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So last night... someone who posed as the Identity of a friend of mine from school....did some sexual things to me over messenger....they claimed to be my friend forcing me to send inappropriate pictures of myself to them and asked several times if I was horny and if I could meet them somewhere....in Whitehall NY...idk what to do...and I feel like this was all my fault...I HATE how beautiful I am bc this ALWAYS happens....ik it's wrong to insult yourself....but it's ig way to feel I have protection over myself.... doesn't work.....idk what to it's all my fault.....

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, I hope you're okay

I'll be ok.. eventually..

That’s really icky and I’m sorry :(

I had my suspicions since yesterday but I didn't think it'd be as worse as it was and how it had went down...

so my ex best friend just old my girlfriend that im using her for her gifts, and told one of my friends a secret abt me AND my mom. i made sure to tell my current best friend abt this and he freaked out on her, and sent her this:
okay, look, we need to get a few things straight. rory is not using valerie for her gifts. you have no right to be a stuck up prick. you are at fault for spreading lies about them, and continuing to do it isnt going to make it any better. stop. it would make rorys and your life better if you would just stop trying so hard to make their life hell.

im lucky i have such good friends by my side who would help me like that. but also why would she take advantage of valerie (my girlfriend) like that??? there is no way that she wouldve told anyone but valerie that because she is the most gullible person i know. she almost broke up with me. but i would never use someone unless i had a huge hatred for them, and i still wouldnt be good at faking being their friend because im not very subtle. i blocked my ex best friend. i think were all good until she starts gossiping abt me again.

I honestly think that your ex bff needs to legit go away

she moved too bristol luckily so i dont have to see her

but she manipulated my girlfriend and that did not feel good to think there was a time where my girlfriend didnt trust me

She shouldn't have tried to ruin your relationship in anyway she's in the wrong and is a horrible person for doing so I think she's doing it bc she's jealous over your life and is trying to put you down to make herself better than others

i have an update:

shes currently guilt tripping my friend into letting me be friends with her again. she said shes been apparently "crying for 4 days" but i know she hasnt. my friend told her to back off, and that i'm not going to be friends with her again. she decides that she doesnt have to call me rory (instead of lorelai) because her mom said she didnt have to. She also told my enemy things about me that not even my family knows because i yelled at her ONE DAMN TIME after constantly asking her politely to stop pronouncing my name wrong all day. now i live in fear that shes gonna tell her mom that i have a girlfriend and about my youtube channel, and then her mom is gonna tell mine about these things and ill be in trouble.

Why would you be in trouble for having a gf? And this girl really needs to quit her bullshit

idk but my parents dont know i have one, they know im gay but not that!

Being myself is a sin...ok I'll put on a smile nothing to be worried about just toxic christians... being christian I'm a sin for being a live...how funny...I'm a din for having mental disabilities hilarious...never thought my life could get any worse guess I'll never see mawmaw again....why tf am I crying...I shouldn't over something so...so... pathetic... lesbian is a sin....my life is a sin....if I were dead...I'd never see mawmaw again...bc of my liking to woman... goddamnit....stop crying already...i already hate myself enough already...
I'll just go get the knife...I need another life lesson....

being gay is not a sin it was just a translation error in the bible that EVERYONE takes seriously. im gay and a christian and i dont care if ppl call it a sin, ima still be gay! what ppl say osnt gonna define me, so why should i let it?

It still hurts..

God loves everybody no matter what, and you cant choose your sexuality, therefore it cannot be a sin <3

I just sent a message to my girlfriend that was really hard to write.
She sent me:
I only say that you are beautiful to Maddie but the only thing that I ask is why are you two always fighting I don't want to be dragged into the middle of this okay just don't get mad at me okay because I will not be there to comfort you okay just don't try to make me mad the only thing that I want you to do is say why you and Maddie are annoyed with me hanging out with the both of you

