Teen Girls Book Club discussion

Hey, so I was wondering if I could get some advice from some lesbians out there.

Also, am I allowed to do this kinda thing on this?????

Ok, well, i have this girl that ive liked for 8 months. She knows that I at some point liked her, but she thinks im over her, but im not. What do I do??????

But what if i dont think she likes me?????

Well, im bisexual!
Are you currently freinds with her?

Ish, we used to be best friends and now I guess we are kinda friends, but she still does and always mean the world to me❤️❤️❤️

Idk what to do

:Aria: wrote: "Ish, we used to be best friends and now I guess we are kinda friends, but she still does and always mean the world to me❤️❤️❤️"

Aww
Well, i was going to say get closer to her
So that then you can get a feel for whether she has or could hv feelings for you
She isnt straight is she 😭😭

Hm I suck for advice to ngl. It depends have y’all known each other for a while? Sometimes it’s better to stay friends cuz I’m a relationship it could be diff and u might end up losing both. That’s js what’s happened to me but on the other hand u could take the risk and see what happens. Srry my advice was pretty useless😭

So, I she has told me that she is straight, bi and a lesbian multiple different times......

:Aria: wrote: "So, I she has told me that she is straight, bi and a lesbian multiple different times......"

Oh i see
She might be abrosexual like me
Like, sexuakity changes

Wait so is she straight? Maybe if she was telling you she was trying to hint? Idk

I meant if she was telling u she’s bi and lesbian she’s hinting she likes you but idk

Sophia wrote: "I meant if she was telling u she’s bi and lesbian she’s hinting she likes you but idk"

Maybe
Maybe it wouod be better if you ask her rn what her sexuality is
Maybe you could ask for pronouns first then move it onto sexuality

Ik her pronouns, but i wanna know from her what her sexuality is without hinting I like her. Imma just cross my fingers that she is bi. Thx yall, Im so happy to be able to talk about this with people❤️❤️❤️

:Aria: wrote: "Ik her pronouns, but i wanna know from her what her sexuality is without hinting I like her. Imma just cross my fingers that she is bi. Thx yall, Im so happy to be able to talk about this with peop..."

Np!

hey im bisexual and im looking for a girlfriend could someone help me find one

Clare wrote: "hey im bisexual and im looking for a girlfriend could someone help me find one"

Irl?

Aphrodite ~ Happy Valentines ♥ wrote: "Clare wrote: "hey im bisexual and im looking for a girlfriend could someone help me find one"

Irl?"

preferably but online works too

Clare wrote: "Aphrodite ~ Happy Valentines ♥ wrote: "Clare wrote: "hey im bisexual and im looking for a girlfriend could someone help me find one"

Irl?"

preferably but online works too"

Well, on goodreads there are some groups
Like this one, wait, let me get the link

https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/...

Aphrodite ~ Happy Valentines ♥ wrote: "https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/..."

thanks

Clare wrote: "Aphrodite ~ Happy Valentines ♥ wrote: "https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/..."

thanks"

Np :)

~♡Aria♡~ wrote: "Ik her pronouns, but i wanna know from her what her sexuality is without hinting I like her. Imma just cross my fingers that she is bi. Thx yall, Im so happy to be able to talk about this with peop..."

I need an update!! what happened??

Hey sup girls Pan here. Personally I’ve never actually had a partner but I think maybe just being honest about your feelings

Cherry wrote: "hey so I know a boy in our school he's the same age as mine. we play basketball. and let me tell you we hated each other. but now I think that he' s kinda staring at me whenever I am in my classroo..."

Okay so this happened to me a ton with my dude friends. In my experience, it might mean he likes you. From his body language try and see if your in a room with him if he is facing a bit towards you or his feet/legs are pointed at you could be a sign. Leaning toward you?
Hope this helps!

I haven't been in a relationship with anyone yet, but I guess try flirting with her and see how she reacts? Like touch her arm or shoulder with your hand and see if she moves away or if she likes it. I wouldn't make a move yet, to keep her from distancing herself from you I guess? Idk, I'm just guessing that might be a good thing to try.

Hi I’m Pan 💗💛💙 and honestly I think I’m pan I’m really confused though
Likeeeee I don’t have a preference over gender as long as they have a good personality. But sometimes I think I might be gay. But I’m a big supporter anyway but I feel maybe I’m making myself feel like I’m gay. PLEASE HELP!!

Anyone?

I’m straight but I have a lot of friends who are gay or bi so sorry if this advice is inaccurate. One of my friends had a similar issue one time so I told her to look around a room of people and to look for ones she was attracted to. And if there are multiple genders of people that you find cute or hot then you probably like multiple genders, but if you only find one gender then maybe you are gay. Though you may have just not found the right person that is a different gender from those you usually like. But before you decide to change your sexuality, wait a while and see what genders you are attracted to. And if you only find one like I said before, then you might be gay. I hope this helps!

