Relief discussion

what about it? why is it important?

Suicide... It's an awful thing. My boyfriend's goddaughter just killed herself last week. Him and his brother are in so much pain, guilt, and grief about it but what can I do? Sit and watch and when I say something to try to help I feel as if I'm only making it worse. I try to act strong about it, but it ends up looking like I don't care. But I really do. I miss that sweet little girl so much. I'll miss her adorable yet feisty personality, her calling me mommy, the way she made my bf and his brother happy and gave them more reason.
She was miserable. She saw no way to be happy but this...so she took it.
I used to have mixed feelings about suicide since it was so tempting to me, but I've also lost friends to it. But after this I despise it. I'll never do it.
As my uncle once told me, "dealing with the death of a loved one is the hardest thing we go through in life. It's such a terrible thing." He's right. All these people that have killed themselves are going through tremendous pain, but by what they do they've caused all their loved ones just as much pain! It's a horrocious thing. (Yeah, fake word. But it seemed fitting.)
Whoever you are, whatever you're going through, if you're thinking of ending it all, please realize the pain you will cause everyone around you. That, and that you will stumble upon something to make it all worth it, one day or another.

One of my sons had a friend who commited suicide when he was 15.It was over a girl ,she had been seeing his friend.He was so young and it's not worth doing this over a partner.

Please,please,nobody is worth it.People come and go but there's always someone else who will come along.All your family and friends have the suffering for all their life if you ever do this.
Nothing is worth suicide.

*Hugs*.

Hate it and used to think about it

I'm sorry that you used to think about it Jenna.It's not worth it.
Bad things happen but we deal with them.Nobody is alone,there are people to talk to.

I think about it and I don't know if I hate it or not