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message 1: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
Discuss!


message 2: by Naomi (new)

Naomi  (purplebookdragon) | 1705 comments really liked it


message 3: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Oh goodies! I'm reading this for another book group at my school ... so yay. I've actually already read it, but it was like five years ago, so I'm reading it again. :P


message 4: by Colby (new)

Colby (colbz) | 3211 comments Peeeeeerks.
I was actually planning to read this again really soon, so this is quite convenient.


message 5: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
Aah, I loved this book. I need the movie to hurry up and come out.


message 6: by Colby (new)

Colby (colbz) | 3211 comments YES. Also, we get to meet in person when it comes out. :DDDD


message 7: by Colby (new)

Colby (colbz) | 3211 comments For me, it's the lovable MC and how he doesn't really try to force plot along...I don't know if that makes sense.


message 8: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Yue [Wonder of living] wrote: "Is it just me that found out that Stephen Chbosky himself is directing the film? Whatwhatwhat this will be so great as;kjfa;sfkjafafj;g
Also I've been overwatching the trailer, which probably adds ..."


Yes, he wrote and directed it! I'm so psyched. :)


message 9: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Holden wrote: "Can someone explain to me what made them "love" this book? I mean, it was good, but I didn't "get" why it's gotten so much praise. I'm probably missing something, so...anyone care to explain? It..."

I'm not as obsessed with it as many people are, but I do like it a lot. But, I see what the hype is about. First of all, it's quite short and concise––it doesn't take on an overly complicated plot. It's just kind of about life and the pains of being a teenager, which is something that a lot of young adults can relate to.

I think it's also the brutal honesty. The book doesn't shy away from controversial subjects like sex, drugs, sexual orientation, etc. There are many YA books that kind of breeze over these things, while the book addresses them (and doesn't go too overboard with it, either).

And I think it's also the narrative. It feels like a more authentic teenager's point of view/stream-of-consciousness. It kind of feels like Charlie is just "talking" to you. Also, it has a lot of philosophical/quotable parts that put the simple things in life into perspective. It kind of has a Catcher in the Rye vibe to it. (Although I know you hate that book, so poopies on you.)

... So yeah, that's what I think the appeal is.


message 10: by Cutter100 (last edited Sep 01, 2012 06:08PM) (new)

Cutter100 | 52 comments After seeing Emma Watson was going to be in the movie I finally read the book (and enjoyed it, though I didn't think I was all that crazy about it). Right afterward I walked into the grocery store and one of the people working there was doing the "be aggressive, passive aggressive" line from the movie trailer. I almost yelled out "we are infinite".


message 11: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
For me, it was that the book was so easy to relate to. At some points, I felt like Charlie was in my head or I was in his head or whatever and that blurred line of not knowing where you end and where the narration begins is so amazing to me.


message 12: by Colby (new)

Colby (colbz) | 3211 comments Lav [I'm still not sure what I stand for] wrote: "For me, it was that the book was so easy to relate to. At some points, I felt like Charlie was in my head or I was in his head or whatever and that blurred line of not knowing where you end and whe..."


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Annemarie Carlson (annielawlz) | 3393 comments Mod
Yeah, this book was really cool because Charlie is the same as me in a lot of ways. Well, maybe not the same as me. But, I, and probably a lot of us, perceive ourselves as a version of Charlie. Although, that may not be the correct version... Anyways, it totally makes sense why this book is so popular, every slightly angsty (myself included) teenager can relate to it. Also, it covers such a wide variety of topics that it's kind of hard not to find a common ground with Charlie.


message 14: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
That's definitely a lot of it. It's like Charlie could be anybody, at least for some part of the book.


message 15: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
I feel like I'm going to love it no matter what it's like, to be honest. Unless it's the worst movie EVER.


message 16: by Annemarie, hi (new)

Annemarie Carlson (annielawlz) | 3393 comments Mod
Pretty much.


message 17: by Colby (new)

Colby (colbz) | 3211 comments I think I'll love it too.
I'm currently rereading the book...and I'm loving it even more than I did the first time. Maybe because I knew I was going to love it this time around?


message 18: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Holden wrote: "Hopefully the later reviews will be better (the only other high profile reviewer that I found, "Village Voice", was much close to a pan than "Variety"), but I will say: who's idea was it to let Ste..."

I dunno, I like the idea of him directing it because at least he'll be true to what he thinks is important ...


message 19: by Baxter, butts butts butts (new)

Baxter (julietrocksmysocks) | 2455 comments Mod
Well I just looked him up (I have no idea about any of these wallflowers and their people) and he does have experience in the movie field, both directing and writing.
Of course, that might not mean much at all. But there you go!


message 20: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
Yeah, that makes sense. But it could go wrong the other way as well. An outside director could have a vision that completely ruins the movie for most of the people who fell in love with the book because it doesn't stay close to the tone and meaning of the book.


message 21: by Elliott (new)

Elliott | 22634 comments Mod
*nods* That would've been a smart choice. But it is what it is. AND I'M STILL EXCITED.


message 22: by EJ (new)

