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message 1: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
I like a drink while I chat with friends, and my preference is a pint of beer and 'boisterous' chat so I head to the public bar. Please join me when you have a few minutes free. I'd like to be able to buy you a pint when you turn up but those hard-working little electrons in my laptop get upset when I try and pour it down the wires and I don't want to upset them. They don't get upset if they hear swearing, though, which is just as well...

If you want a bit more refinement cussing is not allowed in the wine bar.


message 2: by Ryan (new)

Ryan Now I feel at home!

Let me shout you a beer in thanks, Jay. I (we) really appreciate your hard work in setting up this group as well as all your efforts in editing/publishing OWAW 2014.

Cheers to you :)


message 3: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
G'day, Ryan!

BTW, thinking Oz, I don't believe any of that crap about Rolf - he remains a hero of mine. He admitted to ONE charge, where both parties were consenting. OK, in law he was at fault because of her age at the start of the relationship, but it was an enduring, loving relationship. He wasn't the first and he won't be the last. The other accusations are just 'gimme my 5 minutes of fame' saddos, as is the case for all these current law suits. How can what was acceptable forms of touching then now be tried as sexual assault? Oh, that'll be 'let me at his money' perhaps... FFS! I despair of some people and the current accepted norms.

And my view of current times? It is warping the perceptions of so many children now, that their fathers have to think twice about when and how to touch them. And parents aren't 'allowed' to photograph their young children enjoying bathtime, or do so many other natural things that are part of being a loving family. THAT is what is sick and wrong in our society.

Discuss...


message 4: by [deleted user] (new)

The sicko's are the ones that make up these stupid laws. No mother or father would think anything perverse of taking picture of their small children in the bath, or running nude on the beach! It sickens me that these so called experts can have these kinds of thoughts and no-one thinks they’re the weirdo's.
Parents are not allowed to film their kid’s plays at school anymore.
When will we be at the point where you will need to wear surgical gloves to bath or dress your baby?


message 5: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
It worries me that so many girls are now getting the subconscious message that touching is 'bad', even between family members who love each other. That is going to warp their future relationships with their own husband and children, if they ever get to have children when they've been taught to avoid intimate touching.


message 6: by [deleted user] (last edited Jul 09, 2014 06:28PM) (new)

Me too. There is enough out in the big bad world for them to worry about. Soon we will all be having counseling just so we can try and have a normal life, with normal relationships.

P.S mine's a vodka :)


message 7: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Just shouted them up.
Cheers!


message 8: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) Any thoughts about eventually dividing the 'novels' library into general genres? When we get a lot of books, it might be easier to plow through them that way.

Or we could revert to the Dewey Decimal System (yes, I remember using that!)


message 9: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
I have thought about it, and can't decide whether it's better to go straight to the very specific types of novel you always read, or whether members might make some good discoveries during the search. I think it is probably the case that many people restrict their reading far too much, purely out of habit.


message 10: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) True, I thought about that too - I'm just thinking that the thread might (eventually) get unwieldy, especially for new members - those of us who are keeping up on it won't have an issue, but imagine trying to plow through several hundred novels of various different genres. I suppose there could just be multiple Library threads, like Novel 1, Novel 2, etc. Optimistic, eh?


message 11: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
So what shelves would you like to see? It needs to be fairly simple, or it gets too onerous for me as a moderator, and it gets too restrictive with members whose horizons should be a tad wider.


message 12: by [deleted user] (last edited Jul 12, 2014 06:45AM) (new)

Just an idea, maybe you could just have minimal categories, one for 18+ (for your horror & Erotica) one for non-fiction, and one for everything else? Not sure what would be best, but I know there are a lot of people who don't like Horror and Erotica/ others who don't like non-fiction.


message 13: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
We already have shelves for fiction, short stories, poetry and non-fiction. My reluctance to sub-divide fiction comes from my awareness that people don't like change, of the 'I read this genre and won't even consider any other' type. I don't want to see some very good books ignored just because the shelf they are on is never visited. I rather like the idea of discovering something of interest purely by scanning through the fiction on offer and being attracted by a cover, a blurb, whatever. I've read some cracking books in the last couple of years that I never would have found if I was relying on my own 'normal' search criteria.