That’s what I’m doing I don’t want to put that sort of label on myself yet because who knows what I could straight

Yes I get what you mean. It could also take time to figure it all out, so don’t try to rush yourself. When you figure out you will know.

my style is like sorta Tom boy ish, I like to where my jeans and ball cap but I also kinda have like that boho chic style and kinda feel like it’s sorta gay🤣🤣

It’s official I’ve fallen in love with my husband of 11 years.
We got married when I was three

Cienna wrote: "It’s official I’ve fallen in love with my husband of 11 years.
We got married when I was three"

Three??

ok guys i have a little problem. please send help. so i do mun (model united nations) as a club at school and i did the first conference of the year last week and my friend who i also have a crush on was in my same committee and i really did not think it was obvious i like him but at the end we did superlatives in a google form and me and him got voted most likely to be a couple by almost everyone. i was so surprised and just said something like " um no i'd rather not" and it was super weird because we have a couple classes together and are good friends. later we were talking to one of our friends who was in a different committee and he said we got voted most likely to be a couple and she said " i understand" and we were so confused like what you see it??? and she just said she understands that friends don't want to be shipped so that was a relief. so far i've just been pretending it never happened, not mentioning it to anyone, and whenever someone mentions i just say that was super weird. but idk what to do!!!

Also I forgot but we also did this thing called confession once we were done with superlatives where you write something on a paper and give it to the leaders of your group and they mix it up in a cup and read them aloud and nobody knows who wrote it. some other people wrote stuff about us being most likely to be a couple and it was so weird. someone wrote something like "usa and venezuela are flirting and are going to date" (i was usa and he was venezuela) and the whole group was saying yes that they agree and me and my crush were just like no way. and someone wrote something like "i have a crush on venezuela ( its me usa)" and the whole group was saying things like wow so brave of you usa and i was saying it wasnt me and they could check the handwriting. anyways what do I do!? Also i feel like my crush on him has been kinda fading lately but idk.

Oop thats quite a situation, if I was in that situation I would just kinda wait and see if the crush kept fading or if it got stronger just like keep talking to "venezuela" and see what you feel.

I'm bi, with a preference for girls, and most people know it. I have "crushes" on a few girls, but I can't tell if they're actually flirting with me, or just doing it to make fun of/make me mad. Plz help.

Grace wrote: "I'm bi, with a preference for girls, and most people know it. I have "crushes" on a few girls, but I can't tell if they're actually flirting with me, or just doing it to make fun of/make me mad. Pl..."

I understnad how thay is but honestly best way to find out is to ask if thy are inti girls

@clara van d thanks for the advice. I'll see how it goes

@the lighting before thunder

Yup I think it was actually five though. I think I actually have crush on him though and all my friends suspect it should I tell them the truth?

Also I came out to my friends this week. I still have not come out to my best friend because she doesn’t support LGBTQ. (I’m Pansexual)

Hey! I need some friendship advice! I’m in a group of 4 girls we can call them Lisa, Fred, Janet, and me.😭 So Janet and Fred have known eachother longer. So they are a lot closer. They have sleepovers and stuff. Me and Lisa have sleepovers just the two of us to. But the difference is we don’t talk about it and bring up our inside jokes CONSTANTLY. The breaking point was when I figured out that Janet was dating a guy we will call him pineapple. So I figured Fred probably knows. (Lisa didn’t know either) so I asked Fred and she said she knew. And it just made me sad. We’re in middle school so drama is normal but is this? Also
I saw an email between Janet and Pineapple and Pineapple said” who is your best friend” with Janet replied “ probably Fred or Nia” (Nia just another girl from a mutual friend group.) ok and finally Fred went out of town and missed school for a few days. While she was gone Janet didn’t sit with us at all she sat at Nia’s table. Ty so much if you’ve made it this far….i really need some help! I want to try and be the bigger person but sometimes it’s hard. 😭😭😭

it is so hard not to get involved with drama but I would say just be nice to all of them don't specifically exclude anyone or be mean to anyone. you could ask Janet what she thinks and just be open :) hope this helps and lmk how it goes

Ok so I need some advice. There is this guy that I met in marching band, and I’ve liked him ever since. But all of my friends think he likes me. Here are some of the reasons:

- my bsf has caught him staring like 100 times
- we had to bring a speaker up for marching band and he was “trying to protect me” by having me bring one of the speakers up with him and the entire time he was “encouraging” me and trying to be sweet by taking all the weight n stuff
- he started following me on insta
- (i also followed him) and he’s been watching ALL of my stories
- he took time to explain something to me that others asked but only showed me
- i could have sworn he hesitated when giving me a high five (after giving him tickets to get a giant monkey at Dave n busters (we were there for a trip))


So the advice I need is that number one: I still have doubts he likes me 😭 (he’s a little over a year older than me but 2 school years) and number two: if there is a possibility should I ask him out???

The other problem is that he’s part of my friend group in marching band and I don’t want to ruin that

I meant to write “I don’t want to ruin that”

no, you should pull a 10 things I hate about you. with the exact song

but he definitely likes you

I thinks so as well.

I'm going into high school soon and am FREAKING out! Any suggestions to help me out?