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Dec 03, 2012 04:39AM
Do you think that there should be abortion? Do you think that's it fine or there should be a law against it? Please feel free to share your views.
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personaly i dont agree with abortion, but i dont want to say how other people should live their lives. but also i feel if people do certain things that they shouldnt be aloud to get an abortion but thats just me.......
I am against abortion, because look at it, you're killing a young and innocent life that did nothing! Basically its like trying to get rid of responsibilities-which might be the easy way out but you need to live with it! I respect other people's opinion, I'm just stating how i feel about abortion.
I am pro abortion ONLY if you protect yourself [but we all know that protection is 99% safe so there is a 1% risk] and you get pregnant&you are not ready for a baby then i believe it's okay to abort.I mean,between two evils you choose the least evil...right? You better have an abortion instead of having the baby and then giving him to adoption or end up making both your life and his miserable due to struggling to raise him up.If you can't raise him properly and you can't offer him a decent living then you better have an abortion because having&raising a child is not a piece of cake.That's what i believe,at least and, as everyone else here, i respect others opinion.I just wished to express my opinion about this matter because it's a pretty discussed&debated subject[I even had a debate in my Biology class].:D
I am personally pro-life. I think that abortion is wrong, and sad. I feel that life is a blessing, and you never know who that child could have turned into. He could have had the cure for cancer, or he could be the next Einstein. I think that if it is too much of a burden or you aren't in the state that you can keep or watch a child, put it up for adoption. That way someone out there has a baby they have always wanted, and you know it goes into a loving,financially stable home. These are my opinions, and I respect yours, so please respect mine.
I'm personally against abortion, but there are exceptions. For example, if a person has been abused, they have a right to give up the child.
Shyam wrote: "I ferl there should be a law against it cuz' you're actually committing murder. And no one has the right to take another living thing's life.
The baby has its own life and should be respected."
That right ^ baby's life should be respected and it is commuting murder
The baby has its own life and should be respected."
That right ^ baby's life should be respected and it is commuting murder
Vikki wrote: "I am personally pro-life. I think that abortion is wrong, and sad. I feel that life is a blessing, and you never know who that child could have turned into. He could have had the cure for cancer, o..."
True!
True!
i agree in the since that if ur abused you should be allowed to abort the baby, but if protection fails and u willing go along then i say just give the baby up for adoption, at least give it a fighting chance.
Im yes and no about it. I agree its wrong but i have 3 friends who were raped and got pregnant 2 got abortions 1 went through but had a miscarrage and i understand and have to respect them they were only 12 and 13. I also have 2 friends who just got pregnant one protection broke but she didnt mind and had the baby the other pregnant on purpose. There 16 and 17..they both kept there babies and are very good moms and there parents help suport them at times of need. So im not really agenst it bu tnot with it either.
Im yes and no about it. I agree its wrong but i have 3 friends who were raped and got pregnant 2 got abortions 1 went through but had a miscarrage and i understand and have to respect them they were only 12 and 13. I also have 2 friends who just got pregnant one protection broke but she didnt mind and had the baby the other pregnant on purpose. There 16 and 17..they both kept there babies and are very good moms and there parents help suport them at times of need. So im not really agenst it bu tnot with it either.
I think it should be legal. A person shouldn't be forced to have a baby they can't afford or if they just aren't ready for one
Amber said "I'm personally against abortion, but there are exceptions. For example, if a person has been abused, they have a right to give up the child."So basically if u kill my sister & i am really mad about it i can kill u. gotcha. No matter what the situation, murder is murder, no matter how it came about!! nobody EVER has "a right" to kill a LIFE.
Cristina said "I am pro abortion ONLY if you protect yourself [but we all know that protection is 99% safe so there is a 1% risk] and you get pregnant&you are not ready for a baby then i believe it's okay to abort.I mean,between two evils you choose the least evil...right?"What?? so i can commit murder as long as I make sure it won't harm me in anyway (like I cover up all the evidence so nobody finds out and puts me into jail). nope nope nope it is still a human life!!
"You better have an abortion instead of having the baby and then giving him to adoption or end up making both your life and his miserable due to struggling to raise him up.If you can't raise him properly and you can't offer him a decent living then you better have an abortion because having&raising a child is not a piece of cake."
so u think it's okay 4 parents 2 just kill their children cuz it's inconvenient? look, there are thousands and thousands and thousands of ppl all over the world who do not have enough money to support their families. That does NOT give them a reason to kill off all their kids so that they don't have 2 take care of them! This whole nonsense about a woman's "choice" is really just an excuse for irresponsible women 2 get rid of an inconvenience in their life.
btw, adoption is a GREAT option, as if somebody does adopt the child then it is because they WANT him/her, and often the kids would be raised in good homes.