There is another factor to consider; have you looked recently at the number of options listed when publishing a book? There's no way I could replicate that, but if I start to sub-divide how can I refuse to start yet another sub-division if a member asks for it?


message 14: by [deleted user] (new)

I see your point! It could get messy.


message 15: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Sometimes simple is best. And if this group is to survive I need to keep it very simple for me; a selfish viewpoint, maybe, but the choices are 'simple' or 'nothing'. I tried 'complicated' as mod of the Review Group and it all just got too much.


message 16: by [deleted user] (new)

I agree, one thing you don't want is for it too get out of hand. :)


message 17: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) I would suggest starting a new 'novels' thread when a thread has 50 books listed in it. I think that would divide it into bite-sized chunks.


message 18: by Jay (last edited Jul 12, 2014 04:32PM) (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
You mean Novels 1 - 1-50, Novels 2 - 51-100, that sort of thing? So you'd know after you'd been through the 1-50 list you could go to the next set and not have to see (again) the ones you'd already been through. Is that what you mean? Because that would work fine for me if it would also help the members.

Would you like the bookshelves to match, or keep that just as novels?


message 19: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) Yep, that's what I meant! I'm not sure about the bookshelves. I actually think they could just be kept as-is. I'm just thinking of a new member joining the group and seeing a 200+-long thread of novels - might be a bit less overwhelming if it was smaller chunks. Same for any other threads that reach an unwieldy length, too. I thought this might not require too much input or sorting from the moderator(s).


message 20: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
OK, no problem with that. I'm all for an easy life - one day I'll suss out how to achieve that lol!


message 21: by [deleted user] (new)

LOL, I wish I could. I now have 9 books I have promised to read and review. Why do I do this to myself! I keep saying I'll just agree to one at a time, then I can do some of my own work in between, but no, I just can't say NO.


message 22: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Know that feeling well... That's why I've had to pull back a bit from things, just to give myself breathing space to catch up on all the other tasks before I get back to my novel. Getting there, though - provided I don't look at the Library I should be fine...


message 23: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Hello, all!

Although a member of this group, I haven't had an opportunity to get fully acclimated yet. Even so, I just shared some news with Jay. She suggested that I pop on over here to share it with you all--over a virtual drink. I think I'll make mine a double. You see, I learned just last night that my debut epic fantasy novel, Oathtaker, was named a finalist in four categories of the 2014 Readers' Favorite International Book Award Contest. (So, does that mean I should make my virtual drink a quadruple?) It is listed in the following categories: Fiction Fantasy; YA Fantasy; Fiction Adventure and Fiction Intrigue.

Whoa. Actually, as I'm extra-busy at work just now, I'll let you all imbibe for me. What do you say?


message 24: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Tell you what, Trish - you have 2 of them and I'll have the other 2. Cheers and congratulations!!


message 25: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Jay wrote: "Tell you what, Trish - you have 2 of them and I'll have the other 2. Cheers and congratulations!!"

That works for me, Jay!

Cheers! --And thank you!


message 26: by Mark (new)

Mark Bell (dingbell) | 17 comments Congratulations!


message 27: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) Yay! Nice!


message 28: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Mark wrote: "Congratulations!"

Thank you, Mark. What are you drinking there? I feel the next one should be on me!


message 29: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments K.A. wrote: "Yay! Nice!"

Thank you, K.A. It is pretty exciting.

You need a refill?


message 30: by Ryan (last edited Jul 15, 2014 08:10PM) (new)

Ryan Patricia wrote: "Hello, all!

Although a member of this group, I haven't had an opportunity to get fully acclimated yet. Even so, I just shared some news with Jay. She suggested that I pop on over here to share it..."


Fantastic! Any one of those four categories would be a great achievement but to be nominated in all four - outstanding. Enjoy the high, Trish. Please let us know the end result once you find out. Cheers to you :)


message 31: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Ryan wrote: "Patricia wrote: "Hello, all!

Although a member of this group, I haven't had an opportunity to get fully acclimated yet. Even so, I just shared some news with Jay. She suggested that I pop on over..."


Thank you, Ryan. That is wonderful of you to say!

Don't let your glass run dry, now!


message 32: by Ryan (new)

Ryan Hah! No fear of that ;)

I'm just going to hunt down a copy. Is it on the apple store or just Amazon?


message 33: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Came across this today and it made me giggle:

The British expression 'cock-up' isn't commonly used in the USA, where it is generally assumed to have a vulgar meaning. What they might make of Robert Burns' poem, which took the name of the old Scottish rhyme 'Cock up your beaver', is best left to the imagination.

