Venting group discussion

Vent bout your problems.

So there was this girl at my old school. I thought we were going to be very close and all. We got along all year we were in volleyball together. And all. But then like right after Christmas break. She started rumors and all. Like she also leaked out my personal messages. And she said that is was a "Toxic" Friendship when she was the toxic one. I was trying to keep the friendship like still up. I forgave her and all. And then she had the nerve to go and attack my brothers and sisters. And then attacked my other friends. I ended up breaking the friendship up. Nobody ever will ever get a free pass for hurting my family. I will do anything for them to be safe.

Okay, sooooooo

I've had a crush on this guy on a video game for almost two years. This guy has liked me back for almost two years. We've told each other we love each other multiple times. We both have YouTube channels with proof that we are who we say we are on them. However, a little over a year ago I got hundreds of more subscribers than him and he got mad and told me to stop posting. He stopped talking to me for almost a year. I thought it was over between us until he came back in January. I realized why he stopped talking to me. He lost something important to him before the fight, and he took it out on me. Anyways, we fell in love again. However, at the end of March he told me he was going to quit the video game we played. I convinced him to stay. Until he stopped playing and hasn't been online for over a month. I remembered before he asked for my email multiple times. And I found that he gave his email to someone on his YouTube channel, so I took the opportunity and I emailed him a week ago. I'm still waiting for his reply.

You did the right thing, Aves. Having bad friends is hard. Proud of you.

Thanks. She still spread rumors about me.

Idk how to feel about my boyfriend right now. I really dont have anyone personal to go to and my notes arent helping. We havent hang out in over a month anda half so sometimes in school ill grab his arm or squeeze his hand before I go on the bus. He complains that I walk to close and that he doesnt like being touchy in public but he proceeds to give his friends piggy back rides and other stuff. He also continues to kick me and is now grabbing my neck as 'jokes' but ive asked him to stop. Im so conflicted about my emotions and ive gave up on talking to him because apperently chickens and ducks are an all day thing. We have wegitables that are animals and we call them our kids, ive had to remind him to take care of them and he just yelled at me so I shutted down yesterday. Im shutting down again today but it's to the point of refusing to eat. I know ive heard the 'hes so toxic just leave him' but idk its just too much to think about breaking up right now. Idk how to approach him about it either because I really love him and we've been together for a year and a half

I think its worth to mention was that from February to March we were arguing daily and he always brings it up to make me feel bad. Ive told him that I do and regretted saying the things I did. We had a 'break up' but it wasnt even a break up for like a week, then near the end of it my friend was talking to him and they said "You either gonna have to fix this or break up" he said "I dont want to but i think a breakup is necessary."

I didnt confront him like last time, if he actually wanted to break up, he wouldve grown the balls to do it (HE DIDNT) So he brings that time up a lot. He also make jokes that makes me really uncomfortable and scared sometime (ex. 'Be careful walking in your yard because theres land mines') Ive told him and ask him to stop, he didnt. He just brought up the things that he asked me to stop but Ive been trying to stop. That thing is literally just walking 'too close' to him.

@Niko I'm so sorry :( I'm not an expert when it comes to relationships but I don't think he's a very good boyfriend. I hope you two can work this out, maybe you need to hear his side of the story. But Idk.

@Ellie That is so scary! I hope that she's okay and safe! Praying.

They don't seem like very good friends, I'm sorry that is happening to you.

I say make a move if you haven't

Ok, so I had this friend, who had stuck around for longer than anyone, over a year actually, almost two, and I developed a large crush on them. They just left me as a friend a couple of weeks ago, and I haven't been able to move on. I did everything I could do to make sure they were happy, and that I would never hurt them, because I cared about them so much. But it didn't matter. They told me that they'd be "annoyed" if I attempted to off myself again. They told me right in front of my (now only) friend that they didn't want to be friends with me anymore. I can't be in the same room as them without wanting to cry.
Now, my friend, lets call him N, is showing me more care than my ex friend ever did, and I appreciate it sm. He knows I love hugs, and gives them to me whenever he can, while ex-friend wouldn't even touch me unless I was having a panic attack or hella sick.
but now, I think I'm catching feelings for N, and I don't know if I want feelings for him. Im 100% not ready for another relationship, and I don't want to ruin our friendship. But people see us, and say he's in love with me, and I'm scared that if he does like me, ill feel obliged to be with him, and that terrifies me.


anyways, that's all pooks <3

I understand that feeling completely. I was afraid of love (and still am). I just wanted to say that this person seems very nice and I understand that you don't want a relationship yet. And that's okay because you can be friends and get to know each other better! There's nothing wrong with just being friends with someone. ( Unless you are being friend zoned)

@lynn yeah everything is good now, we talked it out so we're okay ^^

That's good!!!

Ok so there is this girl
And she and I were best friends for about 2 years. And I was soooo blind because I couldn’t realize she was manipulating me. Whenever we would hang out separately we would have fun and whatever but when we were in public she would never talk to me. She also ignored me constantly and whenever I would be struggling with something I could be crying in front of her and she wouldn’t notice/care. And when I tried to fight with her I would tell her what I was mad at her for she would act all upset then forget about me unless I brought it up again. I tried to ignore her as a way to solve our problems so she would see I was mad at her but she didn’t even notice so about a year ago I decided to stop talking to her entirely because she was toxic. None of her friends really liked me so she wouldn’t talk to me because she was embarrassed of being friends with me. And there was this guy. She was really good friends with him and she would always ditch me for him but he wasn’t her best friend she would say that was me even though she denied it. She would talk bad about her besties to me behind their back but then like constantly hang out with them and have so much fun. She would always leave me out from things and then tell be all about them. She was so toxic and when I tried to ignore her she didn’t even notice so I slowly stopped talking to and interacting with her

Lanna wrote: "Lastly, they are now talking crap about one another to my face, and I always tell them to STFU. No one told them to speak on my name, and the only victim here is me, and if they are so mad, then th..."

UPDATE!!

Okay, so last weekend, these two decided to make up and apologize to each other. Not to me, of course. But after I told them to pretty much suck it up and deal with it, choice C decided to apologize to my boyfriend, and my boyfriend accepted my apology. They both told me that this would never happen again, that they loved me and wanted me to be happy, and that they were sorry for stressing me out. Now it's squashed, but there is still a tiny bit of tension, which is normal. So far, everything looks good.