Relief discussion

What do you think of bullying? I'm against it. No one deserves it no matter you're race, gender, whether you're straight, gay or lesbian because God loves everyone equally.

Exactly. Nobody deserves that kind of treatment.

I totally agree with you.

I was always bullied a lot in school because everyone thought i was indian cuz of my tan skin and dark brown hair btu im actually arabic. I was and am really smart (not even bragging) so i was teased a LOT and even made fun of because of my looks and just last year, something magical happened and everyone's so nice to me an im popular an guys r flirting with me and asking me out and I'm like whaaaaa..............i dont know what's gotten into those people. Those girls who used to push me around in the hallways r actually telling me heir secrets.....but.......i dont know why they suddenly changed but im going to stay away from them. Whatever the reason is that they suddenly love me, i dont care. They were never nice o me before so they arent friends. They'll always be my enemies, even if they give me a million bucks.

Hmm...that's weird...you're smart to stay away from them.

I dont know. Maybe they've changed, maybe ive changed. I dunno. Im just glad i have real friends instead of fake ones.

That's good that you know who your real friends are :) Sometimes it can be hard to tell...

Yeah....i know. Mostly its all about ur money and who u hangout with :(

Really? That's a shame :(

I got teased for being Hispanic in my public school.

That's terrible :( We don't have very many different ethnicities (I think that's the word) in our school, but even the ones we do have aren't teased or bullied. There's actually not a lot of teasing and bullying in my school in general. It makes me feel lucky to be able to go to a school like that.

I've been bullied my whole life for no apparent reason.
I've been bullied at every school I went to, at college, and even during my lunch break, when I was working a few years ago. It's always a group of people, they need an audience to back them up. There is always at least one person in the group that doesn't agree but they go along with it to fit it, otherwise they would be bullied. Most of the time, it's about peer pressure, and making a big deal out of a person just being different from everyone else.

I have been bullied, about everything the way I look, my weight, my height, my skin, the size of my first, if I was a virgin or not/if I was pregnant, just because i'm fat. They kept asking if I was gay, even though i'm straight, they would say a girl is gay, but I never understood why they kept saying that.
I have been kicked, punched, pushed, they put chewing gum in my hair, pulled the hair tie out of my hair, whenever I put my hair up, they burnt my clothing with cigarettes. Rocks have been thrown at me. Rumours have been spread about me, they always said a guy liked me, but he didn't. They lied to my face, and pretended to be my friend, but they hated my guts.A girl threntened me and said that she was going to get a really tough girl and a gang to beat the shit out of me, just because she didn't like me. I said I didn't care, but I was scared. Once I agreed to everything a bully said, and she apologized. This girl for no apparent reason one day, walked up to me, grabbed my ear and screamed as loud a she could. They asked for my phone number, just so they could prank phone call me. They always put their foot out so I would almost fall down the stairs on my way to or from a lesson, so I would trip up. When I was molested, they all made it seem like I wanted it to happen, but I didn't. It happened more than once even though I said no, and pushed his hands away.
I was self-harming when I was 13 till now. I will never forget this happened, and I never forgive them either. Every where I go I am bullied, and it's unbearable. Bullying is why I have been feeling depressed and suicidal for most of my life. I am a shy, quiet, introvert, a bit of a loner, so that was perfect for bullies.

There was a teenager that was being bullied online, and in his life. He was being bullied online/via text message. They found out where he lived and said they were going to kill him, but he hanged himself in the garden before they could do anything. It makes me sad.
For anyone that has been bullied for any reason remember this, they hate themselves and they project what they hate about themselves onto you. Your not the problem, there is nothing wrong with any of you. Your perfect just the way you are just like the song. For all anyone knows they could be getting beaten up by their parents or abused so they take it out on other people. Although that is no excuse for them bullying anyone for any reason whatsoever. Bullies always tear down other people to make themselves feel better, because bullies are pathetic loners. Always remember that no matter how bad you feel, there are other people in the world that feel exactly the same. Some people lives may be better than yours, and some maybe worst than yours and you might not find out till it's too late. Stay strong, don't let them get to you, ignore them, or completely agree with everything they say it works, and confuses them.

