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  • #1
    Marya Hornbacher
    “You begin to forget what it means to live. You forget things. You forget that you used to feel all right. You forget what it means to feel all right because you feel like shit all the time, and you can't remember what it was like before. People take the feeling of full for granted. They take for granted the feeling of steadiness, of hands that do not shake, heads that do not ache, throats not raw with bile and small rips of fingernails forced to haste to the gag spot. Stomachs that do not begin to wake up in the night, calves and thighs knotting in muscles that are beginning to eat away at themselves. they may or may not be awakened at night by their own inexplicable sobs.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #2
    Marya Hornbacher
    “You never come back, not all the way. Always there is an odd distance between you and the people you love and the people you meet, a barrier thin as the glass of a mirror, you never come all the way out of the mirror; you stand, for the rest of your life, with one foot in this world and no one in another, where everything is upside down and backward and sad.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #3
    Marya Hornbacher
    “I wanted to kill the me underneath. That fact haunted my days and nights. When you realize you hate yourself so much, when you realize that you cannot stand who you are, and this deep spite has been the motivation behind your behavior for many years, your brain can’t quite deal with it. It will try very hard to avoid that realization; it will try, in a last-ditch effort to keep your remaining parts alive, to remake the rest of you. This is, I believe, different from the suicidal wish of those who are in so much pain that death feels like relief, different from the suicide I would later attempt, trying to escape that pain. This is a wish to murder yourself; the connotation of kill is too mild. This is a belief that you deserve slow torture, violent death.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #4
    Marya Hornbacher
    “I began to measure things in absence instead of presence.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #5
    Marya Hornbacher
    “That’s the nice thing about dreams, the way you wake up before you fall.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #6
    Marya Hornbacher
    “It is, at the most basic level, a bundle of contradictions: a desire for power that strips you of all power. A gesture of strength that divests you of all strength.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted : A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #7
    Marya Hornbacher
    “My god! people say. You have so much self-control! And later: My god. You're so, so sick. When people say this, they turn their heads, you've won your little game. You have proven your thesis that no-body-loves-me-every-body-hates-me, guess-I'll-just-eat-worms. You get to sink back into your hospital bed, shrieking with righteous indignation. See? you get to say. I knew you'd give up on me. I knew you'd leave.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted : A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #8
    Marya Hornbacher
    “The anoretic operates under the astounding illusion that she can escape the flesh, and, by association, the realm of emotions.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #9
    Marya Hornbacher
    “• Eating disorders are addictions. You become addicted to a number of their effects. The two most basic and important: the pure adrenaline that kicks in when you're starving—you're high as a kite, sleepless, full of a frenetic, unstable energy—and the heightened intensity of experience that eating disorders initially induce. At first, everything tastes and smells intense, tactile experience is intense, your own drive and energy themselves are intense and focused. Your sense of power is very, very intense. You are not aware, however, that you are quickly becoming addicted.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #10
    Marya Hornbacher
    “Death is a fascinating thing. The human mind continually returns and returns to death, to mortality, immortality, damnation, salvation. Some fear death, some seek it, but it is in our human nature to wonder at the limits of human life, at least. When you are sick like this you begin to wonder too much. Death is at your shoulder, death is your shadow, your scent, your waking and dreaming companion. You cannot help, when sleep begins to touch your eyes, but to wonder: What if? What if? And in that question, there is a longing, too much like the longing of a young girl in love. The sickness occupies your every thought, breath like a lover at your ear; the sickness stands at your shoulder in the mirror, absorbed with your body, each inch of skin and flesh, and you let it work you over, touch you with rough hands that thrill.
    Nothing will ever be so close to you again. You will never find a lover so careful, so attentive, so unconditionally present and concerned only with you.
    Some of us use the body to convey the things for which we cannot find words. Some of us decide to take a shortcut, decide the world is too much or too little, death is so easy, so smiling, so simple; and death is dramatic, a final fuck-you to the world.”
    Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

