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message 1: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments The mods were approached with a proposal for a special event. She was so excited about the idea that we decided to let her run with it. She calls it "Speed Dating".

But where could we put this? We don't have a section for Special Events. It's not a challenge. It's not a toppler... a buddy read... a group read. But, we will be chit chatting about books (our dates) so we thought this folder would be the best.

It's my pleasure to introduce our Master of Ceremonies, Thing Two! Tell us all about Speed Dating!


message 2: by Thing Two (last edited Aug 29, 2014 05:07AM) (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) Book Speed Dating #1 photo stacks_zps7f13cdf6.jpg
*this is the brainchild of Goodreads member Jenny (Reading Envy)

SPEED DATING? Yup, it’s just what you’re thinking. You don’t have to actually commit to the book(s) for this game, and are free to move on when you come across a real dud.

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Look through your house and collect a stack of books you have been meaning to read; the ones collecting dust on your shelves; the ones your grandmother said “Honey, you’ll just love this one!” way back in 1984. We’re going to help you get them off of your shelves!

Any book is eligible, providing you own a copy of the book, audio, or e-book. Sorry, library books will not work this time. We’re looking for books lying around the house. The ones under your bed, inside the closet, leveling out the Christmas tree stand every year. (Wait, people do that with books?!?!)

Read fifty pages of each book you select. If you hate it, discard it. If you like it, save it for later (it might show up as a bonus part in next month’s challenge if the stars align properly). If you read fifty pages of four bad books, you’ll make room for four new books! Of course, you may read as many or as few fifty-page segments as you’d like, but you must read fifty pages of at least one book to participate.

For E-books: use the actual page number, not the location or percent finished to calculate.

For audio books: listen for fifty minutes, or – if you can figure it out – until you reach page fifty in the actual book.

We’re on an honor system here, friends. Make sure you’re clearing books off of your own shelves, not someone else’s.

General Rules:

1. The book(s) may be in any format - paperback, e-book, audiobook, etc.
2. The book(s) may be in any genre.
3. The book(s) may be combined with any challenge or group read. (of course, if you don’t like the book, it makes it hard to finish the challenge …)
4. The book(s) must be read between September 1 and September 30 12:00 midnight September 7 and 11:59 pm September 27 (based on your own time zone).
5. Book pre-selection is not a requirement.

How you rack up points:

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Your post in the reporting thread should have your scores from below.

Length of time the book(s) languished on your Goodreads shelf (count for each book):
5 pts. – before September 2010 (four years)
4 pts. – before September 2011 (three years)
3 pts. – before September 2013 (one year)
2 pts. – before August 2014 (one month)
1 pt. – I listed it on Goodreads just for this challenge.

Pages (total number of 50-page segments read for this challenge. Include of the books you liked and the ones you disliked):
5 pts. – 500 or more
4 pts. - 400 - 499 pages
3 pts. - 300 - 399 pages
2 pts. - 200 - 299 pages
1 pt. - 100 – 199 pages

Book Destination (or where are the duds going next?):
5 pts. – I donated my book(s) to a retirement home, nursing home, or someplace similar*
4 pts. – I sold my book(s) at a yard sale*
3 pts. – I dropped my book(s) off at a used book store*
2 pts. – I gave my book(s) to a friend or family member*
1 pt. – I threw my book(s) in the garbage (It was/They were really bad!)
0 pt. – I returned it to the library (We told you library books wouldn’t work!)

*10 point bonus for photographic evidence of any one option. You and your books must be in the photo, and the photo must be posted by end of challenge.

