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Apr 28, 2009 02:31PM
Having trouble with your family? Well get some advice here!
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Well,how bad is it? The fighting I mean.
ive had worse...in my opinion...it involves my sister too...jessie knows...but how can i help...i know sibling trouble/drama
i got your back about the sister thing mine can be a real pain i think she's the devils child lol
I don't have a sister. I have an older brother.
I don't hate my sister, just at random times I don't like her.
wow...amanda,i thought you loved ur sista!
But I have two brothers. But I live with one and I haven't seen the other since I was a baby.
Idk,I mean it's not like I hate his guts or anything but really,I have no idea. I occasionally talk to him on the phone.
Siblings are usually negative at points. Me being an only child, I've always wished for an older brother or sis. After what I've gone through . . I'm stuck with my Uncle at home. Unless Markus (my bf) is around.
Really bad. Like when my friend was over she said she hated me and then it all went down hill. her friends was also at our house and she got mad that my sister said she hated me and wouldn't play with her( my sister)My cuz and i haven't been getting alog either she is on here ( goodreads) so i'm scared about posting this. Since i'm seeing her today too
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wow well I know me and my sisters are never how you say noral I just really hate being around any of my family I mena I have been hurt more then enough thats probably why I isolate my self from people
i need advice,my granpa got stage 4 cancer, and i might have missed my only chance to ever see him alive again and even if i didnt,
i dont think i can see him
it scares me to much,
and because it scares me i just dont know what to do any advice?
The only thing I can say is make sure you find a way to call him, and even if he's unconscious or something, tell him you love him. Even if he doesn't hear, it will most likely make you feel better.
Also looking through old memories with people that die makes me feel better, though it doesn't work for everyone. For some people it just makes them feel worse.
Also just keep in mind you had some great times together and that death is just part of life, unfortunately.
Also looking through old memories with people that die makes me feel better, though it doesn't work for everyone. For some people it just makes them feel worse.
Also just keep in mind you had some great times together and that death is just part of life, unfortunately.
ya try to visit hm in the hospital cause even though he may be ina coma or somin he can still here you know
yeahh tell me about it,ive had to deal with a lot this past year.
and it just gets worse every time.
ya My Grandfather has been in the hospital the past couple weeks and i haven't seen him in about 6-7 yearsso i know how you feel i am here anything you need comfort you on this time you let me know ok
ohkay thanks,ive only told a couple of people and they didnt know what to say so the just sat there
oh well i m very good with helping people and guving advice on anything you named it if yout new herre o the group then welcome as well
so i went and saw my grandpa today and its worse then i thought, i could barely look at him, and ive been holding back tr=ears since then and i just dont know what to do.
Aw.
My great grandpa died yesterday... a week before I was going to see him (he lives across the country). And the last conversation I had with him, I couldn't hear him so i only talked to him for like 2-3 minutes.
My great grandpa died yesterday... a week before I was going to see him (he lives across the country). And the last conversation I had with him, I couldn't hear him so i only talked to him for like 2-3 minutes.
Okay, I have a situation at my house. I was litterally crying for about two hours earlier (and I DON'T cry) my dad hasn't been talking to anyone in our house. My mom does everything in the house that he asks and she still gets yelled at for forgetting something. Earlier my mom and sister were talking about our trip to Coney Island tomorrow and all of a sudden my sister shouted "Fine then I'm not going" All of a sudden my sister was crying hysterically in her room, my mom was outside in the car crying I was trying to comfort both of them while my dad asked us to keep it down. When my mom asked to talk to my dad my sister and I went up to ask him to come down his exact answer was "I have work in the morning, if she wants to talk to me she'll either come up here or it can wait until tomorrow" The thing that annoyed me the most was that I was holding back tears, my sister was crying next to me and we were pleading with my dad to talk to our mom and he just gave us a look that showed he was asking us why we were bothering him. My dad isn't normally like this and I don't know what's going on because no one will tell me anything :(
oh I know how you feel things terrible always happen to my family just july the 26 of this year my mother's mom died and the whole fam I guess is yellen at her so i hear her say wen my sister was in a wreck ever one cryed but me my dad's wreck same my wreck same never cryed huge terrible tragidies it is weird but I never cry once
I only cry over stupid things like movies or books. If it's something real I don't show emotion, but sometimes I just have to so I find a quiet room. No one thinks I've cried for two years, and up until that day it's been treu. I don't cry. period, end of story
wow thats great to hear you don't hurt like that often
