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I must break up with my boyfriend


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That's sad GreenDaisy, good topic idea though, "Having a reason to tear state it here":

The one year anniversary of my dog's death is coming up.

*Tear*

That's sad.

I know! And I didn't even notice the rhyme

My best friend is clinically depressed


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"someone that i no" is cutting herself

*tear for Jenny*



I did that once it was really quite interesting accept for the fact that I was seriously depressed

I just sat on ready to cut nail clippers


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D:

yea, my friend that does it as well, let me explain...

i was at my friends house (a different friend) and she was texting to friend number 1 (the one that cuts herself) so friend number 2 asked me to read a message that friend number 1 sent her. and in the message friend #1 was talking about how her mom found her scars. and then i wanted to no what she was talking about so i asked friend #2 what she was talking about. and she told me. so i asked friend number 2 two ask friend number 1 why she did it. and in the next message she told friend number 2 not to show me the messages. so friend number 2 lied and said that i didnt and she wont let me see the messages. i want to help friend #1 out but i cant without letting friend #1 no that i no what shes doing bcuz i read a message that she sent to friend #2. do u get it?

that made sense

really? phew, *sighs of relief* cuz i thought that it didnt with all that friend #1 and friend #2 stuff.

Yes, I get it. You have to tell her that you know, though. Cutting is like drugs, you get addicted, and it gives you a release, but you can't stop afterwards. Not without intervention. The only way she's going to be able to be helped is by having support (friends and family), and guidance. It's good that her mother found her scars, maybe she can help your friend/her daughter.

From the New England Journal of Medicine:

"Self-mutilation, most commonly by cutting or burning, frequently begins in adolescence and may continue for a lifetime if the behavior is left untreated. It can cause permanent scarring, blood loss, infection (including human immunodeficiency virus infection), and even death. It is also psychologically dangerous.
Self-mutilation can be visually shocking — imagine a crosshatching of ugly red gashes on an adolescent's arms and legs — and eerily silent, a dramatic symbol that takes the place of words."

She needs some help. Make sure not to abandon her, while her mother works things out.

Ok, thankx. i can always count on u guys for advice. i shall tell her...eventually, when i see her again. also i felt bad about not being able to say anything about it. like she was just doing this to herself and i wasnt doing anything to stop her, like i could be stopping it and, im not. (did i just repeat the same thing over and over again?)

The thing about addiction, is that she can feel really guilty about it, but her mind makes her so addicted to it she won't stop. She might feel a bit ashamed about it, but she can't do anything because it keeps pulling her back in.

Well, i talked to another friend about this (friend #3) and she said that friend #1 has been doing this for a little while now, and that she tried to talk to friend #1 out of it but she couldnt. friend #3 has recently talked to friend#1 about the situation and idk how that worked out. but friend #3 thinks that what she is doing is stupid, and that she needs to stop. and the thing is, friend #1 isnt even a sad person. and im just wondering what she could possibly be depressed about. what ev, im gonna talk to her about it.

Melzz wrote: "The thing about addiction, is that she can feel really guilty about it, but her mind makes her so addicted to it she won't stop. She might feel a bit ashamed about it, but she can't do anything bec..."

it's really true it is addictive I did one cut ONCE a single cut it took me a month, I would grab anything sharp and my best friend actually confiscated my sharp objects so I can't imagine what it would've been like if I had done it repetitively it's a horrible thing.

wow, u have a good friend then.

I know. My boyfriend was a great help *sarcasm* I tell him and he shows me where my veins are, and tells me: "don't cut there"

So helpful! *sarcasm*

hahaha, nice. at least u have a bf, ill be lonely for ever. hey, and im in the perfect place to say this

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lol I have to dump him though and then I'll be BFless

why do u have to dump him?

♥Jenny♥ wrote: " isnt even a sad person. and im just wondering what she could possibly be depressed about."

I don't seem sad, do I? People get good at hiding it. They are masks. Some people can seem the most outgoing and smiley of them all, but they have issues you don't even know about.

yea, same with me. but then again, who doesnt have issues? but i no that my issues arent bad, they could be much worse.

That's true.

yyeah most people's could I just enjoy ranting people online since I honestly don't really have any secrets and I don't wanna seem sad in front f my depressed friend.

yea, whenever im going through something, i pray, and then i think that it could be worse. i could have no mother, i could have been *shudder* raped. im gonna stop now b4 i get mad at the raped part.

you have a strongg opinion on thnat I'm guessing?

i sure do. i'd love to debate with someone on the raped situation because i'd go off. ugh, *breathe in, breathe out* this stuff really makes me mad.

