Crush discussion

Okay so I'm just gonna set this up, any girls who need boy advice can post up questions here and feel free to post advice too!

Okay so here I go... There's a dude I like but he's dating someone else, and I think if I tell him I like him now it might cause unwanted drama. Also I don't really know the girl he's dating well, but she seems nice and I don't think I have the heart to hate her. What should I do?

I agree ^^. Never try to tell someone your feelings when they are with another.

ok, so like I was saying before I've been crushing on Steven since the beginning of the year and I'm tired of hiding my feelings from him. I want to tell him, but I'm scared that his friends might think I'm silly for even trying to do so. I know some of his friends, but I have not talked to a few in a while so I have no idea what they are like.

He's in my math class

Friend zoning isn't a good idea IMO. I have never dated a guy I friend zoned.

I agree with Mads. In my opinion you should always be friends first.

Then what happens if you've been friends, dated, it doesn't work out and you're friendship is just awkward from there on out? That's what I'm afraid of most of the time.

Yeah, but just don't give signs that you just want to be friends by saying things like, "I see him just as my brother!" to me, thats a big no no.

@Sarah: Oh man I hate that! But to me, just try to talk as you used to, thats what I've been doing. It's only awkward if you make it awkward

I can't be friends with a guy knowing he wants more. It's too much of an elephant in the room.

Guys really are different from girls. :P

Well, it's always nice to know what a guy is thinking. ;)

I think I forgot to point something out. Kenneth, a guy I know from when I was at hyde middle school and is currently in my grade, told me that Steven likes me as more than just a friend. I couldn't catch the part where Kenneth was telling me the catch. Esok also told me the same thing, that Steven likes me as more than a friend. I trust Kenneth so, I know he could be telling the true and i sorta trust Esok, so he might be telling the truth. But I'm still going to straight up ask Steven himself if what his friends told me is true or not. I'm afraid it will end like it did with my last crush, Carlos, only he had a gf and eventually told me that and eventually told me that he didn't like me as more than a friend. Anyways, I really hope Steven doesn't lie about it like Carlos did, Carlos said he "liked me" but when I found out he was lying I was like really mad and stuff, but I'm over it now. I hate it when guys lie about stuff, especially to a girl about feelings.

Ok I don't get notices by guys! What do I do to get noticed?

Okay, in reality I'm a pretty crazy person. I'm always cracking jokes and stuff in class and I can be really sarcastic. When I like a guy, a lot of times I'll try to make him laugh and I'll tease him (in a nice way...) Is there something I could improve on? I'm really clueless in the flirting department.

Haha agreed I wear makeup but I keep it natural .

I don't wear make up

I wear foundation, mascara and brown eye liner. It's not as bold as black.

i wear some, not liners tho

I just started but I don't put a lot on.

i wear eye shadow, but not glitter, i couldn't even think about tht cause the makeup kit i have doesn't have glitter w/ it as far as i know

Yeah, I just wear some foundation and mascara, if I have time I'll add some eyeliner, but usually I'm too lazy :P
And yes, please keep the makeup looking natural if all your going to do is sit around at school. It's sort of depressing when you see 11 year olds and stuff running around with pink eyeshadow and lipstick. You really don't need all of that! If you are going to wear makeup, make sure you know how to apply so it looks good and not cakey.

Usually i wear it for events like homecoming, and have my mom help me w/ it

It's cute when u are 4 becuase you think you I'd good when it's all over your face not when you are older. It's just ugly. Actually I hate colored eyeshadow. I like browns or pale pink. Thing like that.

I wear makeup cause it makes me feel a little pretty. I know that May sound like a stupid reason to wear it but it helps my confidence.

I don't put on make up, lip gloss every now and then but no mascara, eyeshadow and sometimes blush. But I don't put make up on unless its for an occasion

i like green colored eye shadow

I understand how that could make you feel more confident. I never leave my house without applying a little mascara, but if you go over board with it, it's just really unattractive. Like I said, if you know how to apply it and keep it somewhat natural, it can be cute(:

Don't wear eyeshadow. Maybe when I am a little older.

Miss short wrote: "Don't wear eyeshadow. Maybe when I am a little older."

Same here.

For me I don't seem to need to put on mascara, cause it seems like I naturally look like it is there, but really that is just how my eyelashes are and I just like the look of it and how cute it can be when it does not run into your eyes.

That's what I do. Simple and natural. I wear it to school and for en event with lots of people. Any time other than that I give my face a break.

I've only worn makeup to school on a non-event day, once, just to see how it would end up being

The first day back to school I wanted. To see what people would say and I got told it was cute and they liked it so I continued to wear it.

I am not allowed o date but their is a really nice and awesome guy in my sixth hour who might ask me out. I mean i not sure if i want t date him, and im not allowed to anyway but i he askes me out how can i turn him down without hurting his feelings?


I feel so dumb cause everyone at my school says i give good advice. Apparently I'm only good at solving other peoples problems.

Thats what i thought i should do. But its kinda a thing ar my scool to date behind parents backs.

True true.

I can't date either but I would be so happy if someone asked me out!

I have freinds who have some really weird dating storys

Oh I know it would be bad. U would be happy that someone actually liked me and I was noticed.

Ok so I have a question for a guy. Does a guy actual care how thin a girl is?

honestly, I think the right guy won't care :)

Uh so this is a weird question: But is actually true that sometimes a guy will tease the girl he likes?

Not always. But I think in some cases it could be true

Thanks!

Okay no offense to some of you, but this is not right. Everyone is asking, "Will a guy not like me because I'm not pretty" or "I'm too fat" or "I have too many pimples" and the guys are saying we don't always look at those features, etc. , and some guys are asking "will a girl show signs that she likes me" and then the girls will say we leave some clues on if we like a guy...wrong!

I know, who knows what to think unless it's based of their gender but everybody is different, sure there will sometimes be a majority of boys who look at that features, but to me, you never say we boys, or we girls, because that is all wrong. Sometimes you will be saying something that is totally opposite of the guy/girl who the person is asking advice for. Just trust your instincts/guts because right now, everyone is saying the same thing which is not true.

Some girls will say "we don't like to make the first move" okay, some girls won't but probably that guy that is asking for advice, maybe the girl does like making the first move. We never met these people so who are we to say what they intend to do?

Sorry, didn't mean to get people annoyed I just wanted to let that out (:

Beware the fuzzy wrote: "I like your advice! I have a friends who likes this guy and we are guessing that he likes her also, and it is plain easy to see how he acts when she is not on the bus, but she doesn't want to make ..."
then maybe you should tell her to suck it up and just ask him

Haha thanks :D And I hope things work out for your friend! Sometimes though, the way you describe her, it sounds like she needs a little push to actually talk to this guy.

My bad, I mean for her to ask him out or tell him how she feels.