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https://www.nytimes.com/2013/09/18/bo...
And one of my favorite photos of Mississippi-born, Stanford-educated, Ms. Ward.
https://static01.nyt.com/images/2013/...


In the Prologue, she mentions going backward and forward in time, and I'm anxious to see how she puts this together. She says telling the story is the hardest thing she's ever done. I believe it.

I read this book several years ago and I hope you like it as much as I did.
It was a 5 star read for me.

Beverly and Electra: did you love it from page one, or did your appreciation grow after you finished it, or something in between?

Beverly and Electra: did you love it from page one, or did your appreciation grow after you finished it, or something in between?"
That is a hard question for me to answer as I read this book in 2014.
But if I had to guess - it was probably early on as I remember thinking while reading it - it read like a novel so had to remember this was NF.
One of the things I like about her writing is the powerful sense of place.
Here are a couple of youtube videos where Jesmyn Ward is reading from book or talking about it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjqNA...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTe2X...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xgLKW...



Beverly and Electra: did you love it from page one, or did your appreciation grow after you finished it, or something in b..."
These links are great and thanks for sharing them. I’ve watched one and am saving the others to space them out and reward myself.

I guess because she is writing like a novelist, it feels like she lays things out without giving us neat conclusions. She lets us come to them ourselves. And that sort of lets her pack more in. After just this one chapter, my head is spinning with the contrast of California versus Mississippi, family dynamics, sibling love, and varieties of violence.



My husband is from Mississippi and he misses it daily, although he isn’t wanting to move back. My impression is that of all Southern states, Mississippians possess an intense sense of connection to place, home, the past and that sense of belonging exists nowhere else for them. If they leave, there’s a hole in their hearts. If they return or stay, reminders of the past are all around.
That image, when Jesmyn came home from Stanford on break and curled up in bed with her sister and cried, struck me as indicating how much she missed Delisle, her people, her friends, even as she knew to take advantage of the educational opportunities she had earned...
Just so sad.

I agree about the scene with her sister. So many gut punch scenes in here. I wish it was a novel. It's hard, but she makes you feel this real pain with her. By taking us back through her childhood we see these boys as their peers saw them, and that makes us feel the dread and hopelessness too.
The CJ chapter really got to me.

It's my first book of hers, but from this I have to say I like her style--the simple, honesty of it, with all that emotion underneath.
How are you doing with it, Carol?

I’m just under 100 pages in. I love her writing style. I am impressed that the manner in which she organizes and presents her story is so effective and probably more effective and more interesting for me than if she’d penned a standard chronological narrative.
I’m managing the sadness, OTOH, by managing my reading, eg putting it aside for a couple of days, then reading two chapters, rinse, lather, repeat. That’s not really an ideal reading experience.
My question for others who have read Ward’s several books is, is this overwhelming sadness a constant or is this memoir more intense because of its innately personal nature?
We saw the lightning and that was the guns; and then we heard the thunder and that was the big guns; and then we heard the rain falling and that was the blood falling; and when we came to get the crops, it was dead men that we reaped.
If you’re of a mind to join us, please do.
Any takers?