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Bonus Points:
1 pt. – Pull out your measuring tape. You earn a point for every centimeter of actual space you cleared off of your book shelf. (E-books will not help you here. Sorry!)


message 3: by Almeta (last edited Sep 08, 2014 05:52AM) (new)

Almeta (menfrommarrs) | 11539 comments Hah! I got this! Guess Who I've been dating?☻


Tomorrow's Crimes 14 May 2012
Put A Lid On It 14 May 2012
What's The Worst That Could Happen? 6 Jan 2011
Don't Ask (Dortmunder, #8) 6 Jan 2011
The Hook 6 Jan 2011
A Likely Story 4 May 2012
Kahawa 6 Jan 2011
Humans 6 Jan 2011
High Adventure 14 May 2012

All pulled from one dusty spot!

WestlakePile photo Westlake.jpg


message 4: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Did you sneeze Almeta? LOL!

You said, Guess Who I've been dating? Don't Ask.

Sure, Almeta, that's A Likely Story. Sheesh, Humans!!! Well, enjoy your High Adventure, and don't dare tell me to Put A Lid On It.

What's the Worst That Could Happen?, you ask? Well that's The Hook. It will be Tomorrow's Crimes.

Love, Kahawa aka Donald E. Westlake.


message 5: by Cherie (new)

Cherie (crobins0) | 21509 comments I think Travis told me that at normal speed, listening to a book for an hour is about 30 pages, so you may need 1.5 hrs for 50 pages. I have found it to be pretty accurate.


message 6: by Almeta (last edited Aug 28, 2014 07:52PM) (new)

Almeta (menfrommarrs) | 11539 comments Janice wrote: "Did you sneeze Almeta? LOL!

..."


You got all nine titles in. Hey, that worked out well!

Except I'm sure Philip Levine is a very nice man (Don't Ask) but I need to be faithful with Don't Ask by Donald (er a.k.a. Richard Stark, er Alan Marshall or Alan Marsh, er James Blue, I mean Ben Christopher, or is it John Dexter, er Andrew Shaw, er Edwin West, um John B. Allan, no Don Holliday, Curt Clark, P.N. Castor, Timothy J. Culver, J. Morgan Cunningham, Samuel Holt, Judson Jack Carmichael, I mean Tucker Coe!!)


message 7: by Cherie (new)

Cherie (crobins0) | 21509 comments Janice wrote: "Did you sneeze Almeta? LOL!

You said, Guess Who I've been dating? Don't Ask.

Sure, Almeta, that's A Likely Story. Sheesh, Humans!!! Well, enjoy your..."


Love it, Janice! What a great story!


message 8: by Cherie (new)

Cherie (crobins0) | 21509 comments Wow, I need to go through my lists for the ones I own. I will get back to you, Thing Two.


message 9: by Janice, Moderator (last edited Aug 28, 2014 07:37PM) (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Hmmm... just looking at my GR's shelves, there are a few that I will probably never read:

Dreaming the Eagle
The Ninth Orphan
The Mantra
The Chosen Soul
What the Body Remembers
The Danger (??? this title/author looks unfamiliar, and it says it's an actual book, on my actual book shelf - must go hunting)

My issue is that I'm a slow poke and 50 pages is an investment.

Question - can I combine pages from 2 or more books to make up the 50?


message 10: by Almeta (last edited Aug 28, 2014 07:45PM) (new)

Almeta (menfrommarrs) | 11539 comments Cherie wrote: "I think Travis told me that at normal speed, listening to a book for an hour is about 30 pages, so you may need 1.5 hrs for 50 pages. I have found it to be pretty accurate."

I use this formula also.

It especially helped me when planning the last week long Toppler. Basically telling me if I were to finish all of my grand plans, I would only get something like 4 hours of sleep! ;D


message 11: by Thing Two (last edited Aug 28, 2014 07:50PM) (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) LOL! I love the response with all of Almeta's titles. Very creative! Too bad there aren't points for that.

Now, if as to your question about combining books the answer is ... NO! (Wow! Being a meanie is kinda fun!) You must read fifty pages of one book before you may move on to the next. Arbitrary, yes, but that's what I went with.


message 12: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Almeta wrote: "Janice wrote: "Did you sneeze Almeta? LOL!..."

