ADVICE PLEASE discussion

Love?Need some advice on it? Well here's the topic for it!

OH OH I DO...PICK ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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okay i have "loved" (i say love because i have liked him for about 4 years non-stop so... i don't know it feels like love) this guy for 4 years. his name is ryan and he is totally cool and funny and smart...and just makes me feel so special...i don't have the guts to ask him if he likes me of tell him how i feel...what do i do...i don't know what im asking but help please

i think you should ask him how he feels. explain that you've liked him and that you wanted to know if he feels the same. the worst that could happen would be him saying no. and if he does then you find someone better,

and yes it may be awkward in the beginning if he says no, but if he says yes, then you could develop a relationship and be VERY happy.

so my advice is to take a chance, other wise you'll never know. :]

I've told her to do that,she wont.

oh my goodness i am about to cry...i just miss him i don't see him that often...and i don't know...i am not very confident...

then it's time to get confident.
there is no time like the present.
just go for it
TAKE THE RISK :]

it could be worth it.

yay! tell my cousin Rachel!!!

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or it could break my heart and i could end up depressed for a long period of time...jessie you know how much i love him...and how much he means to me...i have spent many nights already listening to the same sad love song over and over cryingbecause of this wonderful boy that i love...i sound pathetic i know...but i am a romantic...who needs a life...i am doing that right now...crying and listening to sad love songs...

which is why you need to try
so yeah you may be sad for a while but then youll get over it and get over him. you may not think so now, but trust me i know. i experienced something like you're feeling, it didn't work out for me, but i tried. I got over it though and i know you can too.

just tell him how you feel.

i can't *tears fall down...*















if love was raindrops
i'd send him showers
if love was seconds
i'd send him hours
if love were water
i'd send him all of the oceans and every last sea
if love was a person
i'd send him me...

you're a romantic so you must read about girls that fall in love.
most of them take chances, and when they're down they find a way to get back up. you 'll never know how he feels until you ask.
i mean he could be thinking the same thing you are. scared to ask, but really likes you.
so take that risk. become the leading lady in your own book. take control and find out.

i am so pathetic...

she shouldn't ask him out but finding out how he feels is important.

oh and you are not pathetic. you just have to have more faith in yourself. you'll be able to get over him. he's just a guy and if he's not the one for you, well then keep looking, but he could be, so you have to find out.

yeah i guess...but then what do you call sitting at home thinking about a guy that you don't even know if he likes you and listening to sad love songs crying your eyes out...i call it pathetic...i could be such a good girlfriend to him...better than anyone else... but not clingy i hate clingy...

hah you sound like me but your life cant be only him. you need to live for yourself too.

no,guys are not. espcially when your ex comes around you and starts flirting WHEN HIS GIRLFRIEND IS RIGHT BESIDE YOU.

i think hes doing tht to make HER mad. and oh my gosh she was. she called him a bastard. hey luis check my status and comment on it pleez!!!

YEAH I GUESS...but i don't know...why can't guys just say what they feel...with out all of the drama

yes i can tell...by what you wrote on your profile...apparently you are the worst...

;)

wow...dont be mean to luis~!~!

i wasn't trying to be mean...have you read his profile thingy about him...

no not yet

well do that and you will get it

i did

hey.
don't be an asshole.
you clearly wrote that you were horrible when it came to feelings.
but as i've said before she needs to start to live and maybe he does like her how would you know?

ok....but still be level headed pleez!!

just be nice

i was only saying that according to what you wrote you are really bad with feelings...that is what the winky face was for...i wasn't trying to be mean...and thanks now i feel really pathetic and i'm going to give up...your right he hates me and i am screwed...i'll forget about him...thank you for showing me the light...*tear, tear* i'll try to forget him...=(

then don't...i don't care about anything anymore...

ughhhhh
you need to find out how he feels.
don't give up until you're certain and have proof
he needs to tell you how he feels.

Yeah. My ex-boyfriend says he still loves me but he has a girlfriend,and then he says tht he hates me the next hour. And I'm like fine Gosh.

I know. It's really weird.

Yeah.

I'm saying you need to ask him.
and tell him how you feel.
and if it doesn't go the way you want. then you move on.


Jessica: you need to detach yourself from that boys life. he's just trying to make himself feel good by having two girls like him.

Oh,he has more than two girls tht like him. And Luis,yes I still like him but I'm trying my best to get over him.

K I need help!!!!! This is what happened:

This guy and i became great friends. Out parents were always friends but we weren't. We went to a church class together and then started texting each other like crazy. I could tell that he liked me. He asked me every day who i liked and i answered. But i nevver told him the truth. I wonder if i should of. Then later he stopped texting me.for about a week. Then there was a Dance I went with a bunch of my friends and we / i saw him there. He asked me to dance and i turned him down. I went to go look for him to ask him why he wasn't texting me and he was dancing with another girl!

I liked him. He won't txt me or anything. At church he won't say hit to me. I wasn't ready for him and now he has moved on and i just got to that point of wanting him.

My friends say move on he doesn't really want you but i can' i love him but its fadeing off winch i don't want it to do.


I don't know what to do. Do you?

He won't talk to me

I think you should at least try to get over him. But if you have very strong feelings for him they wont go away tht easy. But if you got the vib tht he liked you then you should have told him the truth instead of lying to him.

Y in the world did u juss call me louise? And I know. I knew someone was going to mention tht.

My name is Jessica...thts the first name on there. My middle name is Louise.

lol...its ok.

you should talk to him. explain that you weren't ready and the feelings hadn't fully formed but now they have and if it's too late then move on, but if not then YAY

i just saw ryan and he is perfect...i chickened out...i love that boy

STOP BEING SCARED.
go for itttt