He was weak then

And you must look weak did you try standing up for yourself

Yep, but it doesn't work. A teacher was supposed to help me, but he was useless and didn't listen, so I had ago at him. This was after I had been pushed over, it was a group of bitchy girls, that wouldn't leave me alone.
I felt bad that the teacher killed himself, because the last time I talked to him, I had ago at him. Another teacher was always drunk and high while teaching. He was schizophrenic and killed his mother, chopped her up and buried her in the garden because he thought she was a clone 0.0

Your teacher suck do you have friends if so then tell them and walk with them.

i'm not at school anymore, this happened a long ago, i'm 25 now. I'm just explaining to other people, that even though you might feel like every one is against you, it's not the end of the world.

Oh I thought it was now but that is still good advice. Here look at it this way life's is a game if you are sad or commit suicide or do anything idiotic like that you have lost.

I didn't realize it was this bad for you. is this thread ok for you guys? or is it dreading up unwanted memories? I can delete thread if wanted?

I was bullied for being Jewish i have been called filthy jew, bitch, slut, ugly, worthless, god didn't want you etc. I guess you get used to it

I would have punched them in the face :)

haha. A boy tried to kiss me at a dance and i slapped him. it was strangely satisfying

LOL XD I slapped a guy after he smacked my butt. He deserved it. He did it on a bet for TWO DOLLARS. Idiot -_-

SIERRA you go girl!

I smacked my neighbor across the face last year after he continuously called me and my best friend lesbian.

Thanks Arwen, you too. :)

Good for you Makz! You showed him! :D

Meiyu, what is wrong with these people?! You're just a normal person. Well...Idk about the normal part :P but the person part :D

Thanks.

Hmm...Idk Meiyu. But either way it's stupid and they should just treat you like everybody else.

You're welcome, Makz :)

@Sierra, :)
@Meiyu, of course it's good you're not bullied, but still. They should treat you like everyone else

i bet his gf doesn't hate you

see? i agree with Meiyu

REALLY?! have you told your dad? was she joking?

stand up to her. she is using your compliance to accept what is going on as leverage to get above you. if she can act like a bitch then so can you. (no offence intended, just thought you can return her own medicine)

I agree with Meiyu

i second that

i was brought up to be kind, giving, patient etc etc
but i gotta temper and when things like this happen i really wish i could meet the person.

I wanna meet your step -itch and talk to her

Then don't stand up to her yourself. Tape it and then show your dad or counselor at school or someone.

I second that

when i say "talk" i mean scream at her and shake her etc

Mackenzie wrote: "I second that"
copy cat :P

Lol sorry

Mackenzie wrote: "Lol sorry"

nah joking

Mrs. Mary ♥Malik♥ wrote: "Mackenzie wrote: "Then don't stand up to her yourself. Tape it and then show your dad or counselor at school or someone."

I'm just sort of scared of what my dad will do to me if he finds out how h..."

hey you need o try. stop thinking the negatives and start thinking positive

Are you LDS? (Sorry if you're not i just kinda guessed that from you talking about your bishop)
Just make sure she can't be mean to you. Act like you don't care, sometimes that makes people get bored with it. If it gets really bad you need to talk to a trusted adult though.

Oh sorry. I forgot that the catholic church had bishops....I'm a mormon (that's what LDS means)

Has anyone read 'Destroying Avalon'? It's about cyber bullying. It's really good, it really shows u the effect bullying has on people. It made me cry.

I haven't read it, but I want to

U should. It's really relevant coz it's about cyber bullying for a change and not just about physical bullying. I admit that physical bullying is mean but i think cyber is worse coz u can't get away from it. If u get physically bullyied at school for example u can go home and u don't have to worry about it as much coz the person isn't there. But cyber bullying is constant since our generation is always on phones, laptops, etc.

Yeah. That's true. I will get it next time I go to the library

But what kind of cyber bullying generally you can block anybody online you don't ever have to hear from people online.

Demonhunter (Max) wrote: "But what kind of cyber bullying generally you can block anybody online you don't ever have to hear from people online."

a girl that used to go to my school got recently suspended from school for cyber bulling