Oops, I don't want to encourage any Infidelity.


message 13: by Almeta (new)

Almeta (menfrommarrs) | 11539 comments Janice wrote: "Hmmm... just looking at my GR's shelves, there are a few that I will probably never read:
...
The Danger (??? this title/author looks unfamiliar, and it says it's an actual book, on my actual book shelf - must go hunting)..."


Never heard of the others. But I have a whole shelf full of Dick Francis. Learned a lot of useless (to me) stuff about horse racing.


message 14: by Thing Two (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) Almeta wrote: "Janice wrote: "Did you sneeze Almeta? LOL!

..."

You got all nine titles in. Hey, that worked out well!

Except I'm sure Philip Levine is a very nice man ([book:Don't Ask|320514..."


I want that dud! Planning a trip to Orlando next month? You know, September is the BEST time to visit Disney. :)


message 15: by Thing Two (last edited Sep 03, 2014 05:47PM) (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) My stack includes:


Running To Paradise Jun, 2013 - 3pts,
18 Billion Nov, 2012 - 3 pts.
Luther: Biography of a Reformer Nov, 2012 - 3 pts.
MotherKind May, 2013 - 3 pts.
The Marriage of the Sea: A Novel Nov, 2011 - 3 pts.
The Blithedale Romance Oct, 2012 - 3 pts.
A Short History of Tractors in Ukrainian Dec, 2013 - 2 pts.
Portrait of the Mother as a Young Woman Feb, 2012 3 pts.
The Friday Night Knitting Club - Nov, 2012 3 pts.
Opportunity - May, 2012 3 pts.
Mission Rejected: U.S. Soldiers Who Say No to Iraq - May, 2012 3 pts.
Extravagance - Sept, 2012 3 pts.
A Gentleman's Guide to Graceful Living May, 2013 3 pts.
Bordeaux - Oct, 2013 2 pts.
The View from Stalin's Head - May, 2012 3pts.
The Bird of Night - May, 2013 3 pts.

Can you write a story with those titles Janice?


message 16: by Almeta (last edited Aug 28, 2014 07:59PM) (new)

Almeta (menfrommarrs) | 11539 comments Janice wrote: "Almeta wrote: "Janice wrote: "Did you sneeze Almeta? LOL!..."

Oops, I don't want to encourage any Infidelity."


Get Real.

What's So Funny?.


message 17: by Mariab (new)

Mariab | 3030 comments This is a challenge that challenges my "crow" disposition. I hover over my books, I treasure them (all of them). *mean crow eyes*


message 18: by Rusalka, Moderator (new)

Rusalka (rusalkii) | 19277 comments Mariab wrote: "This is a challenge that challenges my "crow" disposition. I hover over my books, I treasure them (all of them). *mean crow eyes*"

LOL agree. Who on earth gets rid of books? I mean, they have to be god awful to not stay on my shelf! ... That may explain my current predicament.

I'm sure I can dig up one or two I'm iffy about for this though.


message 19: by Camilla (new)

Camilla | 2118 comments Question: do we have to commit ourselves to specific books before we begin, or are we allowed to just report them at the end of the month? The reason why I'm asking this is that I have tons of library books (I know, I know, they are not eligible) that I must read before I have to return them, so it's a bit difficult to know beforehand how many books I'm able to fit in (at least the buddy challenge book).


message 20: by Peggy (new)

Peggy (pebbles84) | 15795 comments What a fun idea Thing Two!


message 21: by Debra (new)

Debra (debra_t) | 6542 comments Janice, you are so clever including all of Almeta's books in your post.

This is an interesting challenge. I have tons of books stacked up on my dresser in my bedroom I need to get to reading, or just get rid of.

