other side”
    Audre Lorde

  • #16
    Audre Lorde
    “The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been made into the confused, the trivial, the psychotic, the plasticized sensation. For this reason, we have often turned away from the exploration and consideration of the erotic as a source of power and information, confusing it with its opposite, the pornographic. But pornography is a direct denial of the power of the erotic, for it represents the suppression of true feeling. Pornography emphasizes sensation without feeling.

    The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings. It is an internal sense of satisfaction to which, once we have experienced it, we know we can aspire.”
    Audre Lorde, Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power

  • #17
    Audre Lorde
    “I soon discovered that if you keep your mouth shut, people are apt to believe you know everything, and they begin to feel freer and freer to tell you anything, anxious to show that they know something, too.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #18
    Audre Lorde
    “You cannot, you cannot use someone else's fire. You can only use your own. And in order to do that, you must first be willing to believe that you have it.”
    Audre Lorde

  • #19
    Audre Lorde
    “Nothing I accept about myself can be used against me to diminish me.”
    Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches

  • #20
    Audre Lorde
    “A choice of pains. That's what living was all about.”
    Audre Lorde, Zami: A New Spelling of My Name

  • #21
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “If nature has made you for a giver, your hands are born open, and so is your heart; and though there may be times when your hands are empty, your heart is always full, and you can give things out of that—warm things, kind things, sweet things—help and comfort and laughter—and sometimes gay, kind laughter is the best help of all.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess

  • #22
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “Everything's a story - You are a story -I am a story.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess

  • #23
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “It made her think that it was curious how much nicer a person looked when he smiled. She had not thought of it before.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, Secret Garden

  • #24
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “Of course there must be lots of Magic in the world," he said wisely one day, "but people don't know what it is like or how to make it. Perhaps the beginning is just to say nice things are going to happen until you make them happen. I am going to try and experiment.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, The Secret Garden

  • #25
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “Perhaps to be able to learn things quickly isn't everything. To be kind is worth a great deal to other people...Lots of clever people have done harm and have been wicked.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess

  • #26
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “When people are insulting you, there is nothing so good for them as not to say a word -- just to look at them and think. When you will not fly into a passion people know you are stronger than they are, because you are strong enough to hold in your rage, and they are not, and they say stupid things they wished they hadn't said afterward. There's nothing so strong as rage, except what makes you hold it in -- that's stronger. It's a good thing not to answer your enemies.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess

  • #27
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “One of the new things people began to find out in the last century was that thoughts—just mere thoughts—are as powerful as electric batteries—as good for one as sunlight is, or as bad for one as poison. To let a sad thought or a bad one get into your mind is as dangerous as letting a scarlet fever germ get into your body. If you let it stay there after it has got in you may never get over it as long as you live... surprising things can happen to any one who, when a disagreeable or discouraged thought comes into his mind, just has the sense to remember in time and push it out by putting in an agreeable determinedly courageous one. Two things cannot be in one place.

    "Where you tend a rose, my lad, A thistle cannot grow.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, The Secret Garden

  • #28
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “Somehow, something always happens just before things get to the very worst. It is as if Magic did it. If I could only just remember that always. The worse thing never quite comes.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess

  • #29
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “Hang in there. It is astonishing how short a time it can take for very wonderful things to happen.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett

  • #30
    Frances Hodgson Burnett
    “Perhaps there is a language which is not made of words and everything in the world understands it.”
    Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess



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