All About Books discussion

109 views
Reads & Challenges Archive > dely's personal challenges 2015

Comments Showing 1-50 of 61 (61 new)    post a comment »
« previous 1

message 1: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments My challenges are, like also Laurel said, reading plans more than real challenges. I don't want to force myself to read as many books as possible and I prefer to follow the mood of the moment. Reading must be a pleasure, not a stress!

But there are these challenges that I'm carrying on sice a couple of years so I want to continue them.


message 4: by dely (last edited Oct 08, 2015 01:39PM) (new)

dely | 5214 comments Started this challenge last year. Seen that I'm reading The Novel Cure: From Abandonment to Zestlessness: 751 Books to Cure What Ails You I want to try this "cure" for my diseases. I'm curious to see if the right book can really help. Of course now you will have a psychological profile of me but it's not a problem.
I start with the diseases that start with the A. I'm reading the book in Italian so if you see "low self-esteem" it's because in Italian the word starts with the A.


The Novel Cure

A
agoraphobia: The Woman in the Dunes
anxiety: The Portrait of a Lady
apathy: The Postman Always Rings Twice
ambition, lack of: The Crimson Petal and the White
fall out of love: 1Q84
low self-esteem: The Shipping News and Rebecca

bonus: Autonauts of the Cosmoroute (I don't have this disease but I liked the plot).


2014:

apathy: The Postman Always Rings Twice by James M. Cain
This book was recommended for who suffers of apathy. To tell the truth I'm not apathetic, I'm perhaps idle but there is nothing wrong in idleness. With this book an apathetic should receive some adrenaline to "wake up" but I don't think it helps. Reading about the adventurous and dangerous life of the two main characters I would be glad to be apathetic at least my life is save!

anxiety: The Portrait of a Lady by Henry James
This book is suggested for anxious people (I am). It was really a relaxing read (sometimes boring) but it was as if I was walking in the English meadows or among Roman ruins and this was relaxing. Also James' writing style was relaxing and very very slow, there are descriptions full of details.

low self-esteem: Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier
This books is suggested to people with a low self-esteem and it really helped. Compared to the main character, the second wife, I'm not a person with low self-esteem and I'm not a weak person like her. I feel much better after reading this book, I feel strong and my self-esteem increased a lot!

lack of ambition: The Crimson Petal and the White by Michel Faber
This book should help for people who suffer from lack of ambition. Well, after reading the story of Sugar, a prostitute who wants to come out of her misery, I'm really glad I'm a person without amibtions or targets. I live my serene life day after day and by sure I would never behave like Sugar to have something more from my life.

people who don't believe anymore in love: 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami
The story of Tengo and Aomame should help people to start believing again in love. When they were 10 years old Aomame holds tight Tengo's hand. She loved him but was never able to tell him and the only thing she could do is holding his hand for a long moment. From this day their lives take different ways because Aomame must move to another town. Now they are 30 years old but they have never forgotten each other though they were never brave enough to look for the other one. But their love is very strong and they will also make some important choices in their lives because of this love; it has influenced their lives though Tengo isn't aware of this while Aomame is.
The whole story doesn't talk about their love, but it is an important part of the book.
Did it help me to start believing again in love? No. I will continue to be the usual cynical person when something has to do with love.


2015:

B
be needy: True Grit by Charles Portis (I'm not a needy person but I liked the plot)

C
resistance to change: Monkey: The Journey to the West by Wu Cheng'en
cervical: I maestri di tuina by Bi Feiyu
claustrophobia: Little House on the Prairie: Little House on the Prairie #2 by Laura Ingalls Wilder
birthday sadness: Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie (I haven't this disease anymore but it's a long time I want to read this book so now I have an excuse to do it) ✔
fear of confrontation: My Name Is Asher Lev by Chaim Potok


resistance to changes: Monkey: The Journey to the West by Wu Cheng'en
This book is recommended to people who are reluctant to change and prefer to lead a peaceful, quiet and safe life.
I'm not afraid of changes but these must occurr gradually, I need time to prepare myself. Sudden changes, however, make me nervous and I rarely do things who are not organized. In The Novel Cure: From Abandonment to Zestlessness: 751 Books to Cure What Ails You the authors also refer to inner changes, but these can't be fearsome because often we are the driving force behind these changes and therefore these changes are sought and desired.
After reading this book nothing has changed in my life but I'm however glad to have read it because it's a good book!

