Just the Way YOU are! discussion

Just let it all out :P

I wish teachers wouldn't all assign ten pounds of homework all on the same day!

I hate cancer! It is hurting my family. My grandpa died last year of brain cancer and now my other grandpa was just diagnosed with bladder cancer for the second time.

any swimmers here cause i need to complain about swim related stuff

A kid in my class keeps making jokes about cutting, depression, and suicide and it's really triggering me yay

Aw I'm sorry

I used to swim

oh so you would understand swim terms! Yes!! Well you know how swim is all about time right? Well mine sucks and I'm always disappointed with myself. And I don't think I can be satisfied until I can make it to districts..

Well hav your times improved in the past year at all?

no

I would say try to relax a bit and work on it a bit at a time maybe you're putting to much pressure on yourself

Yeah sports are suppose to be for fun

Not in my opinion. .

the fire burns wrote: "Not in my opinion. ."

You just have to focus on the positive! It'll be fun if you put your heart into it :)

I agree

I'm putting my heart and soul into it. And I do love it but I wanna get to district's it my life goal right now.

Believe in yourself and don't let anyone brig you down

My coach gave my team a pep talk so I'm feeling better

I wish people would listen to me! Also why spend so much money on a new iPhone when you can use the money for something useful! (I'm not saying I hate iPhones but come on )

Simran wrote: "I wish people would listen to me! Also why spend so much money on a new iPhone when you can use the money for something useful! (I'm not saying I hate iPhones but come on )"

i totally get what you mean about the iphones.

I'm really tired and triggered, I can't sleep, and I don't have anything worth living for. My grades are slipping, my mental disorders are getting worse, and I can't live with myself.

I am stupid.

You aren't. But I am. :)

You not stupid! Neither of you are! I'm sure you're brilliant!!!

Ok. So I am officially 14 years old, and I just got into my first relationship. I have told my dad, and I'm in he process of telling my mom. Dad said that it was ok with him, because he knew the boy, and assured me it is just a part of growing up.

Daniel (my boyfriend) and I have known each other since kindergarten. I had a little elementary crush on him forever, and it never really let up. So, I've had a crush on him since 1st grade. When her asked me out, I couldn't have been happier. That was 2 weeks ago, and now people are giving me grief. I keep hearing, "You could do so much better," and "what do you see in him?" It really hurts, and I can assure you he's a great guy. He treats me with respect, we are like best friends, and I can't help but feel happy around him. Why can't everyone see how happy we are?

(I know we are a little but young to be dating, but it's not like that. We are soo much closer now, and we can hug freely and talk, and tell each other how we feel, but we are not eating each other's faces like that. I just wanted to clear up that it's not that kind of relationship.)

Hannah,

Don't listen to what other people say. I know it's hard and it hurts but it really doesn't matter what they think. It matters that you care about each other and that you're happy. The fact that they are trying to bring you down only shows you are above them. Be strong, you can do it. Choose to ignore them and just be happy! :)

Thank you sooo much! I am trying, but they are just little pickers. :/ You're definately right, though. I just need to try to ignore them...

I am kinda happy for you. I just got dumped last night so I am a bit jaded.

I'm so sorry... :(


I bet she wasn't good enough for you anyway. :)

she was more than good enough. she was perfect.
It was my fault, I should not have gotten into a relationship with her.

I'm sorry, Max. I think you're great and I want the best for you.

Thanks, I will get over it.

Max do u wanna talk about it more? And Hannah I am in the same position as u my friends are so unsupportive of me and my boyfriend but we have been going out for eleven months and I couldn't be happier. If u find someone u love it doesn't matter what people say

I think I am handling it better now, I talked to her best friend and got some more perspective, it is really confusing and I am not sure how I feel about it all but I am trying to just be happy with what I already have and not worry about her.

Sydney wrote: "Max do u wanna talk about it more? And Hannah I am in the same position as u my friends are so unsupportive of me and my boyfriend but we have been going out for eleven months and I couldn't be hap..."

Wow! Its great to hear your story! Some people have came around for me, and I just have to realize that I like him, and if my friends can't accept that, then they aren't true friends. 2 weeks today!

Good job Hannah congratulations! Keep me updated! And max I know it can be hard and I'm so glad you are having a good attitude about it

So I'm in love with my best friend
And it's kind of awful because he's so great but I don't think he likes me back. We've just been friends for so long- I've known him since I was three. Anyway he's just really sweet and good and we have so many inside jokes and our friendship is strong. I just don't think we'd ever be more than friends. I love him so much though ugh

Ahhh... (Imagine twilight zone music) na na na num na na na num. Welcome. You have arrived at- THE FRIENDZONE.



Occupants- me and hundreds, maybe thousands more.

Gabrielle wrote: "So I'm in love with my best friend
And it's kind of awful because he's so great but I don't think he likes me back. We've just been friends for so long- I've known him since I was three. Anyway he..."
Gabriel, I know it can be hard, but you can pull through the friendzone, I promise! Tink about Ron Weasley. It may have took him 7 books and 8 long movies, he did it! Just hold on!

Aw you used one of my favorite fandoms to comfort me!<3 thank you, Hannah. That's really sweet and I appreciate it.

And Doctor Who Fan- you're funny :)

It's hard when you're such good friends be careful and whatever is meant to happen will happen :)

Gabrielle wrote: "Aw you used one of my favorite fandoms to comfort me!<3 thank you, Hannah. That's really sweet and I appreciate it.

And Doctor Who Fan- you're funny :)"

Why *dramatic bow with a flourish of an invisible top hat* thank you. *sweep top hat back on head*