I eent her back:
Maddie has backstabbed me, and told my secrets to someone I don't like. I felt used by her because I felt like she was only trying to get friends by being friends with me. She always crossed my boundaries, and forced me to do things I didn't want to. She got offended by the smallest things and then goes off and breaka my boundaries again and again and again. All she ever did was make things worse, specifically in seventh grade. I yelled at her once, she goes off and tells my enemy my secret. The entire Uno incident. Dragging me into things when I wasn't at school with the Cameron and Cameron thing. I felt unloved and that she was the most important thing in my life because she ruled over it. I never should have brought her to youth group. I never should've let her make those friends. I never should've forgiven her for what she did in May. I would be in a much better position now, maybe even still going to youth group and not being afraid to see my friends if it weren't for her. I shouldn't be afraid like this because of something so petty, how she would stoop so low, in telling Gifti that I don't like her (that was a big deal at the time). Then she proceded to say she doesn't have to call me Rory. I've started to classify "Lorelai" as a dead name, and that I wish to not be called that. Then she pulls out the "My mom says I don't have to call you Rory if I don't have to" card and keeps calling me Lorelai, and using She/Her pronouns. Even when texting Ana she called me Lorelai used she/her pronouns. You've known me a year longer than she has and you still use they/them and call me Rory, but she can't grip the fact that I'm no longer Lorelai, the good little girl who is too wimpy to not realize I'm being used. I know what it's like to be used. I had it in my old school. I'm not going to let anyone use me like they did, so I'm starting with calling Maddie out.

Context: Maddie is the Ex-Best friend from before, and Ana is the one who sent a message defending me from Maddie.

also gifti is my enemy from youth group

More texts:
Her:
Yeah but I still love you Lorelai, Rory
Me:
I'm not going to be friends with someone who has pushed my boundaries over and over again. It will make me become more emotional and reserved. I don't want to be in a friendship with someone who drains me and puts me into a depression. If you can't realize that, I don't think I can stay your girlfriend.

That's messed up honestly I think the best thing you should do is block all contact with Maddie and her friends don't even talk to her ignore her presence best way to solve that issue if h do that she'll stop bc she'll realize she's not getting the attention she desires honestly Maddie should learn respect for others and your gf to bc it seems that she's more on Maddie's side of this rather than yours and helping you rather just calling it annoying I get it she doesn't want to be wrapped up in the drama but as she is your gf she should still listen and be there for you when you're going through a tough time as this and not side with a toxic person who's clearly the enemy here as for the gf situation I don't think you should break up with her but rather distance and get some space with one another til some of this dives down I hope this was helpful for u and u do not deserve to go through this I hope you get better ❤️

thanks. I really needed that❤️

Your welcome just remember your amazing and if other people can't see that or respect you they don't deserve to be around you and ik there are people out there who still care and respect you and love you you are perfect just the way you are and your boundaries are set for your own safety and there is nothing wrong with that Maddie shouldn't have used you like that nor disrespected your boundaries and personal business like that
And as for your girlfriend she should be there for you even if she doesn't want to be apart of it she should still show sympathy and be there and support and help u no matter what

so i broke up with val right?

well now one of my worst enemies knows who my crush is because someone i trusted told him. now me, my friend, and my crush (who knows i like her now) are trying to let her know that was not ok

Some ppl I swear why'd they do that?

I dont know. She said she told him because they were talking about how me and my ex had broken up, but now she just outright denies that she did anything wrong.

My best friend is being really rude and acting like she's mad at me and idk how to confront her because I'm scared I did sonething wrong and she's gonna hate me.

This is the same person I have a crush on and we were in a talking stage for a relationship this week but she outright rejected me yesterday and is now being really rude and idk if she's like PMSing or something, but I'm worried out friendship is ruined because of my crush.

Like I told her abt a webtoon creator who has a yt and how i disnt know that she's being rude about it so idk what's going on

Rory~Apologize~I'll find the truth with my lies~ wrote: "I dont know. She said she told him because they were talking about how me and my ex had broken up, but now she just outright denies that she did anything wrong."

Man that's awful I'm really sorry I hope it gets better for u!

Rory~Apologize~I'll find the truth with my lies~ wrote: "My best friend is being really rude and acting like she's mad at me and idk how to confront her because I'm scared I did sonething wrong and she's gonna hate me.

This is the same person I have a c..."

I mean I would try and confront her and ask what you did wrong cuz it seems like she has no reason to hate you I mean I don't think it could be bc if you liking her but you never know hopefully this will get resolved and she'll stop being so mean

like, I sent a drawing to our group chat that I was super proud of and she responded with "don't let it happen again" and I was so confused because I like it

That's when I'd be like "bitch get the fuck off my back I did nothing to you you stupid entitled twat"

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OOOOh, she's definitely an energy vampire. Ouch.

Purple, from what I've read, she MIGHT take that as the compliment it is not... .

my life is shit.

everyone is leaving me and i fucking hate it