EJ | 301 comments After I finished it, I was really mad... and wrote a kind of nasty review because I was just ticked off by it. I don't know what it was about it that made me that way. Thinking about it now, I think I enjoyed it more than I give it credit for. I didn't really LOVE it, I guess. I felt like I actually couldn't relate to Charlie that much, except when he'd go off in full narrative without the plot really happening (if that makes any sense), even with me pretty much being the stereotypical "wallflower." (But with Charlie, everyone thought he was brilliant until the end where he wasn't? Or something.) I guess I just wasn't as impressed as I thought I would be. Also, one of the most important parts of a book for me is the characters, and I feel like I barely knew them, or just didn't connect with them. Which is different from what other people seem to be saying, but I guess I'm just pessimistic and bleh. I almost feel bad for not liking or knowing these characters that are so loved by everybody else.
And I do like how it didn't shy away from touchy subjects, but at the same time, I felt like they were just grazed over and then the book kept on going (the sister's pregnancy, for instance). I don't know. I'M CONFLICTED.
Definitely excited for the movie, though! :)
(sorry for my pessimistic opinions)


message 23: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Haha, don't feel bad for not liking something. No book pleases absolutely everyone. :P I understand how you could feel that way, and that's kind of how I felt the first time I read it ... Now that I'm re-reading it, I like it and connect with it a lot more for some reason. I don't know, I feel like it took a while for it to settle with me the first time. As for how it deals with touchy subjects, I feel like it's not so much "grazing over" them as it is not over-dramatizing them, if that makes sense. I don't know. I feel like it's realistic in that way. Of course, you don't have to agree. ;)


message 24: by Krys (new)

Krys (krisslee) | 5015 comments Mod
I kind of don't know what to think about this book. I got it last night and finished reading it a second ago, and it was alright. I did like the way the author portrayed a lot of stuff that most people either over-exaggerate or just skim over, like the drugs, abuse, homosexuality, and sex. When it comes to relating to the characters, there are some ways that I related to them and some ways that I didn't. Charlie's "voice" was supposed to be personal, I think, but it came across as apathetic to me. There was a lot of emotion sometimes, and other times there wasn't any at all, if that makes sense?

I did like the characters though, and it was a good story, even if it didn't have a major plot or anything.


message 25: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Yeah, his voice is very ... simplistic, I guess, which makes it seem kind of emotionless at times. But I think it's just like, the subject matter can be very heavy and so I didn't feel the style had to be very emotional to get that across. It could have come off as very whiney, but I think the simple style prevents that.


message 26: by Krys (new)

Krys (krisslee) | 5015 comments Mod
Yeah, I get what you mean by that. I understand why the author wrote it that way, and it does prevent the book from becoming whiny or over-the-top. I also really liked how it was written in the form of letters addressed to someone completely anonymous.


message 27: by Madilynn (new)

Madilynn I LOVED this book! Was freaking amazing <33


message 28: by Dana (new)

Dana (danachewy) | 735 comments SO. I'm listening to it on audiobook now and it's SO GOOD. I think it's mostly his tone, and how there is a certain filter through which we see things because we see them Charlie's way, which is to say an unique perspective. I'm still not quite sure why he is what he is but I think he's endearingly naive... I think.


Sam~~ we cannot see the moon, and yet the waves still rise~~ | 3061 comments Yeah, you won't find that out until pretty much the end.


message 30: by Dana (new)

Dana (danachewy) | 735 comments I'm almost there!!!!

5:46/6:20 hrs


message 31: by Dana (last edited Aug 14, 2014 05:07PM) (new)

Dana (danachewy) | 735 comments Okay so I was listening to it in like the middle of the night (~10, 11, 12 hours ago) and it was something about the narrator or something but his desperation and upset creeped me out a lot, so i stopped reading it.. this morning I finished the epilogue.

I found out the reason........ I think. But it doesn't make sense to me.. I know about Aunt Helen & stuff. But like, is that why Charlie is the way he is?? I ...I really can't say that I understand that in any way. Is this PTSD, actually? Because that's the only explanation I can think of.


message 32: by Alina (new)

Alina (alinapink-rose) | 331 comments It gets explained a little better at the end, I think. But you should totally finish it!


message 33: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Not sure exactly what you mean by "the way he is" ... ? And by "Aunt Helen & stuff" you have to be more specific ... I don't want to accidentally give anything away. XD Put it under a spoiler?


message 34: by Dana (last edited Aug 14, 2014 05:21PM) (new)

Dana (danachewy) | 735 comments Haha okay so I finished the book & I guess I understand now. The thing was that I always thought maybe Charlie was being treated for some other kind of disorder. Something about his personality just somewhat struck me as... I don't really know. I don't mean to be offensive, but that was really what I thought, for a good portion of the book. He was very.. socially immature, as another site put it, and I didn't understand how he was that way because his brother and sister all seem to be very "normal". Don't get me wrong, I love Charlie and I think he is a very nice person. But some parts of the book had me questioning his teenagery-ness, and I don't think he seems like a very real teenager at some parts, no matter how real his voice is.
But I still don't understand why his parents knew to get him to a psychiatrist, especially if they didn't know (view spoiler) Or how the psychiatrist knew, when Charlie was confused about it as well, and only really figured out what happened to him toward the end of the book.


message 35: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
Yeah I know what you mean ... the writing does have a kind of an immature vibe to it. But I think it's supposed to be because he's not supposed to be a very good writer––at least at first, but the writing gets better and more mature as it goes along as he reads/learns more (at least, it seemed that way to me). It might also have something to do with his mental state, but it's sort of unclear.

(view spoiler)


message 36: by Dana (new)

Dana (danachewy) | 735 comments Okay.. yes I get the part about his writing getting better.

Anyway, (view spoiler)


message 37: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
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message 38: by Dana (new)

Dana (danachewy) | 735 comments (view spoiler)


message 39: by Brigid ✩, No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. (new)

Brigid ✩ | 11973 comments Mod
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