  • #11
    Marya Hornbacher
    “All of us have theories about the world and about ourselves. We will go to great lengths to prove ourselves right because it keeps the world in our head coherent and understandable.”
    Marya Hornbacher

  • #12
    Nicholas Sparks
    “Life, he realize, was much like a song. In the beginning there is mystery, in the end there is confirmation, but it's in the middle where all the emotion resides to make the whole thing worthwhile.”
    Nicholas Sparks, The Last Song

  • #13
    Nikita Gill
    “You fell in love with a storm. Did you really think you would get out unscathed?”
    Nikita Gill

  • #14
    Nikita Gill
    “Some girls are full of heartache and poetry and those are the kind of girls who try to save wolves instead of running away from them.”
    Nikita Gill, Your Body is an Ocean: Love and Other Experiments

  • #15
    Nikita Gill
    “I hope you find someone who knows how to love you when you are sad.”
    Nikita Gill

  • #16
    Nikita Gill
    “Your heart will fix itself. It’s your mind you need to worry about. Your mind where you locked the memories, your mind where you have kept pieces of the ones that hurt you, that still cut through you like shards of glass. Your mind will keep you up at night, make you cry, destroy you over and over again. You need to convince your mind that it has to let go…because your heart already knows how to heal.”
    Nikita Gill

  • #17
    Nikita Gill
    “Fall in love with someone
    who tastes like adventure
    but looks like
    the calm, beautiful morning
    after a terrible storm”
    Nikita Gill

  • #18
    Nikita Gill
    “There are human beings in this world who are soft enough to feel every terrible thing that happens so deeply. And are still brave enough to remain constant and suffer for those who need them the most. Even the stars blink in awe of the gleam of their souls.”
    Nikita Gill

  • #19
    Roy T. Bennett
    “Fear robs you of your freedom to make the right choice in life that can bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. On the other side of fear, lies freedom. If you want to grow, you need to be brave and take risks. If you're not uncomfortable, you're not growing.”
    Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

  • #20
    Katerina Stoykova Klemer
    “There is no beauty in sadness. No honor in suffering. No growth in fear. No relief in hate. It’s just a waste of perfectly good happiness.”
    Katerina Stoykova Klemer

  • #21
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “Do not assume that he who seeks to comfort you now, lives untroubled among the simple and quiet words that sometimes do you good. His life may also have much sadness and difficulty, that remains far beyond yours. Were it otherwise, he would never have been able to find these words.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke

  • #22
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow”
    Rainer Maria Rilke

  • #23
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “I am learning to see. I don't know why it is, but everything enters me more deeply and doesn't stop where it once used to. I have an interior that I never knew of... What's the use of telling someone that I am changing? If I'm changing, I am no longer who I was; and if I am something else, it's obvious that I have no acquaintances. And I can't possibly write to strangers.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke, The Notebooks of Malte Laurids Brigge

  • #24
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “only someone who is ready for everything, who doesn't exclude any experience, even the most incomprehensible, will live the relationship with another person as something alive and will himself sound the depths of his own being.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

  • #25
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “There are no classes in life for beginners: right away you are always asked to deal with what is most difficult.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    tags: life

  • #26
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke

  • #27
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “Find out the reason that commands you to write; see whether it has spread its roots into the very depth of your heart; confess to yourself you would have to die if you were forbidden to write.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke

  • #28
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “For one human being to love another human being: that is perhaps the most difficult task that has been given to us, the ultimate, the final problem and proof, the work for which all other work is merely preparation.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke, The Selected Poetry of Rainer Maria Rilke
    tags: love

  • #29
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “Don't be too quick to draw conclusions from what happens to you; simply let it happen. Otherwise it will be too easy for you to look with blame... at your past, which naturally has a share with everything that now meets you.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

  • #30
    Rainer Maria Rilke
    “That’s love: Two lonely persons keep each other safe and touch each other and talk to each other.”
    Rainer Maria Rilke



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