But say the birth of that sister would either
A) Kill/Seriously injure your mother
B) Bankrupt your family
There would be a lot less complications if she were to get an abortion
A) Kill/Seriously injure your mother
B) Bankrupt your family
There would be a lot less complications if she were to get an abortion
Ann wrote: "Cristina said "I am pro abortion ONLY if you protect yourself [but we all know that protection is 99% safe so there is a 1% risk] and you get pregnant&you are not ready for a baby then i believe it..."
Irresponisble? Some people who get abortions get them because they are raped. How could you call that "irresponsible"? No one wants the product of such a traumatizing moment in life growing inside them
Irresponisble? Some people who get abortions get them because they are raped. How could you call that "irresponsible"? No one wants the product of such a traumatizing moment in life growing inside them
If you willingly have sex and get pregnant then yes abortion is totaly wrong its saying you want only half of whats to come. But rape...no it should stay lawful to abort, i see giving up for adoption just as bad and also leads kids to suicide for feeling/knowing their not loved. I have meny friends who were adopted and 3 of 7 are abused from their adoptive parents.
Ann wrote: "Cristina said "I am pro abortion ONLY if you protect yourself [but we all know that protection is 99% safe so there is a 1% risk] and you get pregnant&you are not ready for a baby then i believe it..."Those thousands and thousands and thousands of people who do not have enough money to support their families, probably have a miserable life and their kids[which were not aborted and can't be killed 'cause that's,actually,murder] are starving to death.I am not saying that the "thousands and thousands and thousands" of people should kill their children[=> murder] but it would be wise not to have any more children having in view their actual situation,but it does not mean she should stop from having intercourse with her husband.As i was saying in my 1st post,if the protection used fails,the woman should be allowed to abort:
-1st because she has total control of her body;
- 2nd because she might not afford having a/another child [if referring to a woman who already has children];
-3rd because she was raped/she's mentally ill or both.
Ann wrote: "Amber said "I'm personally against abortion, but there are exceptions. For example, if a person has been abused, they have a right to give up the child."
So basically if u kill my sister & i am re..."
Actually,you DID NOT get it.Amber,through "abused person", was referring to a woman that has been raped & said that she agrees that the woman in cause should be allowed to make an abortion.You talking about the murdering of your sister& your right to kill the murderer has nothing to do with what she was saying.
Well if they passed a law just for the Christian faith, it would violate the bill of rights. We have freedom of religion and not everyone is Christian
I believe in abortion, I believe that this is a woman's right that should never be taken away. Also it isn't committing murder when you get an abortion because there is a time limitation on getting one, because before the fact, the fetus is not fully developed or conscious. Saying it's murder is just an excuse to stop abortion and to make women who get them feel bad about themselves. But like everyone else says, this is my own opinion and I would never force it onto anyone else but I will stand for what I believe in just like those who feel the opposite. It's nice to know others' point of views, and I am glad that I am allowed to share mine.
I would only get an abortion if I got raped... If I decided to have sex and I fell pregnant even accidently then I would defintly keep the baby! For sure!
Bring a Christian believer, i'm totally against abortion because we christians believe that when the sperm and egg meets, it's instant life! And it's just wrong because it's not your life to dictate, it's another's. If you truly don't want the baby, give it into adoption and let another family love them!! Even if i get raped, i'd still never be that selfish to kill off an innocent's life!
Brittany wrote: "I believe in abortion, I believe that this is a woman's right that should never be taken away. Also it isn't committing murder when you get an abortion because there is a time limitation on getting..."So if its just a blob of cells, then why do the courts count it as double homicide when someone kills a pregnant woman? This creates a huge contradiction when looking at the time of getting the abortion ("Oh, its just a blob of cells") to when someone is murdered ("This guy should be punished for killing two individuals!").
I'm a very strong believe in Christ, and I have never agreed with abortion. Surprisingly, abortion is almost like slavery (Here is my essay on it: http://www.goodreads.com/story/show/2...)!
And here is a short poem I created: http://www.goodreads.com/story/show/3...
