Venting group discussion

Talk about the stuff that pisses you off

OMG I hate how women get harassed like stop!!!

Watch this!!!
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ᥫ᭡London_Ava-Joyᥫ᭡ wrote: "OMG I hate how women get harassed like stop!!!"

Like, I swear we are not safe half the time. It's hella sad!

Women get raped and men don't get like a long time punishment. For me who has been sexually assaulted young. And or me to have 2 adult brothers. They hate it. What if that girl was your daughter, or sister, or mother. idk. Like when will men get the memo. and when girls where skirts or an outfit that they like and boys like catcall you or smth and they say the girl was asking for it. No they weren't they were just walking. Keep it in your pants and shut up!!!

Okay soooo I have been hit by an Adult before at my church. But here is the thing he is basically like my cousin and is on the spectrum. And like anyways we been like siblings. But he actually did hit me on my back then push me to the ground. Anyways the person watching over us said nothing, NOTHING!!! Like sir you need to tell M off. Let call the guy M. anyways the person watching over us literally said, "Boys will be boys" So I retorted. this.
"So boys can yk just push women or even MINORS down and not get punished? If I hit M then I would get in trouble. But no that is just me being "Unlady like" While boys can just hit people"
Let just say we quit our game and our session. I told my councilor and all she got my parents involved. And my oldest brother who worked with kids like M. Anyways... M and his family were at my second oldest brother's grad on Sunday and dinner. And me and my siblings were soooo mad. Like no he cannot be here. And like my family uses M's disability as an excuse so when they were about to say it. I finally told them to cut it out just cause he had an disability he cannot go everywhere and hurt women. That is not alright. That is just hiding behind your disability. I got in trouble cause of that. Then another time I was slapped on my chest by him and my brother was ready to beat him up. But being the responsible one. I calmly told M off and all. Anyways that is basically my little rant thanks for reading lol.

literally my least fave saying in "Boys will be Boys" Like what the heck does that mean! Boys can do whatever like the sick patriarchy.

You know what really pisses me off?

Is that when we are in our teens and guys treat us like crap, and when we run to a trusted adult, they say, "Oh, he likes you" bitch, what? He just tried to invade my personal space and got hella aggressive. Are you sure about that?

You know, what else bothers me is church creeps. They use God to hurt us, and the church is fully aware but defends the pervert. From kindergarten to 5th grade, I went to a private school, and I was a typical goody-two-shoes Christian church girl who did anything she was asked. Still, the one thing I was always in trouble for was not being "alone" with the principal's husband because he gave me the creeps. I told my mom, and I'm very blessed she believed me based on only my words. But this next part is a story about him. I'm going to call him MR. Z.

So, in 2nd grade, we went on a field trip to a "Walt Camp." It was a Christian summer camp, and the purpose of the field trip was to show us the camp and encourage the parents to send us there in the summer. All the grades were sent, so both my parents went; my mother went with me, and my dad went with my brother. Ok, so now, on to the event. We got there, we went through this trail and then ended up in this vast building and this huge set up for arts and crafts and another table with a shit ton of ponchos *It was raining that day* so each kid got sent up to get one alongside with their parent and after that it was arts and crafts time which Mr. Z was the one running the little stations when I saw him I felt sick and told my mom I didn't like him and that was the man I did not like. This is where things get hella messed up. As the little girls *my classmates* were at that table picking out some glitter, he got behind them and rubbed his body against the girls. This ass wipe was then about to do it, to be, but my mom saved my ass and told him to fuck off in the nicest way she could. Long story short, my dad took charge of me, and my dad made it clear to the man he was going to beat his ass if he got close to me again.

Sorry for the long comment; ever since then, I stayed away from church gatherings because I was always harassed by older me as a little girl, and it made me scared, but now as an adult, I'm pepper spraying them, lol

Okay this is a fun and sad story. There was this little girl near me at the library and this strange guy near her telling her, "her mom sent him" He gave me the creeps so I asked the girl do you know this guy she said no. So I told the guy to leave the premise and to leave this little kid or I will get the librarian (Cause I am literally not even able to fend him off by myself) He kept on persisting then I finally took the girl to the girl's bathroom and ask her if she knew the creep. Said she didn't anyways. I finally saw that the coast was clear and apparently her mom was looking for her. ofc I told her mom what happened and this was the best compliment.

"You are an Angel" OMG what!!! Anyways thought that was cool.

Thanks

ᥫ᭡Ava {Carlos Sainz Jr version}ᥫ᭡ wrote: "Okay this is a fun and sad story. There was this little girl near me at the library and this strange guy near her telling her, "her mom sent him" He gave me the creeps so I asked the girl do you kn..."

Good for you!