fear of confrontations: My Name Is Asher Lev by Chaim Potok
This book should be read by people who are afraid of confrontations: if we don't want to live like Asher, we mustn't be scared by confrontations. Usually I'm not afraid of confrontations but it depends with whom I'm arguing. But it's true, I don't like to argue because I'm a calm and peaceful person and often I prefer to "flee" rather than face uncomfortable situations or unpleasant people. Asher needed to be accepted as he was, me not. I don't care if people understand or accept me, I am as I am with or without the approval of other people. But I also know that Asher is a young guy and he needed this approval to live in peace his passion. So I understand why Asher did never say something to his parents: in addition to be mentally closed and to don't be able to understand, he didn't want to hurt them. Did he solve his problem behaving this way? No, so I really don't care for approval and sometimes it's better to be an egoist. By sure everyone should find its identity and this should be done with or without confrontations though without an approval it's more difficult.

birthday sadness: Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie
This books is recommended to people that have birthday sadness. I don't have this disease but since I wanted to read this book since a long time, I decided to read it for this challenge. Well, from my 30th to my 40th I had some problems to accept my getting older but when I turned 40 I stopped to care about my age and now I'm a lovely 44 years old woman.
I loved this book and I must admit that compared to the main character everyone should be happy to celebrate his "normal" birthday and to have a normal life. Saleem Sinai, the main character, and other children born during the Indian Independece (at midnight of the 15th August 1947) have special powers that influence their lives, and not always in a good way. Compared to them no one should have birthday sadness.


message 5: by dely (last edited Oct 08, 2015 01:43PM) (new)

dely | 5214 comments Original language challenge

This is a new challenge and I want to read as many books as possible (at least 5) in the original language.
I will count separately books in a different language than Italian though it isn't the original language in which the book has been written.
Of course I won't count the books that have Italian as original language.

Bonus: seen that I would like to read Les Misérables if I will read it in French it will count as extra bonus and I will be very proud of myself!


2015

English:
The Taliban Cricket Club by Timeri N. Murari
Around India in 80 Trains by Monisha Rajesh
Butterfly Season by Natasha Ahmed
Eve's Diary, Complete with Original Cover Design and Over 50 Illustrations by Mark Twain

German:
Traumnovelle by Arthur Schnitzler
Hotel Savoy by Joseph Roth
Aus dem Leben eines Taugenichts by Joseph von Eichendorff


message 6: by Laurel (new)

Laurel Bradshaw (llawryf) | 703 comments Your Novel Cure challenge makes me laugh. Enjoyed your comments. Love the cat theme. I just added a birds list to mine.


message 7: by Evelyn (new)

Evelyn | 1410 comments Love the novel challenge! I can see The Shipping News fitting in quite well there. Have you seen the movie? The landscape is beautiful in spite of it's starkness. Of course the book is better : )


message 8: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Evelyn wrote: "Love the novel challenge! I can see The Shipping News fitting in quite well there. Have you seen the movie? The landscape is beautiful in spite of it's starkness. Of course the book is better : )"

No, I didn't know there was a movie about it. I think I will first read the book if I can manage to find it, it isn't that easy (at least an Italian translation). But the author is American, I could read it in English and add it also to the "original language challenge".

@Laurel, thanks! Yes, that challenge is more for fun and also to discover books and authors I otherwise wouldn't read.


message 9: by Evelyn (new)

Evelyn | 1410 comments Yes, Annie Proulx. The majority of the story is set in Newfoundland, Canada. I have a goal to visit every province and territory in Canada and I only have Newfoundland and Yukon Territory left. But as they are at opposite ends of the country, I won't be visiting them both in one trip!


message 10: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Evelyn wrote: "Yes, Annie Proulx. The majority of the story is set in Newfoundland, Canada. I have a goal to visit every province and territory in Canada and I only have Newfoundland and Yukon Territory left. ..."

