Reader with a Cause discussion

In the chapter “Are You My Mentor?” Sandberg focuses upon the important role that mentors often play in shaping the careers of young workers as they look to break into the workforce. She believes in the power of mentors, but she advises against the way in which women often seek out their mentors. Sandberg suggests that we need to stop telling young women, “Get a mentor, and you will excel,” instead we should tell them “Excel, and you will get a mentor.”

What role have mentors played in your career? Did you actively seek a mentor or did you find a mentor after you were already well established in your career? What do you think is the best way to get a mentor?

I have found mentors throughout my life - some of them knew they were important to me, some of them spent tine with me, and some of them I watched carefully from afar - taking note of how they navigated challenges and successes. I agree with Sheryl about not waiting for a mentor, though I differ in that I think some of my most influencial mentors didn't realize I was raptly taking notes from a distance nor did they invest time in me. I also believe we all mentor and mentee all of the time - I am constantly learning from superstar peers and those I officially supervise. I believe we all gain skills from each other when we watch, listen, & replicate (or sometimes we learn from NOT replicating :-)