♥Jenny♥ wrote: "i could have been *shudder* raped"

That's a sad thing. Take comfort in knowing it doesn't happen to everyone.

GreenDaisy BlackStem wrote: "you have a strongg opinion on thnat I'm guessing?"

Most women do, it's the ultimate violation.

lol it's okay I have this fear of stupid people (Ed form ed ed and Eddy (really stupid show)) self-mutilating themselves on accident

Melzz wrote: "♥Jenny♥ wrote: "i could have been *shudder* raped"
That's a sad thing. Take comfort in knowing it doesn't happen to everyone.

GreenDaisy BlackStem wrote: "you have a strongg opinion on thnat I'..."

ugh, it is.

GreenDaisy BlackStem wrote: "lol it's okay I have this fear of stupid people (Ed form ed ed and Eddy (really stupid show)) self-mutilating themselves on accident"

*gasp* i love that show. i used to watch it all the time. but yea, he was really stupid.

Melzz wrote: "♥Jenny♥ wrote: "i could have been *shudder* raped"
That's a sad thing. Take comfort in knowing it doesn't happen to everyone.

GreenDaisy BlackStem wrote: "you have a strongg opinion on thnat I'..."


not my friends (they wouldn't like being raped) but they are really uite casual about discussing who would get raped first if for some strange almost impossible reason we were all four going to get raped

GreenDaisy BlackStem wrote: "lol it's okay I have this fear of stupid people (Ed form ed ed and Eddy (really stupid show)) self-mutilating themselves on accident"

i believe u have stultophobia

♥Jenny♥ wrote: "i sure do. i'd love to debate with someone on the raped situation because i'd go off. ugh, *breathe in, breathe out* this stuff really makes me mad."

My friend Dannie was, when she was 7. Victims react one of three ways most times. 1.) Victims become weary of touching, or trusting people. 2.)Victims get help, and therapy, and learn to put it behind them. 3.) Or they get really promiscuous, in hopes of finding someone who will love them, by starting that way.

Melzz wrote: "♥Jenny♥ wrote: "i sure do. i'd love to debate with someone on the raped situation because i'd go off. ugh, *breathe in, breathe out* this stuff really makes me mad."

My friend Dannie was, when s..."

yea, i no this girl that was raped and now she's dances all up on boys and does a lot of inappropriate things. heres the story...(i no another story)

♥Jenny♥ wrote: "GreenDaisy BlackStem wrote: "lol it's okay I have this fear of stupid people (Ed form ed ed and Eddy (really stupid show)) self-mutilating themselves on accident"

i believe u have stultophobia"


it's creepy and I don't know what's wrong with me!!!!

♥Jenny♥ wrote: "Melzz wrote: "♥Jenny♥ wrote: "i sure do. i'd love to debate with someone on the raped situation because i'd go off. ugh, *breathe in, breathe out* this stuff really makes me mad."

My friend Dannie..."


that makes me wonder if Sam was raped......

my moms friend adopted a child, and that child happened to be a boy. and in the end, he ended up raping my moms friends daughter. and i think that its wrong, because my moms friend had the decency to let him into her house and how does he repay her, by raping her child. thats wrong. she kicked him out after that. this story was pretty short (mostly bcuz i dont no all of the details)

♥Jenny♥ wrote: "my moms friend adopted a child, and that child happened to be a boy. and in the end, he ended up raping my moms friends daughter. and i think that its wrong, because my moms friend had the decency ..."


that's evil!

it is, it is. and i feel bad for the mom/girl bcuz that was totally uncalled for.

Hey, GreenDaisy, u still didnt tell me y u have to break up with ur bf.

♥Jenny♥ wrote: "Hey, GreenDaisy, u still didnt tell me y u have to break up with ur bf."

He can't accept my religion

oooo, whats ur religion? and thats a perfectly good reason to break up with him GreenDaisy.

thank you I already knew it wa sI mean there's no way aour relatioship can work if he can't even respect my beleif system

oh and I'm Pagan (still learning the ropes. A couple days ago was a Wiccan holiday and I didn't know!)

Oh. Well I'm a Christian (Baptist to be specific). Is your bf religious?

yep he's what 95% percent of the US population is religious wise- make that 99%

eh, id go with 90% because their are a lot of Agnostics and Atheists too.

true

OMG I"LL BREAK UP WITH HIM BY FORWARDED EMAIL!!!

sorry i think it's creative since it's the way we got back together