Wow! Where do you live to be able to go so often to Canada?


message 11: by Evelyn (new)

Evelyn | 1410 comments I live in Saskatchewan, Canada, which is the reason for the goal. I find so many of my "well- traveled" friends have been all over the world, but are unaware of the beauty in our own country. I take 2 vacations a year, one in summer somewhere in Canada (The Thousand Islands this year) and one in winter somewhere tropical (this is Saskatchwan after all, can't take the winter without the promise of warmer weather!)


message 12: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Evelyn wrote: "I live in Saskatchewan, Canada, which is the reason for the goal. I find so many of my "well- traveled" friends have been all over the world, but are unaware of the beauty in our own country. I t..."

I don't know why, but I thought you were British!
I have your same opinion about Italy: there are a lot of wonderful places but sometimes people prefer to go abroad instead of visiting their own country.


message 13: by Evelyn (new)

Evelyn | 1410 comments Italy is on my bucket list!


message 14: by Alannah (new)

Alannah Clarke (alannahclarke) | 14746 comments Mod
Really interesting challenges, I wish you the best of luck.


message 15: by Jenny (new)

Jenny (jeoblivion) | 4893 comments love your challenge dely! I will follow with interest :)


message 16: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Thanks Alannah and Jenny ;-)


message 17: by LauraT (new)

LauraT (laurata) | 14377 comments Mod
Great chalenge dely! As usual ..


message 18: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments LauraT wrote: "Great chalenge dely! As usual .."

Thanks!


message 19: by Greg (new)

Greg | 8344 comments Mod
Some great and very cleverly organized challenges dely!


message 20: by Pink (new)

Pink I love your challenge ideas so much Dely! I too have The Novel Cure book and think it's fantastic, in fact you've reminded me to pull it off my shelf and have a flick through again.

That interactive map is great, I've been on the site playing around with countries myself :)


message 21: by Dhanaraj (new)

Dhanaraj Rajan | 2962 comments You are yet to visit my region......


message 22: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Thanks Greg ;-)


Pink wrote: "I love your challenge ideas so much Dely! I too have The Novel Cure book and think it's fantastic, in fact you've reminded me to pull it off my shelf and have a flick through again.

That interact..."


Thanks ;-)
There is also this site http://bighugelabs.com/map.php#top
I used it some years ago for a challenge "around-the-world".


Dhanaraj wrote: "You are yet to visit my region......"

I think I was there but with books I've read before starting the challenge. Also, if a book is set in two or more regions I choose only one to add.
You gave me a good idea: seen that I wasn't able to travel around India in one year I will add also the books set in India I've read in the previous years so I have a complete view of where I've been.


message 23: by Leslie (new)

Leslie | 16369 comments dely wrote: "My challenges are, like also Laurel said, reading plans more than real challenges. I don't want to force myself to read as many books as possible and I prefer to follow the mood of the moment. Read..."

Good attitude! For myself, the challenges should be fun not stress and, as you say, more of a plan than a real challenge. Of course, the nice thing is each person can make it as challenging or as nonchallenging as he or she chooses...

I am in awe of your idea of reading Les Misérables in French! Good luck with that (and all your other challenges as well)!


message 24: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Leslie wrote: "dely wrote: "My challenges are, like also Laurel said, reading plans more than real challenges. I don't want to force myself to read as many books as possible and I prefer to follow the mood of the..."

Thanks! Well, Les Miserables in French is just an idea. I think before starting it I should refresh my French with some easier reads.


message 25: by Overbooked ✎ (new)

Overbooked  ✎ (kiwi_fruit) | 473 comments The Novel Cure book idea is intriguing, does it work in your experience?

Good luck with your challenges, dely, they are quite original


message 26: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Kiwi wrote: "The Novel Cure book idea is intriguing, does it work in your experience?

Good luck with your challenges, dely, they are quite original"


No, it doesn't work but it is fun. Perhaps some book gives a relief while reading like Rebecca: this should be for people with a law self-esteem and reading the book I realized that mine isn't law self-esteem compared to the main character of the book. I felt really better but of course only while reading, it can't be compared to a real therapy.


message 27: by dely (last edited Jan 07, 2015 11:51PM) (new)

dely | 5214 comments India challenge:

1) Waiting for the Mahatma by R.K. Narayan (Malgudi doesn't exist but from the descriptions it seems it could be in Karnataka)


message 28: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments cat-challenge:

1) Best Cat Stories by Lesley O'Mara


message 29: by Leslie (new)

Leslie | 16369 comments dely wrote: "cat-challenge:

1) Best Cat Stories by Lesley O'Mara"


Have you read James Herriot's Cat Stories? I liked them quite a bit -- similar in style to his memoirs (All Creatures Great and Small etc)


message 30: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Leslie wrote: "dely wrote: "cat-challenge:

1) Best Cat Stories by Lesley O'Mara"

Have you read James Herriot's Cat Stories? I liked them quite a bit -- similar in st..."


