Rants discussion

If your feeling sad...

...buy a tub of ice cream and schedule a date with Netflix

Lee-lette wrote: "...buy a tub of ice cream and schedule a date with Netflix"

lol

That cleared up the sadness :)

I feel like my friend hates me. I have no reason to believe this really just the fact that she seems to talk to me so much less and seemed so disinterested when I try to talk to her. She's been one of my best friends for a few years and I helped her through a bad time and she helped me through a bad time but it just feels like she doesn't care about me anymore. I don't know what to do cause I don't want to let her go but at the same time if she doesn't want to be my friend anymore I should. I don't know what to do...I always convince myself people don't like me, that's why I was so sad last year for a few months and she helped me through it because she was the one I thought cared but now she's the one I think that just puts up with me *sighs*

Reyna wrote: "I feel like my friend hates me. I have no reason to believe this really just the fact that she seems to talk to me so much less and seemed so disinterested when I try to talk to her. She's been one..."

If you are have theses felling then you need to talk to her and tell her how you are felling and try mark new friends is will mark you fell a little bit better I hope.

Lee-lette wrote: "...buy a tub of ice cream and schedule a date with Netflix"

YES!!!!!

Reyna wrote: "I feel like my friend hates me. I have no reason to believe this really just the fact that she seems to talk to me so much less and seemed so disinterested when I try to talk to her. She's been one..."

As us humans get older we seem to drift from our friends that have been here with us for a long time. We may still hang out with them and we still may talk and that can be a good thing. Just sometimes friendships end in the most unexpected way. I won't say I know how you feel because I know that doesn't help you feel any better. People say it to me all the time. But loosing people will only help you realize who the people are that you really need as friends.

Erin wrote: "Reyna wrote: "I feel like my friend hates me. I have no reason to believe this really just the fact that she seems to talk to me so much less and seemed so disinterested when I try to talk to her. ..."

I agree.

I am sad. Really sad. I keep trying to get better and I keep trying to be okay. My words end in lies of "I'm fine" when really I'm just dying inside. Every time I think that I'll get better I don't. I get worse. And I feel like an awful person and I don't think I can move on or if I even want to. You see, apart of me wants to hold on to this sadness and continue to pretend to be strong. Apart of me just wants to fall apart and crash and I keep letting it.

How can you be happy when you don't want to be? How can you be happy when you need to be?
You can't. It's like our emotions are a game, an evil cruel game and, nobody can ever win.

It's called a facade, the act of putting up a face to please everyone when you're actually crumbling inside. It may seem that you don't need happiness, but we all do at some point.
It becomes a game when we allow them to rule us instead of the other way around. You can win, then again, 'win' is a relative term.