Speaker Geeks! discussion

Meh, to each their own. Like so many things there's probably a healthy and unhealthy way to do it.

I don't think it's healthy.

If it's consensual, sane and safe, I think it has no problem, but when put into practise by troubled couples who'd rather buy a crop than go for a therapy...

lolwut. Most people in the group are under 18, never had sex, and I would bet most have never had a boyfriend or first kiss. I didn't know this group was for strange sex practices. Bottom line is, its nobody's business what you do in the bedroom. Its not "unhealthy" or anything, people enjoy what they want no matter how weird or kinky it is.

But to think a bunch of 12 year olds are discussing dominance in the bedroom disturbs me.

BDSM actually really turns me on. I don't see anything wrong with it, and I would bet alot of us reading this post agree with me. It seems like one of those kinky sex things that everybody should try once. As a teen, I can definitely see myself getting myself into BSDM situations.

Anybody else?

Phil wrote: "BDSM actually really turns me on. I don't see anything wrong with it, and I would bet alot of us reading this post agree with me. It seems like one of those kinky sex things that everybody should t..."

Same for me... Maybe because I read erotic romance novels and I'm not ashamed of that hahah
People have different comfort levels in these kinds of stuff. Some prefer vanilla while others might want something more ;)
Oh and it should always be safe, sane and consensual. And I'm just going to say that BDSM requires A LOT of trust and patience if your looking for your special Dom or Sub, so don't rush these kind of things (and by the general age range here in this group, let mejust say: please wait a littlelonger)

BDSM turns me on so much...I'm the type of girl who loves submitting to guys. It's so sexy and arousing and makes me feel so dirty ;) I love being my boyfriend's slave it's very hot :) I think it's very safe and healthy as long as you establish boundaries and it can be a great way to spice up your sex life and get closer to your partner ;)