I can think of one that is daunting: Infinite Jest.


message 22: by Sarah (new)

Sarah | 18519 comments Interesting idea! I need to get through the real books on my book shelves as it would be great to be able to pass them on afterwards and make some space as we may have a house move in not the too distant future. The first five are actual books:
- The Secret Life of Bees
- Bellman & Black
- The Gargoyle
- The Invention of Wings
- A God in Every Stone
These are ebooks which have been on my kindle the longest and I keep putting off:
- Perfect People
- The Keeper of the Stones
- Dreams Unleashed
- Brave New World
- 1st to Die

I'm not expecting to read 50 pages from each of these 10 but I just wanted to list the ones that I'd like to sample before committing to!


message 23: by Debra (new)

Debra (debra_t) | 6542 comments The Secret Life of Bees is very good, Sarah. I'm sure you will enjoy it.


message 24: by Sarah (new)

Sarah | 18519 comments Debra wrote: "The Secret Life of Bees is very good, Sarah. I'm sure you will enjoy it."

Many people have said that but I've also had people say it's a bit over hyped and nothing special which has put me off. Same with her other book I have on my list. Speed dating them will be good as 50 pages gives a good enough idea of what the book is going to be like. However, I'm hoping I don't end up with 10 books on the go at once!


message 25: by Lisa (new)

Lisa (lisathebooklover) | 9225 comments This sounds like a fun idea! However, if I start a book I always finish it, no matter how bad it is, which probably defeats the object of this challenge.


message 26: by Camilla (new)

Camilla | 2118 comments Lisa wrote: "This sounds like a fun idea! However, if I start a book I always finish it, no matter how bad it is, which probably defeats the object of this challenge."

I'm mostly like this too. Only very few books get abandoned by me and those usually require only 20 pages max for me to decide if I will stop reading them. I think I've abandoned only one book this year (The Roar) and that was a library book, not my own. I think I read less than 10 pages before deciding it wasn't for me.

I'm a bit afraid - like Sarah - that I end up with half a dozen books started, since I will want to finish them anyway.


message 27: by Sarah (new)

Sarah | 18519 comments Camilla wrote: "I'm a bit afraid - like Sarah - that I end up with half a dozen books started, since I will want to finish them anyway."

That's it! If they all end up being keepers then I'll be snowed under (and indecisive about which one to read first to finish it).


message 28: by Rusalka, Moderator (last edited Aug 29, 2014 03:46AM) (new)

Rusalka (rusalkii) | 19277 comments I have a question. With the photo, is part of my body okay? Or you wanting a face?

I just don't put photos of me on goodreads (or even obviously my real name).


message 29: by Thing Two (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) Rusalka wrote: "Mariab wrote: "This is a challenge that challenges my "crow" disposition. I hover over my books, I treasure them (all of them). *mean crow eyes*"

LOL agree. Who on earth gets rid of books? I mean,..."


I rarely, rarely, rarely don't finish the book I start. Consequently, I have a few I'm hesitant to even pick up because I'm fairly sure I'll hate them. I've selected the five lowest rated books from the ones I own. Maybe I'll love them all, but this gives me the motivation to pick them up, at least.


message 30: by Thing Two (last edited Aug 29, 2014 04:51AM) (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) Camilla wrote: "Question: do we have to commit ourselves to specific books before we begin, or are we allowed to just report them at the end of the month? The reason why I'm asking this is that I have tons of libr..."

Absolutely no pre-selection required. (I'll add that to the rules.)

Also, I've adjusted the reading period, at the request of the moderators. They want this to run for a three week period.


message 31: by Thing Two (last edited Aug 29, 2014 04:56AM) (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) Rusalka wrote: "I have a question. With the photo, is part of my body okay? Or you wanting a face?

I just don't put photos of me on goodreads (or even obviously my real name)."


Enough of your body for to identify it as you. Do you have "Rusalka" tattooed on your forearm, perhaps?

