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Nov 01, 2016 05:55AM

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I feel like husbands haven't changed a bit.



Elizabeth and Jane are the "right" age to marry and, apparently, they have not found anyone suitable among their acquaintances. Mary seems - to me - unlikely to marry. I imagine her living with her parents until they die, and then being shunted from one sister to another. I feel sorry for her because she probably imagined that she would be happy married to Mr. Collins. I think that marriage would have been dreadful for Mary. Lady Catherine would have belittled her constantly, and Mr. Collins is much too pretentious. Kitty and Lydia are too busy flirting to think seriously of marriage. They seem too self-absorbed to be aware of the effort required in marriage.
No wonder Mrs. Bennet is so thrilled to hear of Mr. Bingley and his fortune. I admire her for rejecting Mr. Darcy as a suitor - despite his larger fortune - because of his rudeness.
Charlotte Lucas is quite blunt about her desire to marry, even though her family home indicates that the Lucases are much wealthier than the Bennets. She is described as not pretty, but her money and her father's title must make her attractive to someone. Her acceptance of Mr. Collins' proposal after such a fleeting acquaintance is evidence of the pressure to marry that she must feel.
Like Charlotte, Caroline Bingley is older than Jane and Elizabeth. Her youth is slipping by, but she has not "landed" a husband. Her sister's husband is a constant reminder that desirable men are rare. Unfortunately for Caroline, Darcy is just not interested in her. He and Bingley resister her efforts to make a foursome with Darcy's sister, who is too young for Bingley.
And sad Miss DeBourgh. Does she say anything? But she doesn't need to because her mother says everything for her. Can't you imagine the idle conversation between sisters that led Lady Catherine to believe that Darcy and her daughter are engaged?
I'm excluding Lydia from this discussion of marriage, because I think she was thinking more about lust than marriage. She feels no pressure to marry; her wedding results from flirtation gone amok.
Perhaps I'm in a cynical mood, but the action of this novel seems to focus on finding a husband rather than on finding love.