Probably just to get that person for more than one murder. Obviously that woman hadn't planned on getting an abortion either. If it was murder then abortion would be illegal. I say with personal experience of my friends that almost half the time the child does not get adopted and ends up in foster care where there foster parent only has them so they can get money for doing so. Every experience is different and there is no possible way to know that infants future, but at the risk of giving it a horrible like I would rather it not have one at all. Some may find that callous but I'm just dealing with reality. This infant hasn't lived a life, like others can say that it's just like killing a regular person. I guess a living being to me is something that is living in the world not the womb, atleast in the case where the infant isn't even developed as a person should be before the time limitations of abortion.
Yes, it's true that murdering a pregnant woman would be double homicide for her and the baby but that is actually only a double homicide if the baby is more than 27 weeks old, or is even considered viable outside of the womb, and the limitation for getting an abortion is 24 weeks or less.
I am against it.... I mean you're killing life a living, breathing thing and I mean, I just don't think that it is right, it's not fair to that child... they need a chance at least! Just give the child up for adoption, they're are so many families that want a child but for some reason can't have one, but you can! You can have that child for them, change their lives! and there is one way to solve all of this... don't have sex.. if you don't want kids don't do something that is going to give you kids, that's common knowledge! And with the rape thing... well I have never gone through that, so I have no way to say anything about that from personal experience... all I can say is don't punish the baby for the father's crime...
but at the risk of giving it a horrible like I would rather it not have one at all(Do you mean life instead of like?)
So, over the past year I have debated with pro-choice people and one thing stands out: You guys literally have an extremely negative out look on life. Sure life wont be a walk in the park, sure it wont be fun, sure life isn't fair, sure life doesn't give us what we want, and sure life kicks us when we're down...but does that mean that we should stop living or not even know what it's like to live? Just because we don't like how times are tough?
This is like saying to someone who is depressed (I should know): Things won't get better for you so you should kill yourself now when you still have the chance.
Every Pro-Choice person who uses the 'crappy life' scenario does not take in account all the good parts in life.
and the limitation for getting an abortion is 24 weeks or less.Yes, but there have been abnormality's when the baby looks as if it were on its ninth month. I don't think its right to abort a baby when there are only three months left.
And then comes the horrid way of how the doctors go about aborting a baby. If the mother is still in her first stage, they use a EVA (Electric Vacuum Aspiration) or a MVA (Manual Vacuum Aspiration). This is when the doctors use a vacuum to remove the fetus or embryo, placenta and membranes by suction using a manual syringe.
What if the mother is in her second stage (4-6 months)? They preform something that is called D&E (Dilation and Evacuation). This process is basically cutting the baby up into small parts, then scraping them out.
After this, they might reconstruct the bloody pile back into something that looks like a baby.
Thomas wrote: "N.S.A. (Search for the Truth) wrote: "but at the risk of giving it a horrible like I would rather it not have one at all(Do you mean life instead of like?)
So, over the past year I have debated ..."
Sure, you can, but you would just be ignorant of the truth.
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Kasey wrote: "I am against it.... I mean you're killing life a living, breathing thing and I mean, I just don't think that it is right, it's not fair to that child... they need a chance at least..."
In what way does that analogy even make sense?
In what way does that analogy even make sense?
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "What I mean, Jordan, is that abortion is killing. I think that's kind of been established. So if I am raped, that means I have the license to kill? Doesn't make too much sense to me."
Killing a person on the street is different from controlling your own body
Killing a person on the street is different from controlling your own body
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "What I mean, Jordan, is that abortion is killing. I think that's kind of been established. So if I am raped, that means I have the license to kill? Doesn't make too much sense to me."Agreed.
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Jordan (The Gleek) wrote: "♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "What I mean, Jordan, is that abortion is killing. I think that's kind of been established. So if I am raped, that means I have the license to kill? D..."
It's inside your body right? If anything, it shares similar traits to a parasite. It benefits at the expense of its host and relies on the host for survival.
It's inside your body right? If anything, it shares similar traits to a parasite. It benefits at the expense of its host and relies on the host for survival.
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "I find this abortion debate quite interesting to have, honestly."
I actually like serious debates
I actually like serious debates
Although I am against abortion, I do have to say this. Everyone is saying that the baby inside of you is a person and your killing it right? But it is not fully develpoed yet, and so therefore you are not killing somebody.