Rusalka, I went back and read the rule, and it doesn't specify anything other than "you", so I'm amending what I just said. "You" is pretty vague. However, if you do have a "Rusalka" tattoo, I expect to see it!


message 32: by Rusalka, Moderator (last edited Aug 29, 2014 04:57AM) (new)

Rusalka (rusalkii) | 19277 comments No, unfortunately don't have any dead maidens lying in ponds tattooed on me. I may have to have a hard think about that particular life choice ;)


message 33: by Ava Catherine (last edited Aug 29, 2014 05:59AM) (new)

Ava Catherine | 4257 comments I'm in! What a hoot! : ) I have so many actual books that will qualify for this challenge, but I need to dig them out of their hiding places. I shall return with a list. I love this idea!


message 34: by Ava Catherine (new)

Ava Catherine | 4257 comments Thing Two wrote: "Rusalka wrote: "Mariab wrote: "This is a challenge that challenges my "crow" disposition. I hover over my books, I treasure them (all of them). *mean crow eyes*"

LOL agree. Who on earth gets rid o..."



Now, that is the exact problem I have, too. I almost always finish a book no matter how terrible it is, but at least I'll know if I am engrossed enough to go back and continue the book after 50 pages or let it go.


message 35: by Ava Catherine (last edited Aug 29, 2014 06:18AM) (new)

Ava Catherine | 4257 comments Rusalka wrote: "Mariab wrote: "This is a challenge that challenges my "crow" disposition. I hover over my books, I treasure them (all of them). *mean crow eyes*"

LOL agree. Who on earth gets rid of books? I mean,..."


Rusalka, I have donated boxes full of books to Goodwill just this month because I have run out of room to keep all my books. I just could not see keeping books that someone else might enjoy when I had so many that I could not even shelve them all. What good would they do me in boxes? It broke my heart, but then I thought of all the joy other people would get from them and felt better.


message 36: by Rusalka, Moderator (new)

Rusalka (rusalkii) | 19277 comments Completely fair enough. And we do give away a lot of our books, either to charity or to secondhand shops.

I just agree with Mariab. An event that rewards me for getting rid of books does go against my normal programming a bit. Books to me are a relationship is my default, and as I said before, have to be pretty god awful for me to get rid of.

You should hear what I used to say about librarians!

But all this aside, I said I had a few books we could play around with for this event, which I am unsure about.


message 37: by Sarah (new)

Sarah | 18519 comments I just need to make sure I can fit this in what with a buddy read,a group read and a challenge read. Then there's the chunksters! Can we combine? Although, for the challenges etc. I will be wanting to finish the book and not just read 50 pages.


message 38: by Ava Catherine (new)

Ava Catherine | 4257 comments Sometimes I find myself furiously scrounging through my books trying to find a book I know I have, only to realize that I have just donated it to charity. Then I have the insufferable dilemma of having to buy another copy of the book!
That is when I want to bang my head against the wall!


message 39: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Thing Two wrote: "LOL! I love the response with all of Almeta's titles. Very creative! Too bad there aren't points for that.

Now, if as to your question about combining books the answer is ... NO! (Wow! Being a me..."


I must have missed your response. Dang! This is going to be a tough one for me. I'll see what I can do, and how I'll fit this in.


message 40: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Almeta wrote: "Never heard of the others. But I have a whole shelf full of Dick Francis. Learned a lot of useless (to me) stuff about horse racing...."

Now I remember. My dad gave me this when I was visiting in the spring.


message 41: by Rusalka, Moderator (new)

Rusalka (rusalkii) | 19277 comments Connie wrote: "Sometimes I find myself furiously scrounging through my books trying to find a book I know I have, only to realize that I have just donated it to charity. Then I have the insufferable dilemma of ha..."

HAH! At least you have given it away! I have found out after sorting our books, that Lexx has a horrible habit of buying books he already owns as he is confused about what he needs. We have 3, yes THREE, copies of Obernewtyn just as an example. He can't choose which one (I started with one) he wants to give away/sell.


message 42: by Thing Two (new)

Thing Two (thingtwo) Yes. I always want to combine. It drives me nuts that the year-long challenges and the monthly challenges are so exclusionary (there's my plug to eliminate the exclusions!), so I have no problem if you want to combine anything and everything!

