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  • #1
    Diana Gabaldon
    “Babies are soft. Anyone looking at them can see the tender, fragile skin and know it for the rose-leaf softness that invites a finger's touch. But when you live with them and love them, you feel the softness going inward, the round-cheeked flesh wobbly as custard, the boneless splay of the tiny hands. Their joints are melted rubber, and even when you kiss them hard, in the passion of loving their existence, your lips sink down and seem never to find bone. Holding them against you, they melt and mold, as though they might at any moment flow back into your body.

    But from the very start, there is that small streak of steel within each child. That thing that says "I am," and forms the core of personality.

    In the second year, the bone hardens and the child stands upright, skull wide and solid, a helmet protecting the softness within. And "I am" grows, too. Looking at them, you can almost see it, sturdy as heartwood, glowing through the translucent flesh.

    The bones of the face emerge at six, and the soul within is fixed at seven. The process of encapsulation goes on, to reach its peak in the glossy shell of adolescence, when all softness then is hidden under the nacreous layers of the multiple new personalities that teenagers try on to guard themselves.

    In the next years, the hardening spreads from the center, as one finds and fixes the facets of the soul, until "I am" is set, delicate and detailed as an insect in amber.”
    Diana Gabaldon, Dragonfly in Amber

  • #2
    Milton Berle
    “If evolution really works, how come mothers only have two hands?”
    Milton Berle

  • #3
    Barbara Kingsolver
    “Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.”
    Barbara Kingsolver, Homeland and Other Stories

  • #4
    Betty  Smith
    “It's come at last", she thought, "the time when you can no longer stand between your children and heartache.”
    Betty Smith, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn

  • #5
    Anne Lamott
    “So how on earth can I bring a child into the world, knowing that such sorrow lies ahead, that it is such a large part of what it means to be human?
    I'm not sure. That's my answer: I'm not sure.”
    Anne Lamott, Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year

  • #6
    Audrey Hepburn
    “It's sad if people think that's (homemaking) a dull existance, [but] you can't just buy an apartment and furnish it and walk away. It's the flowers you choose, the music you play, the smile you have waiting. I want it to be gay and cheerful, a haven in this troubled world. I don't want my husband and children to come home and find a rattled woman. Our era is already rattled enough, isn't it?”
    Audrey Hepburn

  • #7
    Jodi Picoult
    “Was it the act of giving birth that made you a mother? Did you lose that label when you relinquished your child? If people were measured by their deeds, on the one hand, I had a woman who had chosen to give me up; on the other, I had a woman who'd sat up with me at night when I was sick as a child, who'd cried with me over boyfriends, who'd clapped fiercely at my law school graduation. Which acts made you more of a mother?

    Both, I realized. Being a parent wasn't just about bearing a child. It was about bearing witness to its life.”
    Jodi Picoult, Handle with Care

  • #8
    Ayelet Waldman
    “Even if i'm setting myself up for failure, I think it's worth trying to be a mother who delights in who her children are, in their knock-knock jokes and earnest questions. A mother who spends less time obseessing about what will happen, or what has happened, and more time reveling in what is. A mother who doesn't fret over failings and slights, who realizes her worries and anxieties are just thoughts, the continuous chattering and judgement of a too busy mind. A mother who doesn't worry so much about being bad or good but just recognizes that she's both, and neither. A mother who does her best, and for whom that is good enough, even if, in the end, her best turns out to be, simply, not bad. ”
    Ayelet Waldman, Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace

  • #9
    Sharon Creech
    “Being a mother is like trying to hold a wolf by the ears,” Gram said. “If you have three or four –or more – chickabiddies, you’re dancing on a hot griddle all the time. You don’t have time to think about anything else. And if you’ve only got one or two, it’s almost harder. You have room left over – empty spaces that you think you’ve got to fill up.”
    Sharon Creech, Walk Two Moons

  • #10
    Rebecca Woolf
    “Thus far the mighty mystery of motherhood is this: How is it that doing it all feels like nothing is ever getting done.”
    Rebecca Woolf

  • #11
    Thrity Umrigar
    “And a mother without children is not a mother at all, and if I am not a mother, than I am nothing. Nothing. I am like sugar dissolved in a glass of water. Or, I am like salt, which disappears when you cook with it. I am salt. Without my children, I cease to exist.”
    Thrity Umrigar, The Space Between Us

  • #12
    Barbara Kingsolver
    “But the last one: the baby who trails her scent like a flag of surrender through your life when there will be no more coming after - oh, that's love by a different name. She is the babe you hold in your arms for an hour after she's gone to sleep. If you put her down in the crib, she might wake up changed and fly away. So instead you rock by the window, drinking the light from her skin, breathing her exhaled dreams. Your heart bays to the double crescent moons of closed lashes on her cheeks. She's the one you can't put down.”
    Barbara Kingsolver, The Poisonwood Bible

  • #13
    Catherine de Hueck Doherty
    “The duty of the moment is what you should be doing at any given time, in whatever place God has put you.

    You may not have Christ in a homeless person at your door, but you may have a little child.

    If you have a child, your duty of the moment may be to change a dirty diaper.

    So you do it.

    But you don't just change that diaper, you change it to the best of your ability, with great love for both God and that child....

    There are all kinds of good Catholic things you can do, but whatever they are, you have to realize that there is always the duty of the moment to be done.

    And it must be done, because the duty of the moment is the duty of God.”
    Catherine Doherty

  • #14
    John Steinbeck
    “There are as many worlds as there are kinds of days, and as an opal changes its colors and its fire to match the nature of a day, so do I.”
    John Steinbeck

  • #15
    “We all want to break our orbits, float like a satellite gone wild in space, run the risk of disintegration. We all want to take our lives in our own hands and hurl them out among the stars.”
    David Bottoms

  • #17
    Nikki Rowe
    “We grow up with such an idealistic view on how our life should be; love, friendships, a career or even the place we will live ~ only to age and realise none of it is what you expected & reality is a little disheartening, when you've reached that realisation; you have learnt the gift of all, any new beginning can start now and if you want anything bad enough you'll find the courage to pursue it with all you have. The past doesn't have to be the future, stop making it so.”
    Nikki Rowe



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