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let it out.

So theres a girl named Nicole that I was like kinda friends with and ig over time we got closer and then like last wednesday @ lunch she asked me to sit a chair away from her even tho there was no one there and then I texted her but she didn't reply even tho she's on her phone 24/7 but like then I txted her today and

Here's the convos:
Me:r u mad @ me?
Her:WHYY
me:cause u seem to be avoiding me☹️
Her:MORP
Me: what's MORP?
*20 minutes later*
Me:see ur literally avoiding me
Her:bro it's break leave me alone im tryna hang out w/ the gang
Me:k (not knowing what gang she's talking Abt)

ANYWAYS

Any advice 😭?
She's like one of my only friends at my school but she keeps acting like she doesn't like me💀

⁠✿laura⁠✿ wrote: "Any advice 😭?
She's like one of my only friends at my school but she keeps acting like she doesn't like me💀"

literally drop her. no friends is better than fake friends girl, get that toxicity out of your life!!

i usually wouldn't do this, but i really need an outlet rn so take my shitty emotion dump:

me and my dad have a really rough relationship, he's currently taken away my phone and computer (i had to get a school issued one and i remember none of my passwords...) and as an extrovert i'm feeling really fucking lonely right now. not only that, but he tends to yell a lot and our family dinners end in tears. it gives me so much anxiety just to hear him over the phone, and my biggest fear is coming home every night simply because he takes so much out of me. i have wasted so much of my energy being angry and trying to steel myself against him so i don't break down crying every time , but i'm so goddamn tired. i really can't do this anymore and i'm afraid that eventually i'll just give up. i have no idea what to do and i'm so drained. i just need sleep and not to see him for a while but i doubt that'll happen.

thanks for letting me do wtv the fuck this was lol

I'm sorry

you should talk to a good friend and have a sleepover for a few nights so you can get away and hopefully sleep better not in the same house as him

Etta wrote: "you should talk to a good friend and have a sleepover for a few nights so you can get away and hopefully sleep better not in the same house as him"

i wish :// but i'm not allowed to have sleepovers my parents are insanely strict

raegan i’m so sorry you have to go through that

also im sorry i spelled your name wromg

tessaa ⸆⸉ wrote: "also im sorry i spelled your name wromg"

jsjsj ur good and thanks babs, i'm pushing thru <3

@regan

💔 Honestly i can relate :/ me and my mom dont get along that well either ☹️☹️☹️ I don't have that much advice bc my parents are pretty strict too 😭


Thanks for the advice earlier too !!!!

So I like this guy who is about 3 years older than me and he’s dating a girl who is about my age and she’s super annoying. And she’s kind of a pick me. He is flirty with everybody and the other day he and I were talking about mental health (which we both struggle with) and he said “I love you so much” and then I said “no you don’t you don’t have to lie I get it” and he said “why do you think I’m lying?” He also had his arms around me when he said that and I (out of instinct) put my head on his shoulder. Then I had to leave and I told my gay best friend about this and he said “ew that’s nasty” so I don’t know what to do because he’s so nice to me but he’s kind of a player. I don’t think I would date him but I don’t know. I know he wouldn’t date me but one of my older friends said to me “you never know what the future will bring” so I just have no idea what to do.

Any advice? (Keep in mind: He’s 17 I’m 14 and his gf just turned 16 and they started dating when she was 15…) I know this is kind of lame but it’s a problem for me

RUNNNNNN as a 17 years old you’d NEVER catch me with a 14 years old. The maturity gap is too big. A 3 years age gap is only fine adter you’re 20.

I’m trying to figure how to tell the girlfriend to run because he’s just going to break her heart so like.. fun fact: he used to like my older sister who is (ironically) three years older than him and she friend zoned him. I’m trying to run lol

And also I’m offended that you would think he’s more mature than I am (jk. Even tho I am more mature)

It's not that, it's the fact that you are in different situations. He is most likely thinking about college whereas you may have just started high school. Plus, the fact that he is older means that he may try to gr00m you. Although you may not have rose-tinted glasses, this kind of people can easily manipulate you after some time, so it's safer to distance yourself. Try to leave his girlfriend an anonymous message and explain this to her. She is in a difficult situation.

I don't mean to offend you, is just that I see this stuff to often with my classmates (both boys and girls) and I am fed up with watching 17/18 years olds break the hearts of 13/14 years olds.
I think that unless the age gap is one year, but still in the same grade is not acceptable until after you're in college.

lol I totally get it. Even tho I don’t think I said I would date him I will definitely distance myself. I’ve known him for almost 8 years… it’s time to stop 😂🫣 I don’t really appreciate his dating record obviously. Another thing about the girlfriend is that when I introduced myself to her she was kind of rude to me so I’m just kind of like “you put yourself in this situation. You can get yourself out of it” but yeah thanks for the advice!

She may have just been insecure! Girls in this situation are scared of being replaced by a younger girl. Try to help her, and if she won't listen to reason, know that at least you tried to do the right thing. Even though she may not be one, you need to be a girls' girl. We need to have each others' backs. Of course, this doesn't mean making a big deal, just ghost him and warn her over an anonymous note or dm over a private account she doesn't know.

GUYS I AM LITERALLY NOT OKAY RN!!!!!
Last Friday, this boy told me he liked me (at school). I told him that I’m sorry, but I don’t feel the same way.
Monday, HE TEXTS ME AT 5 IN THE MORNING!!!!! Then he keeps on trying to talk to me at school, but I ignored him because I had a vibe that something bad would happen if I engaged with him again.
Tuesday comes around, same old story.
After I get home, I have a fever (there’s a flu going around and I caught it), so I stay home.
Wednesday, I’m home so idk what happening:
Today, I was still at home sick when one of my (girl) classmates texts me that he is declaring his love for me im front of the WHOLE class and told them he’s not giving up on me and that he’ll bring me flowers when I go back to school.
I freak out, like he’s embarrassing me in front of the WHOLE CLASS!!!! (I alr get mildly bullied so this wasn’t helping)
He keeps on going for a couple of hours and this girl (whom he apparently did the same thing, just not in front of the class) told me: say it on the class groupchat, tell him to leave you alone. He did the same with me until I said it publicly and it took a year and a half for him to stop.

So I did! I told him (I’ll translate it for you guys)
“No means no. Leave me alone. I’m sorry that you don’t know the difference between friendship and love” he apparently started twisting the story, telling everyone that I started it all because I asked him to hold my hand. Yes, I did. When I was having a panic attack. I asked him to hold my hand while crossing the street so I could reach the bench to call my mom. This girl (BLESS HER) then called me and put me on speaker for the whole class to hear so I could tell MY version of this story. Everyone sided with me (even the people who can’t stand me!!!!) and she said that he burst out laughing so he wouldn’t start crying.
He told me that he’s leave me alone (on that call) I blocked him everywhere else.
Anyway, scared to go back to school on Monday!!

I think that guy may have hit his head a few to many times. You did the right thing queen and the school will get over it if there not already and also now everyone knows that he’s a freak so there’s that too. Ik this prob dosent help but yeah 👍