After clearing out boxes and boxes of books from my grandmother's house, and being the beneficiary of some very musty old books from my parent's bookshelves (they seem to forget that I'm allergic to mold and dust!) I changed my book storing policy. I rarely - if ever - go back and re-read a book, so my new-this-generation rule is that I'm only keeping my five-star books. If I'm done with a book, I pass it on. I figure once I loose my mind, I'll appreciate all of the good books I've forgotten I've already read. Who wants to re-read an average book?


message 43: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Thing Two wrote: "Can you write a story with those titles Janice? "

Not at 8:00 in the morning, with a short amount of time and no coffee in me. LOL! Maybe later.


message 44: by Rusalka, Moderator (new)

Rusalka (rusalkii) | 19277 comments Oh I agree on re-reading. I don't really re-read. Our bookshelves are revolving doors though for friends and family. I tend to keep most of my owned books, as 95% of the time, we'll know someone who will love it, even if I didn't. Then it gets lent or gifted. And if not, when we feel we need, we do a larger purge at once.

That reminds me. I need a book back off my mother in law. But I remember that means she wants to borrow 5 more... dammit.


message 45: by Janice, Moderator (new)

Janice (jamasc) | 60661 comments Sarah wrote: "I just need to make sure I can fit this in what with a buddy read,a group read and a challenge read. Then there's the chunksters! Can we combine? Although, for the challenges etc. I will be wantin..."

Yes, with a condition If you want to finish the read for next month's challenge, you will need to re-start the book, because of the way challenges are structured. I already have next month's challenge figured out. Topplers too have finite dates, so you may end up re-starting a book for that too. But group reads, chunkster challenges - have at em.


message 46: by Sarah (new)

Sarah | 18519 comments Thanks for clarifying Janice - that makes sense! I don't want to have to re-read so I will keep that in mind when choosing a book. I might only choose one for this event as I don't want to end up with loads of books started.


message 47: by Emily (last edited Aug 29, 2014 10:34AM) (new)

Emily (emilserv) | 489 comments Thing Two wrote: "I rarely, rarely, rarely don't finish the book I start. Consequently, I have a few I'm hesitant to even pick up..."

Like you, I usually finish my books so this challenge makes me a bit nervous. I do like your idea of selecting the lowest rated books. I looked at my own shelf and selected a few of the books that I own where the average rating is under 3.5. My potential duds are

The Mathematics Of Love - added Jan 2011, which is when I first joined GR
Mr. Darcy's Daughters - added Jan 2011
The Dante Club - added Jan 2011
The Pilot's Wife - added Jan 2011
Salmon Fishing in the Yemen - added Jun 2013
A Day No Pigs Would Die - added Jan 2011 (although at 50 pages I'll be 1/3 of the way)
The City of Falling Angels - added Jan 2011

I think that I've had some of these for at least 10 years. Sadly, I think that most of these were gifts where I didn't select the book.


message 48: by Camilla (new)

Camilla | 2118 comments I think I'll try some of the books that are under 300 pages. That way, since I most likely will end up reading them, I will not have too much to complete after the dating period.


message 49: by Cherie (new)

Cherie (crobins0) | 21509 comments Emily - I am interested in what you have to say about The City of Falling Angels. I really liked his first book. Did you readMidnight in the Garden of Good and Evil?


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Cherie (crobins0) | 21509 comments Sarah wrote: "Debra wrote: "The Secret Life of Bees is very good, Sarah. I'm sure you will enjoy it."

Many people have said that but I've also had people say it's a bit over hyped and nothing special which has ..."


I have not read The Invention of Wings, but I did read The Secret Life of Bees and liked it. I also read The Mermaid Chair. Of the two, I liked TSLoBs better. She is a little "wordy" but she writes interesting stories - not really mysteries, but things with a twist and a kind of magical symbolism.


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