Crush discussion

Ok really this topic is big with girls. Many and I mean MANY girls are self conscious. Take it from me. I hate my body and would love to change it! I found it always helps to talk about this. And it can help if boys put input in too.

I always feel fat and ugly.

SAME! I always wear close that are loose that way I don't look fat.

Hey guys, honestly i have felt like this constantly. always looking at how other girls look and feeling envious. I'm someone who loves to eat... a lot!! However over the years i learnt to love my body (which by the way is definitely not skinny. why? Because i see the way people look at me and even though some may think your not the best looking person, others will praise you and be like (wow her body is so nice). We're jealous of other girls and girls are jealous of us. ever heard the saying "You never like what you have"? Well it's true, but honestly im sure theres some things you would never trade about yourself :)

Know what you mean

Yeah, I'm really self-conscious about my size. I'm only 5'2" and I have the shape of a 12 year old boy. Not many people know how insecure I am about because I just joke about it and pretend like it doesn't bother me, but it really does. It's hard being surrounded by all of these tall, pretty bombshells and I'm just this little girl who has curly hair and glasses.

Okay since everyone's talking. I feel that i look fat and am not good looking. I feel that i look like a monster towering over my friends coz i'm tall and they are shorter than me!

I guess I may as well comment too. I feel that I dress really badly since I basically only wear sweatpants and T-shirts. I also always feel that I'm fat and ugly

@Nightingale Trust me, being tall isn't a bad thing! I'm very short and I loathe it, I constantly feel like other people are looking at me and judging me because I'm so short and fat. In all actuality, I find tall people cute.

Btw call me Siril and being tall isn't always nice and i don't judge people neither do i tease unless you piss me off! And don't you worry you'll gain height!

Ok Siril(: And I'm sure everyone is going to have issues with their height, and body image in general. I try not to let my insecurities get to me, yet I can't help thinking of all of the things wrong with me.

Hehe neither can i coz i don't know what's wrong with me! But there's this feeling that there are a lot of things wrong!

*sigh* I know the feeling!

Hehe looks like we are the same! That is the prob of Teenage! Everyone knows whats going on!

My mom doesnt buy me lots of clothes, so i wear handmedowns. I have a small body for my age so all my clotes are little kids clothes and it makes m elook younger then i am.

Makayla! Makayla! Don't worry! We atleast know how old you are! Wait how old are you?

13 almost 14
my clothes are starting to get better cause i can wear small adult clothes now.

Haha! Haha! Small adult clothes? Hahahaha!

Like the size extra small. :p

small size! Hahaha!

Why is that funny?

Nah just getting you confused!

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I...uh..don't really get self conscious :/ ...i think..
I started homeschooling in Jan so I haven't even seen a person close to my age for a year :/ I have no idea what i'm doing here XD

No prob!

oh hai Siril XD You're here too

Well i think i am a mod.

....ah. I see XD Sorryy

What are you sorry for? I was just telling you!

XDD ohh I thought you were being sarcastic XD Whooops

Nah!

...Well then. XD

oh hey how tall are you anyways? I forgot XD 5"11?

5"11 nearly!

Dude you're taller than my whole family XDD but then again...we're on the short side..hehe :P

Short side?

mm yeah..I'm..I think 4"11 or 5" ? my mum is 5"4 or 5"2..I can't remember :/ My dad is 5"6..or 5"4 XDD I'm getting these mixed up. my brother is...um..I have no idea actually XD

Cat wrote: "I guess I may as well comment too. I feel that I dress really badly since I basically only wear sweatpants and T-shirts. I also always feel that I'm fat and ugly"

Cat you aren't ugly -_- I've seen your photos

Makayla (tired... tired.... tired....)did i mention im tired wrote: "My mom doesnt buy me lots of clothes, so i wear handmedowns. I have a small body for my age so all my clotes are little kids clothes and it makes m elook younger then i am."

My wardrobe is made of secondhand clothes ;D hehe XD

Looks like most people here thinks they're fat and ugly :/

I hate you all( Sarcastic) I am so short!

i'm just as tall as you ;)

How tall and how old

13 and 4"11 XD

Oh yeah I forgot.

Wait! Both of you are 13?

Well then. XD hehe

Nightingale Killer wrote: "Wait! Both of you are 13?"

:O you didn't know I was 13?

Yes we are both 13. Why?

~Nobody~♫And The Walls Kept Tumbling Down♫~ wrote: "I'm 12 and 4'10. Sigh....i'm insecure about my height and unfortunately about my appearance too."

:/ Why? I'm sure you're beautiful :D

I am the same way! I never think good about myself and am always putting myself down.