(that's definitely one thing Trish didn't do - now the rest of us have just got to try and catch up)


message 34: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) This may require a trip to the ol' search engine...but then, I don't want to get spam based on those search terms! Perhaps you could explain!??


message 35: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
OK, here you go:

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/co...

*chortle*

It's just like the expression 'going balls out' - also often assumed to be offensive, yet actually referring to steam engines and the balls of the centrifugal governors - the faster the engine runs, the further out the balls spin; if the balls are 'out' the engine is working as hard as it can.


message 36: by K.A. (new)

K.A. Krisko (kakrisko) Aha! Very interesting - and I'm of course familiar with other uses of the term 'cock', including cocking a gun, cocking one's hat, and even 'cocking a snook'!

I was not familiar with the centrifugal engine explanation - how interesting! Common use here is 'balls to the wall', which also makes sense in that context.


message 37: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Ryan wrote: "Hah! No fear of that ;)

I'm just going to hunt down a copy. Is it on the apple store or just Amazon?"


Hi Ryan. I apologize for my delay. It it on Amazon and Barnes and Noble. I suppose I should look into the apple store, huh?


message 38: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Jay wrote: "OK, here you go:

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/co...

*chortle*

It's just like the expression 'going balls out' - also often assumed to be offensive, yet actually referring to steam e..."


This is very funny! Thanx for sharing . . .


message 39: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Ryan wrote: "Hah! No fear of that ;)

I'm just going to hunt down a copy. Is it on the apple store or just Amazon?"


Btw, Ryan - I like your bio. What do you find when looking down those rabbit holes?


message 40: by Ryan (last edited Jul 18, 2014 03:00PM) (new)

Ryan Mostly just rabbits. But I'm hopeful...

Thank you for the info, I'll grab a copy of your book shortly. It sounds like just the type of story I like.

As for the Apple store, sometimes it seems like I'm the only person who uses it when I mention it to people. I love it though, it works well for me and my ipad addiction ;)


message 41: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
I find Apple hard to navigate and find what I want when it comes to books; it feels like they're continually trying to divert me into buying apps etc. I loathe coercion, however subtle, and their system definitely ain't subtle.


message 42: by Ryan (new)

Ryan Do you use the iBookstore from within the ibooks reader itself, Jay? It sounds like you're talking about the iTunes Store rather than the bookstore you access from the top left of the reader. It is simplicity itself with nothing but books divided into all the usual categories plus great collections like 'music bios', 'latest release', '10 books everyone should read', 'classics', etc. there isn't an app in sight (or in site!). I find it leaves amazon for dead as far as ease of use, categories, etc.


message 43: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Ryan wrote: "Mostly just rabbits. But I'm hopeful...

Thank you for the info, I'll grab a copy of your book shortly. It sounds like just the type of story I like.

As for the Apple store, sometimes it seems lik..."


I am Apple all the way--except for books. I was one of the first to have an iPad -- it's magic, you know . . . but for reading, I use other apps. And I use my Mac desktop (which I call my Big Mac) for writing . . .


message 44: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Ryan wrote: "Do you use the iBookstore from within the ibooks reader itself, Jay? It sounds like you're talking about the iTunes Store rather than the bookstore you access from the top left of the reader. It i..."

Very possibly - I've only ventured there, wherever there was, twice and felt lost each time.


message 45: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Elizabeth wrote: "I need a drink..."

I think I just heard Joe, the bartender, asking if there was something on your mind . . .


message 46: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Yeah, the next order - ale for me, please.


message 47: by Patricia (new)

Patricia Reding | 19 comments Hey, Jay! How are you?


message 48: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Fine, thanks - just got all my home jobs done this morning so the rest of the w/e is relaxation :)

How's life for you?


message 49: by Jay (new)

Jay Howard (jay_howard) | 169 comments Mod
Hey, if you want a good giggle, make sure you've had your own fair share of alcohol when you watch this (she's had a bottle of wine and it's hilarious!).

http://justsomething.co/husband-anima...


message 50: by [deleted user] (new)

I need a drink and a good laugh! Day 25 on the rig, the dreaded fog, and had loads of problems with the internet! I'm buying, triples anyone?


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