if u luv someone discussion

Okay so as some of you know, I had a crush on my friend Juan. But the problem is, now we practically hate each other! I mean, he was all cool about it when he found out I liked him and said we were just friends which was ABSOLUTELY fine with me. But then his friends found out and now they call me a stalker, and now Juan calls me a stalker too!!!!!!!!!! Sometimes I try talking to him and he just totally blows me off! At lunch yesterday, we coincidently got up at the same time to throw our trays away and when he sat down and he had his head down. Then Dan said "HEY SHEKAIRA! STOP STALKING JUAN!!!!!!!" And I felt so embarrassed I wanted to cry! (I think I did) But I'm just gonna cut to the chase.......HOW DO I MAKE THINGS BETTER WITH JUAN???????!!!!!!!!!

wow long

Talk to him privately about it. And tell him not to let his friends find out about the conversation. It could be a possibility that he likes you but is afraid to admit it/let anyone know. Tell him privately that you really wanna talk to him about this and that you wanna do so privately.

But anytime I TRY talking to him, he says like, only 1 word and walks away......and now I can't even find a way to talk to him privately because even in the most secretive places, there is always at least 1 person there!!!!!

Then talk to one of his friends? Ask them to talk to him or say that you wanna talk to him..or before he says the one word, say quickly that you really need to talk to him alone

And to make things worse.......on Friday 7th period in band.....he bent over to get something....and I was like: "OH MY GOD JUAN PULL UP YOUR PANTS!!!!!" And he was like. "PERV! WHY WERE LOOKIN?!" And I was like "IT'S JUST LIKE RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF YOU! IM SCARRED FOR LIFE!!!!!!" And now I totally regret saying that.....

don't feel regret for sayin that..it'll be like a test. a test to see if he'd feel bad about it. if he does then he slightly likes u...if not then he doesn't and you shouldn't worry about it.

And at the band concert, the trumpets were in the last row in the back and I had to sit beside him. I can't remember what we said but I think we were joking around or something, and then I said, "Juan. Don't make me do something you don't want me to do......" and he was like, "Rape?" and I was like "EWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Eh, you're in sixth grade. too young in my opinion for boyfriends anyway. just forget about him. he'll grow up.

Maybe..........but still, I just want to be his friend again. I mean, we weren't close like me and Brandon are but, it's still fun being around him and stuff......and I really really.........really...miss that.

just give it some time then

I don't think I can wait...but maybe I have to......

you'll have to.

Okay...........I'll try my best.....

ok

ok.

going w/ emily...only thing u can do is wait...had that happen to me...except it was the girl i liked calling me stalker..so every1 else called me stlker...only thing is to wait and c if they come to their senses

I needed to talk to him today..but he wasn't at school so I gotta wait till 2morrow....

wow,sheeky. so just talk to him or go up to him CALMLY andjust explain evrything to him,ok?

Don't worry we fixed everything yesterday! =D Apparently he didn't call me a stalker and so we're starting to act more like friends and stuff.......he smiles at me alot now.......it's kinda odd......like he likes me or somethin.....

you have to injure juan. become the alpha in this situation. make sure everyone knows not to fuck around with you. next time something happens, beat the crap out of him. never bring it up again, and completely ignore. go on like it never happened. get a youtube video of it for bonus points.

lmfao!


wow Ari. someones a little violent,but hey gotta love some violence!

violence is not the answer

so? your point? i love violence.

lol nice one ari

ari..........im mad at him again so i might take your advice....

violence is my answer.

Okay now we fixed some things and we dont talk much but.....at least he answers when I say hi.....

yeah,thts good,i guess

Yeah i guess.....

no response

Ugh. Juan and I are mad at each other AGAIN.

why?

I DONT KNOW.

God I wish I didn't find him so attractive...but I do realize I lke him alot less =D

oh well thats good.. y do u like him if he hurts you? cuz hes hot?

I managed to get over him near the end of the school year..and yes, he is hot.....and latino....and has an awesome laugh....and is easily amused.....like me....

latin guys are hot.. aww!! well im glad u finally realized who u like

I dont like anyone at the moment.......all my crushes go away over the summer.........

LATIN GUYS R HOT !!!!!!!!!!!! sorry needed to say tht and sheeky how come?

IDK.......I just forget about them lol.....AND YES LATINOS ARE SO DAMN SEXY!!!!!!!!

omfg i know right.. soooo hot!!!! Cuban Boys too!

Yes totally.....

haha yeahhh

gtg

byee

dominican guys and puertoricans WHAT so effing hot!!!!!!!