Geez, what are you Jordan? Anti-baby or something?It happens, get over it. It's how a baby is formed, and if you like thinking of a world filled with 7 million former parasites walking around, go right ahead.
I don't really consider it human until it can survive on its own/fully developed. So after about seven months, abortion is completely out of the question
N.S.A. (Search for the Truth) wrote: "Geez, what are you Jordan? Anti-baby or something?
It happens, get over it. It's how a baby is formed, and if you like thinking of a world filled with 7 million former parasites walking around, go..."
XD okay I had to laugh at that
It happens, get over it. It's how a baby is formed, and if you like thinking of a world filled with 7 million former parasites walking around, go..."
XD okay I had to laugh at that
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Even if a parasite gets inside your body, you don't end up saying, "It's part of my body." It ISN'T a part of your body. It forms in your body, but that doesn't mean that it is a part of your body...."
It's not a part of your body, I'm saying you have rule over whether you want it to stay inside your body
It's not a part of your body, I'm saying you have rule over whether you want it to stay inside your body
My opinion on this subject is that abortion just shouldn't be here. Killing a child just because you were stupid and got yourself hitched doesn't mean the child should pay for your idiotic mistakes. As for the rape or being to young, live with the kid while you're pregnant, have it, and give it up for adoption! There are SO many people that can't have kids or have had tradgedies strike in the past that would LOVE to have a child of their own. Also, like some people have previously mentioned it is basically murder! The kid never did anything to you! Seriously, based on how immodest most dress is today it doesn't surprise me how many more girls are getting pregnant. If you don't want a kid, DON'T DRESS LIKE A FREAKING SLUT! It's as simple as that.
I understand that rape is forced, but nowadays they have to find the father of the person who raped you, so he could be arrested, and then your rapist is behind bars. The child is not the rapist, but an innocent life that was brought into the cross fire. It's not fair for the unborn baby, especially since you don't know what it could amount too! Maybe it would've been the person to find a permanent cure for cancer, or someone who helped create world peace, or maybe even stopped world hunger. Of course, the person who aborted the child wouldn't ever know because they killed the kid before they gave it a chance.
Yet again, killing is murder. Therefor killing an unborn child is MURDER! Just because it can't scream or run or is even conscious doesn't mean that it isn't alive. Seriously, it's sick, and wrong.
Again: This is my own personal opinion, so if you don't like it I'm sorry.
Jordan (The Gleek) wrote: "I don't really consider it human until it can survive on its own/fully developed. So after about seven months, abortion is completely out of the question"Why seven months? Did you know that around month three, the baby has a detectible heart beat, you could see it's arms and legs on the ultra-sound, and basically it looks like a real baby.
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Until a human can survive on its own, huh? Well, does that mean that right now, since I can't survive outside of the house without a full-time job and food, that I can be killed and it not be consi..."
Okay let me rephrase that: Say a pregnant woman dies and they have to cut out the baby. If the baby is capable of surviving outside of the womb, it is human
Okay let me rephrase that: Say a pregnant woman dies and they have to cut out the baby. If the baby is capable of surviving outside of the womb, it is human
N.S.A. (Search for the Truth) wrote: "Jordan (The Gleek) wrote: "I don't really consider it human until it can survive on its own/fully developed. So after about seven months, abortion is completely out of the question"
Why seven mont..."
Sorry. Well then by that point.
Why seven mont..."
Sorry. Well then by that point.
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Jordan (The Gleek) wrote: "♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Even if a parasite gets inside your body, you don't end up saying, "It's part of my body." It ISN'T a part of your body. It forms in your body, but t..."
I'm hardly religious anymore
I'm hardly religious anymore
Jordan, a baby is not a parasite, it is a living thing that depends on its mother to survive for nine months while inside her. It doesn't do the mother harm on purpose, it's a freaking BABY for pete's sake! It can't control what it's doing!
♥iLoveBooks♥ wrote: "Kayla *I'm A Racer* wrote: "Jordan, a baby is not a parasite, it is a living thing that depends on its mother to survive for nine months while inside her. It doesn't do the mother harm on purpose, ..."Thank you :)
Kayla *I'm A Racer* wrote: "Jordan, a baby is not a parasite, it is a living thing that depends on its mother to survive for nine months while inside her. It doesn't do the mother harm on purpose, it's a freaking BABY for pet..."agreed.
God, sorry you all disagree. But if you don't like abortion, don't have one. I just think a woman should have jurisdiction over her own body.