Yes, I've read it two years ago and liked it.


message 31: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments original-language-challenge:

1) The Taliban Cricket Club by Timeri N. Murari


message 32: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments India challenge:

2) Delhi by Khushwant Singh (Delhi)


message 33: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments India challenge:

3) Un'isola di mistero : seguito delle avventure di viaggio di Dalle caverne e dalle giungle dell'Indostan by Helena Petrovna Blavatsky

It has more than one setting, I choose Madhya Pradesh because it is set above all there.


message 34: by dely (last edited Mar 16, 2015 02:33PM) (new)

dely | 5214 comments Original language challenge (German):

2) Traumnovelle by Arthur Schnitzler


message 35: by LauraT (new)

LauraT (laurata) | 14377 comments Mod
In Deutche? Wunderbar!


message 36: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments :D


message 37: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Original language challenge (German):

3) Hotel Savoy by Joseph Roth


message 38: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Novel Cure Challenge:

1) Monkey: The Journey to the West by Wu Cheng'en

This book is recommended to people who are reluctant to change and prefer to lead a peaceful, quiet and safe life.
I'm not afraid of changes but these must occurr gradually, I need time to prepare myself. Sudden changes, however, make me nervous and I rarely do things who are not organized. In The Novel Cure: From Abandonment to Zestlessness: 751 Books to Cure What Ails You the authors also refer to inner changes, but these can't be fearsome because often we are the driving force behind these changes and therefore these changes are sought and desired.
After reading this book nothing has changed in my life but I'm however glad to have read it because it's a good book!


message 39: by dely (last edited Apr 11, 2015 08:13AM) (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India + Original language (English)


4) Around India in 80 Trains by Monisha Rajesh

With this book I was roughly everywhere in India but I will choose only one state for my challenge: Goa


message 40: by [deleted user] (new)

Dely, that book sounds brilliant. I really enjoy travel books and I really enjoy travelling by train!


message 41: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Heather wrote: "Dely, that book sounds brilliant. I really enjoy travel books and I really enjoy travelling by train!"

You can give it a try but make sure to watch also the photos on the author's blog. It's a pity there isn't a paperback edition with the photos, this would have helped a lot.
In my opinion it isn't a good travelogue because there aren't deep descriptions of anything, nor places nor people she meets nor history. The descpritions also end in an abrupt way. It's more a book with her opinions and she seemed to me very egocentric and full of herself. I had also the feeling she felt superior to Indians living in India because she was an Indian born and raised in England.


message 42: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Original language, English

5) Butterfly Season by Natasha Ahmed


message 43: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India

5) The Sleeping Dictionary by Sujata Massey

West Bengal


message 44: by dely (last edited Jun 03, 2015 02:53AM) (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India-challenge

6) Idris : Keeper of the Light by Anita Nair

Kerala


message 45: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India:

7) L'Induismo by Mahatma Gandhi

(there is no real setting)


message 46: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India:

8) Krsna: The Supreme Personality of Godhead: v. 1 by A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda

Vrindavana-Uttar Pradesh


message 47: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India:

9) Sister of My Heart by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

West Bengala


message 48: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Far and wide through India:

10) Krsna: The Supreme Personality of Godhead, 2

Dwarka (Gujarat)


message 49: by [deleted user] (new)

which one did you like best, Krishna vol1 or vol2?


message 50: by dely (new)

dely | 5214 comments Giorgia wrote: "which one did you like best, Krishna vol1 or vol2?"

The first volume because at least there is the narration of the birth and the childhood of Krishna. I was sure in the second volume we would read about his life till his death but this didn't happen.

I've written two short reviews for each volume:
vol 1: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
vol 2: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...


« previous 1
back to top