Being a Teen discussion

I made this on another group and it is sorta working. Since most people on goodreads are girls and im one of the few guys i decided to make a folder where girls can ask me questions and find out guys opinions on any subject. Im dont really think like most guys do but i know how they think so just ask me whatever

HI BEN!

so girls can find out guys opinions on things

go 2 Questioning Society group and look at this topic on there and u'll c some examples

Dear Ben,

My bf and I just broke up. I know we will always love each other, but it just didn't work. I just now found out that a couple guys like me and I think I might like one back. I don't want to start dating again so soon, but I'm afraid that if I don't, the guy wont like me anymore. What do you think?

~Frogg

start hangin out with him but make shure he knows that ur just good friends bcuz ur not ready 2 start another relationship so soon. and if he likes you and you like him he will always like you

u gota explain that better im confused

there isnt really anything you can tell him

so if the other guy says he likes you, are you going to date him instead of the 1st guy?

find out if the other guy likes you then decide which guy you like more

idk but your going 2 have 2 choose unless they r cool with you dating them both

i'd ask her out

Are girls better off being confident and asking guys out, are should the guys ask the girl out?

Why do guys pretend they still like you after they stop liking you?

Kaitlyn-how far away?
Jayda-girls are better off being confident and askin guys out
Ashley-start up a conversation with him, make hints that u like him and see how he reacts
Sarah-idk sarah, i dont know ne guys like that

Cool, gracias!

I've known several...thanks anyway though

sorry i couldnt help sarah

It's ok

mhm

Dear Ben,
How do you know when a guy is interested? And are guys freaked out if a girl asks him out, because where i come from-if you like even THINK about it, you are a freak-a-zoid, so...
From, Naomi

Ben-
Don't you have anything better to do?
-Me

Dear Ben,

What is it when somebody comes...
I know it relates to stuff squirting out of your female or male hardware...

Dear Ben,
In relation to Ashley's question, have you ever? Does it feel good?

Dear Ben,
You must really love us to be able to stand all this crap every day...hugs and kisses
( :
te he

BWAHAHAHAHAHA

Dear Ben,

WHY DOESN'T ANYONE LOVE ME? ARE THEY TOO GOOD FOR ME? AM I UGLY? DO I STINK? WHY WHY WHY?? My therapist won't help me!!!! T_T HELP BEN!


Sincerely, Deborah

Dear Ben,
My biosexual friend thinks it is fair that she can have a boy and girl friend at the same time...I think that is a load of crap...I think that having two partners makes her a cheating skank...she is convinced other wise...what do you think???

Kayla (Deborah) I love you what about me????Don't you love me any more...I can whisper sweet nothings into your ear...

sexinesss *cough cough who said that*

I THINK YOURE A LYING SLUT! SO WHAT IF IM BIOSEXUAL! AT LEAST IM ECO FRIENDLY! (HENCE BIO) AND IF THEY BOTH LOVE ME, THEN WHAT DO YOU CARE YOU WHORE!

well, had you told me that before, i would totally break up with christine

Wait if you are bio...and i'm a girl... does that make me your girl lover...

girl? oops, my mistake

Then who is the boy???
I bet it's Nate...

I totally just thought of Nate, You, and I having a threesome...ughhh

...well then...that's lovely...

And that, ladies and gentleman, was our production of "The biosexual girl and her friend who was jealous"

Thank you, thank you

Yes indeed, indeed...

Uhh...isn't it bisexual...like, without the o...?

We know...it's an inside joke...play along

bio is more fun, makes you sound ecofriendly

Dear Ashley,
I also have a bi friend like this, only she has multiple girl and boyfriends. I can't convince her otherwise either.
Best of luck,
Rachel

Well, I vote if she's not a close friend or a good friend, I would suggest you distance yourself from this person. All she can bring is trouble unless she is a true friend.

Dear Emily,
She's also depressed, and I don't want to make her depression worse. And you CANNOT make her go away. And if I leave the clique, I won't have that many friends, so *shrug*
Rachel

Whatever happened to "Dear Ben"?

Oh… that makes it hard. I once suffered from severe depression, but thankfully my mother and BFFL saved me from getting worse. I know how hard it is when you lose a friend when you are depressed. It makes you believe that you aren't wanted by anyone, even someone who you thought was your friend. If there is anything that would make someone go suicidal, it would be that. I think you should be open with this person and try to make them understand what they're doing can get them not only emotionally hurt, but mentally.

Truthfully, she is a good friend...and I'm not remotly depressed and all my friends are really good people...I never have to woory about my buddies...right Kayla???

dear ben 9or anyone who wants to comment really, i dont care.),

so, back in 7th grade, this guy i liked but barely knew asked me out. it was a new thing for both of us so we didn't really know how a relationship was supposed to work. we lasted 2 months and then he unexpectedly broke up with me (got his friend to break up with me). a week later i heard that he wanted to go back, but i was stupid and turned a deaf ear to that. i suffered from depression for a while but no one knew what was wrong. it has been two years and i still love him. we have a love-hate relationship: we fight a lot and flirt some. everyone thinks we should go back out, and i think he liked me for a while, and i really really want to go back with him. I think about him nonstop...but i dont know what to do: should i ask him out? tell him how i feel?
give up on him (impossible)? help! anyone!

-grace

I think that you should go for it. You can't really get over someone until you find a reason that you know it won't work out. Maybe he fights with you as a form of flirting. I think you should go for it

thanks, u gave me confidence! i will talk to him next time the opportunity comes up...

anytime, and I'm sure he would go out with you again. :)

Boys are stupid....what is the point of dating...it's so generic....